Iingcamango zokunqongophala kunye nokuthintela kwamalungelo omzali ahluke, nangona ngokuphindaphindiweyo isibini ithatha kuqala kuqala. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda umahluko, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ubunzulu kunye nemigangatho yokuthintela.
Umda weli lungelo lomzali ngumlinganiselo wesikhashana, oquka ukususwa komntwana kubazali. Ingaba ngumlinganiselo wokhuseleko lomntwana, kunye nomlinganiselo wokutshutshiswa kwabazali. Kuvunyelwe kwiimeko apho abazali abangenakukwazi ukuyenza imisebenzi yabo ngokufanelekileyo, umzekelo, xa kunesifo esibi, ingxaki yengqondo okanye xa kungenakuphumelela ukudibana neemeko zobomi obunzima. Kuyavela, abazali abanetyala kule meko, kodwa abantwana nabo abafanele bahlupheke.
Kunokwenzeka ukukhawulela amalungelo omzali womnye wabazali - uyise okanye umama, ngoko umntwana unokuhlala nomnye, ukuba imeko iyavuma.
Izizathu zokunciphisa amalungelo omzali:
- Abazali abafezekanga imisebenzi yabo, ngelixa bexhaphaza amalungelo, kodwa ukubunjwa kwecala kwizenzo zabo akukho, kuba akukho nxalenye enkulu - ityala;
- ukuziphatha kwecala kubazali kumntwana, onokuthi ube yisizathu sokunqongophala ngokupheleleyo kwamalungelo kumntwana, kodwa engakabonwa njengokwaneleyo;
- Ukungabikho kwamalungelo omzali ngumlinganiselo ogqithiseleyo, ngoko ke, ukuba kukho ithemba, ukuba ukuziphatha kwabazali kumntwana kuya kutshintsha ukulungelelaniswa, kuthintela amalungelo.
Ixesha lokukhawulelwa kwamalungelo omzali
Kakade ke, awukwazi ukushiya umntwana kunye nabazali abathi ngenxa yesizathu esithile abanako okanye abanqweneli ukuwunakekela, yingakho abazali baxoxwa ngokunciphisa amalungelo omzali. Abameli bamagunya ogciniweyo bathathwa kwintsapho yabantwana kwaye bafakwa esikhungweni semfundo esifanelekileyo kwiinyanga ezili-6. Eli xesha linikezelwa kubazali-buhlungu ukuba baqwalasele kwaye batshintshe ukuziphatha kwabo.
Ukuba kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, akukho tshintsho kwinqanaba lokutshintsha okulungileyo kwimeko, abaphathi bamagcisa kufuneka bafake ibango kunye nabazali ngokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali. Ngaloo ndlela, isithintelo sisigaba sokuqala sokunyuswa kwamalungelo kumntwana.
Ukuba, kwiinyanga ezintandathu, iziganeko zenzeke zatshintsha indlela abazali abaziphatha ngayo ngokubhetele kumntwana, oku akuthethi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukupheliswa kokukhawulelwa kwamalungelo omzali. Ngenxa yeemeko, abaphathi bamagcino banokushiya umntwana kwiziko elifanelekileyo de kubekho ukuqinisekiswa okucacileyo ukuba abazali bangabuyela ekuzalisekeni uxanduva lwabo lomzali baze bawenze ngokufanelekileyo.
Iziphumo zengqamaniso yamalungelo omzali
Imiphumo yokunciphisa amalungelo ihluke kwimiphumo yokunqongophala: amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi ayinakususwa kubazali, njengokuba kunjalo kwimeko yokunciphisa, kodwa imingcipheko, lo ngumlinganiselo wesikhashana oququzelela ukukhutshwa kokusetyenziswa kwenxalenye yamalungelo omzali ngexesha lokusebenza kwalo.
- Abazali banqatshelwe ilungelo lokukhulisa umntwana ngexesha lokukhawulelwa kwamalungelo omzali;
- ukungabikho kwamalungelo okufumana izibonelelo kunye neenzuzo ezikhethwe nguRhulumente
malunga nokuzalwa nokukhuliswa komntwana kwintsapho; - ukunyanzeliswa kwelungelo lokufumana ulungelelaniso lomntwana okhethiweyo;
- ukuthintela ilungelo lokunxibelelana-unxibelelwano lomntwana kunye nabazali lunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba aluba nefuthe elibi.
Inkqubo yokunqanda amalungelo omzali
Umba wokuthintelwa kwamalungelo omzali ugqityiweyo kuphela kwiinkundla, isiseko sesigqibo somgwebo singabakho ibango elifakwe ngumnye wabazali, izalamane ezisondeleyo, iziphathamandla zokugcina, abasebenzi beziko lemfundo, umtshutshisi.