Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela indlela inkqubo yokulahla ubaba wamalungelo omzali wokungahlawulwanga kwe-alimony e-Ukraine naseRussia eyenzekayo, nokuba ngaba lowo upapa ugcina uxanduva lokubonelela ngenkxaso kubantwana bakhe kwikamva.
Umyalelo wokulahla utata wamalungelo omzali wokungahlawulwanga kwe-alimony
ERashiya, eUkraine kunye neninzi yamanye amazwe asemthethweni, ukuqaliswa kwalo mgaqo kwenziwa kuphela kwi-judicial. Kule meko, iimeko apho umama womntwana uya kucela ukuxhasa isikhundla sakhe ekukhuselweni okubi kwintlawulo ye-alimony kufuneka ukuba kuzo zonke iimeko ziqinisekiswe ngamaphepha afanelekileyo.
Kwimeko enjalo, ummangali kufuneka abe nesigqibo senkundla yokumangalela ummangali ukuba akhokhe i-alimony kwaye, ngaphezu koko, uqinisekiso olucacileyo lokuba uyise wengane wenqaba ukuthobela le mfuneko. Ngokukodwa, indoda ingaqatshelwa njengento yokutshatyalaliswa enobungozi ukuba yenza ngokwenza oku:
- ukulibaziseka intlawulo kwithuba elide, kungeyi ngaphantsi kwezi-4 ezilandeleleneyo;
- utshintshe ngokufanelekileyo indawo yokuhlala kwaye akazixelele umama womntwana wakhe, kunye nenkonzo yomsizi-mali;
- Musa ukuqeshwa ngokusemthethweni;
- uyayigatya izilumkiso ezivela kubasemagunyeni;
- wenqaba ukuhlawula ityala eliqokelelwayo;
- ukufihla imali yayo yangempela.
Emva kokuba ulungiselele umqulu wamaphepha afanelekileyo, unina womntwana kufuneka afake icala kwaye afake i-inkundla kwindawo yokubhalisa ngokusemthethweni uyise weemvumba. Inqabile kakhulu loo ngxelo ingeniswa ngumama we-biological, kodwa ngummeli womntwana wengane. Enyanisweni, kwiimeko ezininzi, abasetyhini abakwaziyo ukwenza ngaphandle koxanduva lwabagwebi bezengcali, kodwa ngokwenene, akunzima ukulungiselela ubungqina obuyimfuneko baze bachaze imeko ekhoyo kumgwebo.
Ngaba i-alimony iyahlawulwa xa utata enqatshelwe amalungelo omzali?
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwinkqubo yokulungiselela ulwaphulo-mthetho, bobabini umama kunye noyise womntwana bayazibuza ukuba ukunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali okukhulula i- alimony. Enyanisweni, umthetho awunakunqanda abazali abangenabunyani benembopheleleko yokubonelela umntwana ngokuphathekayo nokuhlawula umama wakhe, nangona inkundla ithatha isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Emva kokuncitshiswa kwamalungelo omzali, uyise uya kufuneka ahlawule i-alimony kude kube ngumntwana wakhe, kodwa le nkqubo inika inani lezithintelo. Ngokukodwa, ukususela ngeli thuba upapa uya kulahlekelwa amanye amalungelo anikezwe ngumthetho, oku:
- ukukhulisa umntwana;
- ngokufuna umntwana ukusuka kwabanye abantu;
- ukufumana isondlo kubantwana abaye bafikelela kumntu omdala;
ukufumana nayiphina impahla yomntwana, ngokudluliselwa kwefa; - ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuphunyezweni kwabantwana ngabanye abantu;
- ukuba avume ukukhululwa komntwana wakhe;
- ukufumana iinzuzo zoluntu kunye nezinye izibonelelo ezinikezelwa kwiintsapho kunye nabantwana;
- ukufumana ipenshoni xa usweleka umntwana.