Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho amabali asemini, apho umyeni kufuneka ahlulwe phakathi kobomi babini: intsapho yakhe kunye nenkosikazi yakhe. Kodwa unxantathu onothando ozinzile ixesha elide uza kwenza abantu abancinci kakhulu, kwaye ngoko kuya kubakho abo bathelela ukubhula kwimicimbi yamnandi.
Ukuqagela ngomntu othandekayo: "Thanda unxantathu"
Ngaba uzibona unamandla, uqinisekile kwaye uzimelele nawuphi na umfazi? Kule meko, ujongene nale meko, uyaqonda ukuba uzive ngathi intombazana encinci, ngubani ongakwaziyo ukwenza kakuhle? Ngokukhawuleza kukho uchungechunge lweengcamango-ukungathandabuzeki ngobuhle bakho, ukukhanga, ubulili . Uyazibuza: "Ngaba ufumene umntu omhle ngakumbi, ontle ngaphezu kwam." Xa ugqiba ukunikela, unxantathu onothando uya kufumana iimpendulo kwimibandela yolu hlobo. Yayiyimilingo yakhe eyadalwa ukuze ikhuphe isambatho semfihlelo kunye nesimo esibuhlungu kangaka njengento yokunyelisa umthandayo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukubhula kunokukunceda ukuba uqonde ngokucacileyo kokungcatshiswa kwendoda kunye nokungcatsha kwabahlobo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ujikelele kwisakhiwo ngokwawo, siyaqaphela ukuba umlingo wexantathu lonothando uya kuvula phambi kwakho okulandelayo:
- Ubuntu bomntu othabatha ulonwabo, ukufudumala ekhaya kunye nothando lomphefumlo wakho. Uya kukwazi ukuba kukuphi na ukuphi na izicwangciso zakho ezithandwayo ezakhayo ngokubhekiselele kwintando yakhe entsha.
- Iimephu zixelela malunga neemvakalelo kunye neengcamango zithembekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, okwenzeka ngezinye ixesha, ukukhathazeka ngokukhawuleza kwintliziyo yakho kungenanto. Mhlawumbi intanda yakho, ephingile, empeleni iphendukile, kwaye oku kubonisa ukuba uya kulungela ukwenza nantoni na ukuba ufanele ukuxolelwa.
- Inxantathu yothando inxantathu ibonakala phambi kwakho, njengentendelezo yesandla sakho. Uyakwazi ukuqonda oko kuya kukhokelela ekukhohliseni kunye nendlela le meko iza kuphuhliswa ngayo. Khumbula, kwenzekani kwakhona kukuba le nkqubela ubomi buya kuqinisa kuphela uthando lwakho kwisiqingatha sakho. Ngoko, mhlawumbi akudingeki ukuba uqhekeze iinwele zakho, ukukhankanya into into engalunganga kwimpamo yakho yeCasanova.
- Ngaphezu koko, umlingo wamakhadi uya kukuxelela ukuba iziphumo zendlela oziphethe ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuziphatha okungalunganga komfazi onokuvelisa umonakalo omkhulu kunobomi obatshatileyo kunokoqobo lokungcatsha.
- Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, uyaqonda: ngenxa yintoni isizathu sokuthanda ubomi bakho butshintshe isithembiso sakho somtshato. Siyabulela oku, uya kuqonda ukuba ngubani ochanileyo kwaye ngubani omele.
- Ngokukhululekile, uya kufumana impendulo kumbuzo othi: "Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze ubuyisele injabulo yangaphambili?". Uya kuphuhlisa isicwangciso esilungileyo, esiya kubangela ukuba ungathinteli impembelelo yomntu wesithathu.
Uhlobo lwe "Love Triangle"
Ngoku siye sidlulele kwizinto ezisisiseko, ngaphandle kokubakho ukubhula okungeke kwenzeke, - kwimeko emfutshane neyolwazi. Iimeko kufuneka ziqwalaselwe kunye nantoni na (mhlawumbi, yena / yena).
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Ngaloo ndlela, kwicala lesobunxele loxantathu libhekiswa kwi-querent, kwaye inxalenye efanelekileyo kumqhubi wamanje.
- ukutyunjwa komntu. Ubonisa konke okufunekayo ukuba azi malunga naye.
- - Bamba zonke iimvakalelo zesintu kunye neemvakalelo ngokubhekiselele kwi-querent.
- - iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo aziva ngazo ngomnye umfazi.
- - Isibheno sobuthathaka obunayo kwimeko yomntu wakho.
- - isibheno esifanayo ngesondo, kodwa sele seyamehlo ebhinqa.
- - ibonisa yonke into indoda engayithandiyo.
- - nantoni na intokazi ayithandiyo.
- - isimo sengqondo somntu malunga nobudlelwane obunzulu kunye neqela.
- - ulwalamano lwakhe nomtshato okanye ulwalamano olusenyongweni kunye neqela.
- - Ngokwalo, ulwalamano lwexesha elizayo kunye nolunye.
- ubuhlobo bokamva kunye nomnye umfazi.
Ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukuphawula, xa ugqiba ukuqiqa, ungaxeleli nabani na ngaluphi na uhlobo luthinxantathu oyithandayo. Kananjalo ungahambi nombuzo ofanayo kumabhayiseli ahlukeneyo.