Ubulili besini

Njengoko uyazi, akukho babhinqa ababi. Kukho abesetyhini kuphela abangafuni ukuba bahle. Oku kungasetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo kwizesini zesini.

Phantse bonke abafazi kule nto okanye ixesha lobomi baqala ukuba nomdla kumbuzo othi: "Indlela yokuphuhlisa ubulili besini?" Kuye kwenzeka ukuba kunokwenzeka ukwenza oku njengoko sikhula ezinye iimpawu - intlalontle, uqoqosho, ukuvuleka. Ukuthintela oku kunokuba luvila kuphela, ukungazi okanye izithintelo zengqondo.

Ukutyhilwa kwezesini zesini kunika okuninzi:

1. Impumelelo kunye nobulili besini buhamba ngesandla, kuba intloko yentembelo yowesifazane kuye ngokwakhe, ukuzibonakalisa kwakhe okubonakalayo kukubonakalisa amandla okuqhafaza ngokwesini.
2. Ibhinqa evulelekile kwiimvakalelo zesondo liheha abantu kuye. Uyathandeka, uhlala elula kwaye uyakwazi ukutshintsha iindima ezahlukeneyo. Umlingane wakhe kwaye unelisekile ngobomi bakhe obusondeleyo - uyavumelana kwaye ahlukeneyo.
3. Ubundlobongela bhinqa luyinto ebalulekileyo yentsapho yolonwabo, kuba ukuvisisana embhedeni, ukukhangela ngesondo kumyeni wakhe kuyimfuneko yomtshato ocolileyo.

Kodwa ukuze "utyhile", kufuneka ukwazi ukuba yintoni ebonisa ukuba ubulili besini. Ingqondo yengqondo yesini yinto enzima kakhulu. Ngokomxholo kaFrud, abaninzi abafazi banemingcipheko engqongqo yengqondo ekhusela ukubonakaliswa kwempawu zobunqunu besini. Kodwa "akukho nto engenakwenzeka kumntu onengqondo," ngoko, emva kokufunda iimfihlelo eziphambili zobuntombi besini, nangona "ezinqabileyo" ezinamandla kunokuba umfazi uya kukwazi ukuphuhlisa.

Imiqondiso kunye nembonakalo yobundlobongela besini

Makhe sibone ukubonakaliswa kobulili besini, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo sibonakalisa iimpawu zayo eziphambili.

1. Uthande emzimbeni wakho. Ibhinqa elithandayo umzimba wayo likhulu kakhulu, ubulili bakhe "buvumba". Ngenxa yoko, akunakulungele ukuthenga zonke iimveliso zezonyakatho kwaye zizisebenzise ngeekhigram, "ukugqoka", njl njl. Impahla yaloo ntokazi, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ibhinqa kwaye iyamnandi, kwaye umzimba kunye nobuso bumnandi kwaye zilungele kakuhle. Uyazijonga ngenyameko kwaye akayi kuvumela nayiphi na into engazinzileyo yokugada izipikili, okanye iipounds ezili. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba umfazi, ukuhamba kwakhe, ukunyakaza komzimba. Ibhinqa lezesondo liya kuba libi kwaye libi. Ukuphucula ubulili besini, iiklasi zokudanisa ziyacetyiswa. Kodwa ngolunye uthando kumzimba ukuba uqhube kwiimjikelezo kunoma yimuphi umcimbi akunakwenzeka.
2. Ukudlala kunye nokutya. Emva koko, ukudlala ngothando akuyona into encane yokudlala ngothando, kodwa, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukubonakalisa ukuzithokozisa kumntu wesintu odlala. Ibhinqa elithandana nomntu lithumela uphawu lokumxelela uvelwano lwakhe.
3. Ukubonakaliswa kwentlonipho kunye nothando lomntu, ukwazi ukuzonwabisa kunye naye. Umfazi wesondo uyazi, uvakalelwa kwaye uyabathanda amadoda. Ifuna ukwazi uhlobo lomntu. Ubundlobongela besini abufuneki ukuba buyityhilwa ukuba umfazi uyadelela abantu okanye uyabayika - amadoda kwinqanaba le-intuition abavakalelwa isimo sengqondo sabasetyhini kubo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwazi, ukuba inhlonipho nothando lomntu akunakwenzeka ngaphambi kokuba uzuze inhlonipho kunye nothando lwakho.
4. Ikhono lokuthokoza nje kuphela kwisini, kodwa nakubomi. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubandakanya ukufumana uxhamla kuyo nayiphi na intuthuzelo - ukuhamba, ukuhlalisa okanye ukuhlalisana.

Inzululwazi ezininzi zizama ukunikela ubuninzi bezesini zesini naziphi na ixesha: ezinye ziqikelela le minyaka ukuya kwe-28, abanye - kwi-34, kwaye abanye bahamba ngoku ku-40. Kodwa ke, inokuvula malunga naluphi na iminyaka. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka nje ufunde iimfihlelo eziphambili zobuntombi besini. Kwaye uyazi ngoku ngoku. Ityala lakho lenu!