Ukuzalwa kwasekhaya

Kuza kube namhlanje, ukuthandwa kokubeletha ekhaya kwande kakhulu. Kwinqanaba elithile, le ngxaki idibaniswa nokungathembeki kweyeza zanamhlanje, kunye noogqirha ngokukodwa. Nangona kunjalo, isizathu esibaluleke kakhulu somnqweno wokubeletha umntwana kwiindonga zakhe ezithandwayo kukufunda okanye ukuphulaphula amabali "amabhinqa" asebenzayo. Bachaza le nqubo njengento enzulu kakhulu, ephuma entliziyweni kwaye enomdla, engayikhumbuli intlungu okanye ukukhala kwamagqirha.

Okumangalisa kukuba, kwamanye amazwe kuye kwasemthethweni ukuvelisa umntwana ekhayeni, awalithandiyo oogqirha. Ngaba yonke into enjengoko kubonakala ngathi iqala ukujonga?

Iinkalo ezintle zokuzalwa ekhaya

Kukho uluvo lokuba iNkosi ivuza umfazi lowo ngamandla aneleyo ukuze akwazi ukuthwala umntwana kwaye akhululwe kumthwalo. Owesifazane okhulelweyo unelungelo elipheleleyo lemvelo ukuba akhethe indawo yembonakalo yindlalifa yokukhanya kunye nendalo, eya kuba khona ngexesha elifanayo. Kuyafana nokukhetha ukhetho olukhululekile.

Ekuzalweni kwendlu akukho mfuneko yokuthobela imiyalelo yombelekazi kwaye ingafumaneka ngokufanelekileyo. Abasetyhini abaninzi banokulula ukuzala ukulala, belele kwicala labo okanye bathathe indawo yokuguqa ngamadolo. Ngendlela, isiko esivumelwaneni sokuzalwa ngokulahla ngasemva akusafanelekanga, kuba liyabonwa njengelona likhulu kakhulu.

Phakathi kwabesetyhini bathandwa kakhulu izindlu zokubeletha emanzini, enokuchazwa ngokucacileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana okhulelwe ukukhulelwa ngokupheleleyo i-amniotic fluid, "uyavuya" ukuba angene emanzini emva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Iingcali ezizalweni zasebuntwaneni zikholelwa ukuba inkqubo enjalo yokuzalwa ngendlela ethandekayo ichaphazela impilo yengqondo yomzimba yengane. Kwimeko nayiphi na, nangona ukuzalwa kwendlu kwindawo yokuhlambela ingazange kusebenze, umntwana ozalwa naye ehlala kwindawo yakhe yokuhlala uya kuba nomuhle ngakumbi kunokuba wayebonakala ngoncedo lwe-anesthesia okanye ukuvuselela.

Kwakhona, imiba emihle yokubeletha kwendalo yendlu iquka oku kulandelayo:

• kukho ithuba lokubeka umntwana entolongeni ngaphandle kokulibaziseka nokumnika ithuba lokufudumala ngokufudumala komama, zama okokuqala, amanqabileyo amaninzi ewusizo, uhlalise kwaye ukhohlwe uxinzelelo olunzima-oku akunakwenzeka ukuba kufikelele esibhedlele, kuba ixabiso laloo mizuzu linyanzeliswa oogqirha;
• Ubukho bukayise kunye nesigqirha esinomdla kunika umfazi ingqiqo yokhuseleko kunye nokuzinza;
• kukho ithuba lokukhetha ugqirha wakho, othembela ngokupheleleyo.

Ukuzalwa kwasekhaya: kunye nokuchasene

Njengawo nawuphi na umzekelo, nakhona, kukho umgca wecala kwingqekembe. Konke malunga nokungabikho kokuvalwa kwezinto zonke izixhobo zokukhusela ezifanelekileyo kunye nezixhobo ekhaya. Ngaliphi na ixesha, into enokuthi ihambe ngokungahambi kakuhle, kwaye kuya kuba sekwephuzile ukuya esibhedlele. Ewe, kunye nababelethisi ababonelela ngoncedo lwale hlobo, musa ukuthwala naziphi na uxanduva kwizenzo zabo. Kwaye oku kungakhange kubhekise ukuba kulungelelaniso oluninzi lwamakhaya okuzalwa kufuneka lwenziwa ngabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwinkqubo.

Yintoni efunekayo ukuhanjiswa kwekhaya?

Kunzima kunokwenza uluhlu oluchanekileyo lwento efunekayo. Ibhinqa kunye neqabane lakhe kufuneka liqonde konke okusemandleni okuza kuza, ukufunda indlela yokuzalwa, ukulungiselela ukuziphatha nokuziphatha. Umgqirha otyunjweyo kufuneka anakekele unyango lwaloo mbandela. Ibhinqa eliza kukhulula umthwalo wayo kufuneka lenze i-enema ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwekhaya, linike izihlobo kunye nethuba lokucoca yonke indawo yokuhlala, ukubeka impahla kwiindawo eziza kubantwana abatshatshayo kunye neentambo.

Akunakuphi na ukuzalwa okubangelwa ekhaya, le nkqubo kufuneka iqhube ngokusemthethweni ngokusemandleni. Wena ngokwakho ukhethe olu khetho, ngoko uthembele ngokupheleleyo kwimvelo.