Igama lonina linamandla amakhulu, kwaye akukho sizathu sokuba sisona siqalekiso esiqalekisayo, kwaye inamandla iyintsikelelo. Uninzi unokuthandazela unyana owanceda ukukhusela umntwana wakhe kwizigqibo ezibi nezigulo, kwaye uyamqondisa ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Imithandazo enamandla kakhulu kanina kumntwana
Abafundisi baqinisekisa ukuba unamandla kunayo yonke imithandazo yomama , kuba iqukethe uthando olungenammiselo noluncedo, olukwazi ukudala ummangaliso wangempela. Kukho inani elikhulu lemibhalo yempendulo enceda kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Umthandazo oqinileyo womama ngenxa yonyana wakhe kufuneka uvakaliswe ngokwemithetho embalwa:
- Umthandazo oyintloko kufuneka ube ngowomphefumlo womntwana, ukuze akhethe indlela efanelekileyo ebomini aze alwele ukufezekisa. Ukunyaniseka kwintliziyo ecocekileyo kuvuselela amandla okukhusela kwindalo yonke, eyenza ikhuselo elingabonakali kumntwana, kwaye uya kumkhusela kwizinto ezimbi. Kuba ukuhlambuluka kweengcinga kunye nokunyaniseka kubaluleke kakhulu.
- Umthandazo womzali unokumelwa ngumbhalo olungiselelwe, kodwa ungabhekisela kwiiNkundla eziPhakamileyo ngamagama akho.
- Imithandazo yonyana kufuneka ivakaliswe kwindawo yokuzola, ukuze kungabikho nto ephazamisayo. Iingcamango ngeli xesha kufuneka zihlambuluke kwaye zithobe.
- Kungcono ukufunda isicatshulwa somthandazo ngentliziyo, kodwa uyayifunda kwiphepha, kodwa ke kufuneka libizwe ngaphandle kokungabaza, ungatshintshi kwaye ungatshintshi amagama.
- Unokufunda imithandazo, kokubili etempileni nasekhaya, into ephambili kukuba ne icon ngaphambi kwamehlo akho. Kufuneka uthandazele de intliziyo igxilise kwaye imeko ayiphuculanga.
- Imeko ephambili yokufumana uncedo lukholo olungenakunyakaziswa ngamandla eNkosi kunye nabangcwele.
Umthandazo ngenxa yempilo yonyana wam
Ngexesha apho umntwana egula khona, abazali abafumani indawo yabo, kuba into kuphela abakwenzayo ngeli xesha, ngaphandle kokubonelela ngononophelo olufunekayo, ngumthandazo rhoqo. Kukulungele ukufuna uncedo kumPhilisi wePeleimon , owathi, ngexesha lokuphila kwakhe, waphilisa bonke abantu abahluphekayo. Kukho inani elikhulu lamakholwa abonisa ubungqina bomoya ongcwele.
- Imithandazo yempilo yonyana kufuneka ibhengezwe ngaphambi komfanekiso wongcwele, omele ubeke kufuphi nombhede wesigulane.
- Unokufunda itekisi yamanzi angcwele kwaye uyinike umntwana okanye uyifefe ngomntwana.
Imithandazo yonyana onobungozi beziyobisi
Abazali abaninzi, xa befunda ukuba umntwana wabo usebenzisa iziyobisi, abazi ukuba benzani kwaye bayeke. Esi sinqumo esingalunganga, kuba abantu abasondeleyo banokukunceda umntu oxhomekeke kuye ukuba abuyele kumendo wobulungisa. Umthandazo wemihla ngemihla, ukuze indodana ingasebenzisi iziyobisi, yenza ukuba ucinge ngobomi bakho, kunokunceda ulahlekelwe ukholo kwaye ufumane amandla okujamelana nokuxhomekeka. Kubalulekile ukubonisa umntwana ukuba akayedwa kwimeko kwaye unokuthembela kwintsapho yakhe.
Umthandazo onamandla wokunxila komntwana
Ikhonkco "I-Chape engapheliyo" yenye yezona ziqingqiweyo ezidumileyo zikaMama kaThixo. Ngaphambi kokuba abantu bathandazele ukuba bazilahle okanye bawancede abanye bajamelane nokuxhomekeka kotywala. Umthandazo "indebe engapheliyo" ekunxilweni kwonyana akuncedi kuphela ukunqoba ukugula okunobungozi, kodwa utshintshe ihlabathi elingokomoya, uqondise indlela yokulungisa. Ingasetyenziselwa kuphela imeko apho umntu ebona ingxaki, kodwa nokuba ukholelwa ukuba yonke into iyinto evamile kwaye ayixhomekeke kotywala. Umthandazo ukuba unyana akaphuzi utywala kufuneka abizwe yonke imihla ade aphilise.
