Okwangoku, onke amabhinqa afuna ukufumana uvuyo oluhle oluhambisana nobudlelwane bezesondo nabantu abadala. Yingakho oomama abancinci behlala benomdla nokuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba bahlaziye emva kokubeletha, kwaye emva kwexesha ozonandipha ngalo ndlela.
Ngaba ndingakwazi ukugcoba emva kokubeleka?
Uninzi lwabazali bezilwanyana ziyavuma ukuba ngokuphinga emva kokubeleka akukho nto iyakhathazeka ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngelixa umzimba womama osemncinini ungakulungele ubomi bobulili obugcwele , zonke izinto ezixhomekeke kule nkqubo zimele zithintele kuphela kwizitho zangasese zangaphandle.
Ukongeza, i-masturbation ingenziwa kuphela kwiimeko zokuhlambuluka. Ekubeni kukho amathuba amakhulu kakhulu okusuleleka kulo xesha, izandla, izitho zangasese kunye naziphi izinto ezisetyenziselwa ukwaneliseka kufuneka zihlanjwe ngokucokisekileyo ngokucoca.
Ngokuphathelele umbuzo, emva kweentsuku emva kokubeletha kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlaziye isisu, akunakwenzeka ukunika impendulo engabonakaliyo apha. Umzimba wawo onke amabhinqa ngumntu ngamnye, kwaye njengomgaqo jikelele, ukuzineliseka kunokuqala xa umama osemva ngokwakhe eziva ekulungele. Ukongezelela, kungcono ukuhlehlisa i-masturbation kwithuba elithile ukuba kukho izinto ezimbi ezilandelayo:
- Ubuthakathaka obunzima kunye nobunzima obukhulu;
- ukukhutshwa okukhulu kwinqanaba lomzimba kunye nephunga elimnandi;
- ububele beentonga;
- ukulimala okuqhubekayo ngexesha lokubeleka.
Kuzo zonke iimeko, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwaneliseka, kufuneka uhlale unxibelelana nodokotela.