Abantu abaninzi abatsha abaye baba ngabazali okokuqala kwaye abanamava okuthetha nabantwana abancinci baninzi banamava olutsha, kuba besaba ukulimaza umntwana. Ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi bentsana, abazali bahlala beyifake kwizandla zabo bazigqoke. Kubalulekile ukwenza oku ngokuchanekileyo.
Indlela ebalulekileyo yokugqoka iintsana ziza kubeka "iposi". Ngoko ke, kweli nqaku, siza kuqwalasela ukuba kutheni kwaye ukugcina kakuhle umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kwikholam.
Kutheni ndimele ndigcine ibha?
Iingcamango zoogqirha nabazali malunga nesidingo sokuhlala kwindawo enjalo umntwana uyahlukana. Abanye bacinga ukuba kungengokwemvelo kwintsana, abanye bathetha ngokubaluleka kwayo.
Inzuzo yokugqoka intsika ilandelayo:
- kukho ukukhululwa kwesigxina kwi-surplus food and air, kufike ukutya, okukhuthaza ukugonya;
- Unceda ukuzinzisa umntwana, ngakumbi nge- colic ;
- iqinisa imisipha emva, yenza i-right right and the ability to hold head.
Ixesha elichanekileyo, zingaphi iimfuneko zokugcina umntwana kwikholam, ayikho. Gcina kule ndawo kuyimfuneko kude kube ngumzuzwana owenza umoya wokubamba okanye u-regurgitate. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha imizuzu engama-30-45. Kunconywa ukuba uyigqoke kwisithuba emva kokutya, ukukhusela ukuqokelela kwegesi kwisisu kubantwana.
Indlela yokugcina iposi ngokufanelekileyo?
Ukumisa ikholomu kwakuchanekile:
Intloko nentamo yomntwana kufuneka ibekwe ehlombe, kwaye i-trunk kufuneka ibekwe ngokuzenzekelayo. Isikhundla salo sifanele sifane nekhonkco.- Ngesandla esinye, cindezela ngenyameko entanyeni yomntwana, kunye nomnxeba wesigxina obambe intloko kwindawo yendlebe.
- Isandla sesibini ukuxhasa i-trunk, ukuzama ukusabalalisa umthwalo ngokusemgangathweni umlanjeni, kungcono kummandla wamagxa ehlombe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungacindezeli kanzima, kodwa ukubamba ngokuqinile, kodwa ngobumnene nangobumnene.
- Imilenze yomntwana imele ibe yinqanaba, kuphela xa engayizicinezela yona.
Umama, ngubani na kule ndawo ephethe umntwana, kufuneka ugcine umqolo wakho ngqo kwaye usasaze amahlombe akho kakuhle, ngoko umthwalo ezandleni zakho uya kuba ngaphantsi.
Ukuphakamisa kwisimo esinjalo somntwana kubalulekile ngokufanelekileyo, ngokwahlukileyo kunokwenzeka ukukhupha ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukutshintshwa ngokutsha kwintsana. Unako ukubamba umntwana ngesandla esinye, kodwa kufuneka ubambe intloko yakho, ngoko ke abantwana abakwazi ukukwenza okanye benze ngokuqinisekileyo.
Esi sikhundla asilungelekanga kuphela kumntwana, kodwa nakumntu omdala osithathayo. Ukubamba usana olutsha kunye nekholomu, kulula kakhulu ukutshintsha isikhundla sakhe: hlala, ulale, uvuke, hamba.
Ingaba ugcina umntwana kwibha okanye kungenjalo, kuxhomekeke kuphela kwiminqweno yakho.