Umthandazo woNyana ngaphambi komtshato
Ngokwesiko, ngaphambi komtshato, abazali banikela iintsikelelo zabo. Ngokuba unyana ngeli xesha lokusebenzisa isithonjana "uMsindisi uSomandla". Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abasanda kutshata kufuneka bazise lo mfanekiso kuqala ekhaya. Abazali banokuthetha amagama ahlula ngamazwi abo, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo umthandazo oqinileyo usetyenziselwa unyana wabo. Amandla ayo agxininise ekuqiniseni umtshato kunye novuyo lwentlalo. Intsikelelo yomntwana inceda ukufumana uxolo phambi kweNkosi uThixo.
Umama kaMama phambi kovavanyo lomntwana
Kubafundi, nokuba ngaba esikolweni okanye kwisiko, ixesha lokuvavanya ulwazi luhambelana noxinzelelo kunye neemvakalelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nokuba ufunde kakuhle kakuhle, ngenxa yokuxinezeleka, unokulibala yonke into. Umthandazo kaMama ngunyana ekuhlolweni unceda ukuhlangabezana namava kwaye ukhangela inhlanhla. Umxholo obhaliweyo kufuneka uthethwe ngethuba leemviwo kunye nexesha apho umntwana uya kuba sesikhungweni semfundo. Unokufunda umthandazo kathathu kwisitya esitsha kwaye unike umntwana njengomntu ongekho.
Umthandazo womama ngoNyana oMkhosi
Amabali ahlukeneyo omkhosi abangela ukuba omama bakhathazeke ngabantwana babo enkonzweni. Ukukhusela umntwana kwiingxaki ezinokwenzeka kunye nokunciphisa umphefumlo wakhe wempi, umntu unokuya ku-Amandla aphezulu ukuze ancede. Umthandazo wonyana okhonza emkhosini unokuthiwa ngekhaya, kodwa kungcono ukulandela izi ngcebiso:
- Okokuqala, tyelela itempile, apho ungenise khona inqaku kwimpilo yakho kunye nonyana. Emva koko, faka ikhandlela phambi komfanekiso kaYesu Kristu, uNicholas uSinner noMatrona waseMoscow. Ngelo xesha kubalulekile ukuba ubhaptizwe ngobubele.
- Ukuya ekhaya, athenge ikhandlela ezintathu zokuthandaza ekhaya. Yiba kwigumbi uze uzikhanyise phambi kweemifanekiso ezintathu ezikhankanywe ngaphambili.
- Sithi "uBawo wethu" ngezihlandlo eziliqela kunye neNdumiso 90. Emva koko, hamba uze ucinge ngonyana wakho ophilileyo noyolo.
- Le mithandazo yonyana kufuneka ifundwe kaninzi emva komnye. Ekupheleni kokuguqulwa, yenza uphawu lomnqamlezo kwaye umbulele iNkosi ngoncedo lwakho. Khanyisa ikhandlela, kwaye uyisebenzise ngexesha lomthandazo ozayo.
Umthandazo ngendlela yendodana yakhe
Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, oomama, ukuthumela abantwana babo endleleni, babenzele izipho kwaye bathandazela rhoqo impilo yabo. Ukunyanga okunyanisekileyo kunceda ukukhusela umntwana kwiingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye neengozi, kwaye zinegalelo ekuzisombululeni ngokukhawuleza kwazo zonke iimeko kunye nempumelelo ebuyela ekhaya. Umthandazo ngenhlalakahle yonyana kufuneka ivakaliswe ubuncinane kanye ngosuku ngemini, kodwa ukuba ufuna, ungayiphinda ngelinye ixesha.
Umthandazo wonyana ukuba athole umsebenzi omhle
Abazali bafumana zonke iintsilelo zabantwana babo, befuna zonke iindlela zokubanika inkxaso nenkxaso. Umthandazo wamaOthodoki womama wengane yakhe ufanelekile kwiimeko apho angakwazi ukufumana umsebenzi omhle. Umbhalo ochaziweyo uya kuncedisa ukuqhubela phambili kweempembelelo eziyimpumelelo kunye nokunceda ukutsala inhlanhla, eyandisa kakhulu amathuba okuphumelela. Kubalulekile ukuba umntu ngokwakhe usebenze ngokuphandle ekukhangekeni komsebenzi, kunokuba amlindele ukuba afumane isiphakamiso, kwaye ngoko amaQonga aPhakamileyo aya kubangela inxaxheba ekuphumezeni injongo.
Umthandazo wonyana olahlwayo
Kukho inqaku elithi "ngemali nakwintolongo musa ukulahla" kwaye unokufumana ininzi imimiselo xa abantu abalungileyo bebanjwe emiphandleni. Ukuncedisa unyana wakhe kwiimeko ezinjalo, oomama banokufuna uncedo kwiSt. Nicholas, ophendula iimpendulo ezinyanisekileyo. Umthandazo ungasetyenziselwa ukunyanzela unyana ukuba unetyala kwaye ufumane isigwebo esifanelekileyo, kwaye uhlolisise isigqibo kunye nobulungisa obufanelekileyo ukuba umntu ongenatyala uvalelwe. Umthandazo kaNicholas uMmangaliso malunga nendodana yakhe kufuneka uphindwe rhoqo kwiintsuku ezingama-40.