Kwaye ootitshala, iingqondo zeengqondo kunye neengqondo zithetha ukuba imeko apho umntwana ehlambalaza izilwanyana, akufuneki ukuba angashiywa ngaphandle kobazali. Oku akubonakali nje kuphela ukuhlukana okukhulu kwenkqubo yokukhuliswa komntwana, kodwa ngokubhekiselele kubungqina beengxaki ezingqondweni. Ngokwezibalo, ubukhohlakali nobudlova "kubazalwana abancinci" bandisa ingozi yokwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho kubantu abathathu! Ngoku intsana, idonsa umsila wekati, ingabonakali kuwe?
Izizathu zesimo sengqondo esiqinileyo kwizilwanyana
Okokuqala, ngokukhawuleza kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kulo mzekelo ubudala bomntwana bubalulekile. Ngoko, abantwana abafikelela kwiminyaka emithathu abaqapheli ukuba inja okanye ikati ngumntu ophilayo, onokukwazi ukufana nabantu abanobuhlungu. Ngomntwana, isilwanyana siyidlala elimnandi elinokuhambisa kunye nokwenza izandi. Ngokombono weengqondo zengqondo, akufanelekile ukuqala isilwanyana endlwini kunye nomntwana omncinci. Kodwa ukuba umntwana uyazibetha isilwanyana, ngoko imeko leyo, ukungenelela kwabazali kuyimfuneko.
Ziziphi izizathu zokuziphatha? Kutheni umntwana ehlushwa izilwanyana?
- Umzekelo wabazali . Ukuba kuqhelekile ukuba abantu abadala bawabethe ikati edibanise i-cutlet etafileni, okanye ukuyikhaba ngenja ekhethiweyo, ungamangalisi ukuba umntwana wenza okufanayo. Ubudala bunyango xa umntwana efundiswa ngokulula ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe, iimpembelelo, inzondo nomsindo, uvelwano novelwano kwabanye, kubandakanywa nezilwanyana.
- Microclimate kwintsapho . Ulwalamano phakathi kwamalungu entsapho lunokuba lunzima, lukhuni. Ingane ivakalelwa, nangona ingahlali iyakwazi. Wonke amava abo kunye nokuhlambalaza kwihlabathi elikujikelezile, ebudeni beminyaka yokuqala ngumama nobawo, unako ukuthululela ngaphandle kwezilwanyana.
- ITV kunye nekhompyutha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali baphoqeleka ukuba bavumele umntwana ukuba abukele iikhathuni kunye neenkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokukhulula ixesha lomsebenzi okanye imisebenzi yasekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, ukhetho lwekhathuni kufuneka luhlale kunye nabazali. Ngomntwana, abalinganiswa esikrinini ngumzekelo wokulingisa, kodwa ezilungileyo, iipatto ezilungileyo, ngelanga, akunjalo.
- Inqwenela . Ukufunda ihlabathi elijikelezile kwiindawo ezihlukeneyo yindalo yemvelo kwaye yendalo yemvelo yomntwana. Kungenzeka ukuba ukubeka inkatho kumatshini wokuhlamba, umntwana ufuna nje ukuhlamba.
- I-pathology yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Le meko iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kwaye ifuna ukungenelela kweengcali.
Iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso
- Musa ukuyihoxisa! Akunakwenzeka ukuphatha imbonakalo yobutshabongela kwizilwanyana kwincinci yomntwana, ngokubhekiselele kwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo. Qiniseka ukuba ummise umntwana, umchazele ngesenzo sakhe. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba alungise iimpazamo zakhe - makazisole ngesilwanyana, sivuselele. Nangona kunjalo, akunakunyanzeliswa ukunyanzelisa umntwana, njengoko oku kunokubangela ukuqokelela ulwaphulo olusondeleyo, olo suku luya kubangela unyango olungakumbi.
- Ukuba kukho ukuxabana kwentsapho kunye neengxabano ezivame ukuvela , kubalulekile ukukhusela umntwana kubo. Kwimeko apho kuphephe khona ubukho buntwana ngethuba elilandelayo kwintetho ephezulu
ayiphumelelanga, mchazele ukuba yintoni eyenzekayo. Ukugxininisa kwizinto ezenzekile akufanelekanga, kodwa umntwana kufuneka aqaphele ukuba le yinto yesikhashana kwaye ihlawulekayo. - Ngokuqhelekileyo ukulungelelanisa imidlalo yokudlala indima ebandakanya amathoyizi amancinci . Yakha icebo lomdlalo ukuze izilwanyana ezidlala zihlale zihlala kwicala elungileyo, bancede abantu, banqobe ububi.
- Ukubandakanya umntwana ekunyamekeleni iimfuyo. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana aqaphele ukuba bafuna uncedo lwakhe, uthando kunye nokunyamekela. Ukongezelela, ukuziva ukuzinyameza kuya kuba negalelo ekwandiseni ukuzithemba komntwana.