I-Kiev nun uMama Alipia wanceda abantu ngethuba lokuphila kwakhe, umntu wanikela isiluleko, umntu wathandaza, umntu wayefuna indawo yokuhlala kunye nokutya, umntu wayefuna inkxaso yokomoya. Ngayiphi na ingxaki yayingenako ukuza kumdala, iingcango zesisele zakhe zazihlala zivulelekile kubantu abahlwempu. Emva kokufa kwakhe, kwaye nanamhla, amakholwa ajika ethuneni likaMama Alipia ukuba acele uncedo aze athandaze kuyingcwele. Hlonipha indoda endala njengomncedisi kwishishini, umcebisi ngendlela efanelekileyo, umhlanguli ekufeni, njl njl. Abantu bakholelwa ukuba xa uncela ngobuqotho uncedo kuMama Alipia emthandazweni wakho, uya kunceda.
Ndingacela njani uncedo kuMama Alipia?
Kumama ka-Alipia, abantu bajika kwizicelo ezahlukahlukeneyo ngethemba lokuva, kwaye ngokutsho kweemvavanyo ezininzi, imithandazo inceda. Mbuze malunga nokuphulukiswa kwizifo ezinzulu, malunga nokufumana indawo yokuhlala, inhlalakahle yemali, njl. Abaninzi banomdla wendlela yokucela uncedo kuMama Alipia, ukuba kukho imithandazo ekhethekileyo okanye unokucela uncedo ngamagama akho. Kukho imithetho emininzi engaqinisekanga:
- Ngethuba lomthandazo, umntu akafanele aphazamiseke, "nyundo" intloko kunye nezinye iingcamango.
- Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufunda umthandazo, cela intethelelo kuzo zonke izono zakho.
- Kufuneka ucinge ngomntu ocela kuye uncedo.
- Xa uthetha umthandazo, musa ukukhawuleza, ukuvakalisa ngokuzwakalayo okanye ngokumemeza.
- Amazwi akho malunga noncedo kufuneka avewe, ngoko funda umthandazo ngokuthi 'uzive', ungabizi amagama ngokuzenzekelayo.
- Funda umthandazo kufuneka ube ngamaxesha amaninzi ngosuku, mhlawumbi kusasa nangobusuku ngaphambi kokulala.
- Emva komthandazo, bulela uMama Alipia.
Ewe, unokuthandaza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, into eyona nto kukuba amazwi akho ayinyanisekileyo, kodwa kukho imithandazo ekhethekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, kukho umthandazo omfutshane kuMama Alipia, onceda ukujamelana nezifo ezinzulu: