Ngexesha lini na ukuwaphula njani?
Ukugqithiswa kwengqibelelo yale khosi, kwiimeko ezininzi zenzeka ngexesha lokulala ngokwesondo. Kodwa ngaphezu koko, ukugqithwa kwe-hymen (okanye ukuchithwa kwemifanekiso) kunokwenzeka kwezinye iimeko:
- ngexesha lobudlelwane obusondelene nokusebenzisa iifayili zesini okanye iminwe;
- ngokufakwa ngokungalunganga kweetampu;
- xa iphosa;
- kunye novavanyo lomntwana (intombi kufuneka ixelele ugqirha ukuba akalalanga ngesondo);
- kunye nokunyuka kwamanzi kwamantombazana ebusaneni.
Xa uqhuba umdaniso, ukuchithwa kwezemidlalo akunakwenzeka.
Emva kokugqithwa kwetyeni, kunokuthi kube negalelo elincinci. Ngokuqhelekileyo akubalulekanga, kwaye kwamanye amabhinqa kungabikho ngokupheleleyo. Iinqwelo zihamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye oku akubandakanyi ukuphuma kwegazi.
Leyo ndlela yokuchithwa kwempahla ihamba kunye nentlungu. Isiganga sawo sincike kwiimpawu. Kwenzeka ukuba ukulala ngesondo akunakwenzeka ngenxa yentlungu. Kule meko, kulungele ukubonisana nodokotela wezifo zengqondo, njengamanye amaxesha isakhiwo sesiphene sichaza ukuba ukuchithwa kwamanzi kukufuna ukungenelela kwonyango.
Emva kokupheka kwe-hymen iintsuku ezimbalwa. Ngeli xesha, iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo kwi-perineum zinokwenzeka. Oku kungenxa yokuvuvukala kancinci kwamanxeba, ayenziwa ngenxa yesicatshulwa.
Ukulimala ngokuqhelekileyo kwingqibelelo yamakhoba kwenzeka kwiindawo ezininzi. Imida ipholisa kancane, kwaye kwiindawo zesilonda zikho inotshi.
Ubomi bezocansi buya kuqala emva kweminyaka engama-18, xa umzimba sele usele kwaye ulungele ukutshintsha okuzayo. Kukholelwa ukuba xa uneminyaka yobudala ulahlekelwa ngokunyaniseka kwaye kunokunyusa ukunyuka kwentlungu. Nangona kunjalo, oku akubalulekanga, kwaye oogqirha abafaki umda ophezulu.