Kukulungele ukukholelwa ukuba kwimeko apho uThixo uya kusinceda aze ancede. Ukuba ukholwa kuyo, unokuchonga ngokuchanekileyo umlinganiselo wokuphelelwa lithemba: xa umntu engakwazi ukufezekisa into ethile ixesha elide, ukholo luhlala kuphela kumandla "ogunyaziwe", oko kukuthi, uThixo. Ukholo lwakho luqinisekisa ukuba izicelo kunye nokuncenga kuya kuvakala, ngoko ke, ekufikeleleni kule ngongoma yokuphelelwa lithemba, kubalulekile ukuzama ukufezekisa ngoncedo lwamazulu.
Makhe sithethe ngomthandazo obaluleke kakhulu kumantombazana - umthandazo wothando.
Ndingathandaza njani?
Ukuphikisana kokuqala okuvela phakathi kwabantu abanonqulo olunzulu kunye nalabo bahlala besithanda rhoqo ngamaxesha omthandazo . Inyaniso kukuba sinokukhetha ezimbini. Nokuba ufunde imithandazo yecawa, leyo, ngamanye amaxesha, inentsingiselo engenakuqondakala
umntu wanamhlanje, okanye ukuthandaza ngamazwi akho, entliziyweni.
Inzuzo yemithandazo yecawa kukuba ibhaliwe ngamazwi abantu abangcwele kwaye banentshukumo ekhethekileyo. Kwaye kunye nemithandazo evela kuwe kukuba kulula ukuba uzive oko ucelayo, kulula ukunyaniseka kwaye unxanelwe uncedo. Kukho nawuphi na, ukhetho lenu, kwaye ishishini lethu kukunika iinketho zokukhetha.Ukuba ngemvelaphi yomthandazo wokufumana uthando, siye saqonda, siya kuthetha malunga nokufunda. Xa uthetha umthandazo, gxininisa amandla akho kwinqanaba le-plexus yelanga, kwintliziyo ye- chakra . Umthandazo wokukhangwa kothando uya kusebenza kuphela xa unakho kuzo zonke iinkcukacha zimela lowo owucelayo. Yenza umfanekiso ngengqondo, vusa ngokwakho lonke uluhlu lweemvakalelo ezihambelana nomfanekiso, uze uqhubeke nomthandazo.
Yimiphi imithandazo yokuyisebenzisa?
Ekubeni imfuno yemithandazo yokudibana nokuthanda kwabo iphakamileyo kakhulu, kukho ezininzi ezintsha, kungekhona imithandazo yecawa kwesi sihloko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, bathandaza kuThixo, iTheotokos, iSt Anne, i-Xenia, iMarta, kunye noTt Nicholas uMmangaliso.
Ukuba ukhetha ukuthandaza ngamazwi akho, kuqala ufunde "uBawo wethu", uze uqhubeke nezicelo zothando.
Umzekelo, unokuphinda ibinzana elilandelayo:
"Nkosi, ndithumelele othandekayo ngenxa yothando kunye nokuphucula."
Phinda uphindwe ngamaxesha angama-20 ngokulandelana, ukuze ingqondo yakho ibhaptizwe kwimeko yokucamngca. Yenza le mini ngeenyanga eziliqela.
Imithandazo eSt Nicholas
USt. Nicholas ungomnye wabangcwele abangcwele. Uthandazwa ngabahambi, abahluphekileyo nabagulayo bathandaza, bathandazela umtshato, uthando kunye nokuchuma. Umthandazo kuNicholas Ummangaliso ngothando kufuneka ufundwe, ecinga ngendlela awanceda ngayo iintombi zomntu owonakele ukuba atshate, abanike imali yokutshata.
"Owuhloniphekileyo uYise Nicolae, umalusi kunye notitshala wabo bonke abaza kuwe ngokunyanisekileyo ekuncengeni kwakho kunye nomthandazo ofudumele kuwe, kungekudala baya kunyanzeliswa ukuba bahlangule umhlambi weengcuka eziyichithayo, kwaye kwilizwe lonke ubucingo bamaKristu uze ugcine imithandazo yakho engcwele kwihlabathi elivukelayo, ukuhlasela kwamanye amazwe kunye nempi ye-internecine, kwindlala, umkhukula, umlilo, ikrele kunye nokufa okungafani. Njengoko uxolele abantu abathathu bahleli entolongweni, ubahlengele inkosana yengqumbo nehlelo lekrele, yibani nenceba nobulali, ubulumko, ilizwi kunye nokwenza ebumnyameni bezono, undisindise ebusweni bukaThixo nangesijeziso esingunaphakade, Uncedo, ngenceba yakhe nobabalo, uKristu uThixo, ubomi obuthulileyo obungenasono, uya kuninika lo mphefumlo ekugqibeleni kwaye undihlangule kumama onamahloni, kwaye ndiya kunika iintlobo kunye nabo bonke abangcwele. Amen. "
Umthandazo ngenxa yedwa
Njengoko siye satsho, gxininisa amandla akho entliziyweni ye-chakra, faka isundu sakho kwi-plexus yelanga kwaye ufunde umthandazo olandelayo kuThixo ngothando kathathu-okokuqala ngezwi elipheleleyo, emva kwe-half-whisper, kwaye ekupheleni kwakho:
"Ngaphambi kwakho, Nkosi, ndimi, kwaye phambi kwakho kuphela ndiyakwazi ukuvula intliziyo yam, kwaye uyazi konke endikucelayo, kuba intliziyo yam ayinalutho ngaphandle kwothando lomhlaba, kwaye ndiya kuthandaza kwaye ndicele ukuba undinike indlela yokukhawuleza kumntu onokuphela ukukhanyisa ukukhanya okutsha kunye nobomi bam kwaye uvule intliziyo yam ukuba ndidibane kunye nokudibanisa ngokumangalisayo kwezinto zethu kunye nokufumana umphefumlo oqhelekileyo. Amen. "