EbuKristwini, ukususela ngexesha elidlulileyo, ukubaluleka okukhulu kunamathele kwiingqungqelo zendlala kunye nokuqhawula. Ewe, akukho nto emangalisa ngayo ukuba imithandazo ekhethekileyo yafundwa ngaphambi nangemva kokutya. Amazwi abo, ngakwesinye icala, bacele ukutya kuThixo bonke abantu behlabathi, nangakolunye uhlangothi, bacele ukukhuselwa kwi-gluttony, kuba "umntu akayidli isonka kuphela".
Bafunda njani imithandazo?
Imithandazo kufuneka ifundwe kwigumbi lokudlela, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka kube ne icon. Intsapho nganye ineemigaqo yayo yokufunda imithandazo yokubulela ngaphambi nangemva kokutya. Kwezinye izindlu kuyinto yesiko ukuthetha umthandazo ngokuvakalayo, ukucula, okanye ngokwakho, xa elinye lamalungu entsapho lifunda ngokuvakalayo, kwaye zonke ezinye ziphinda ziphinde zizwakala.
Ngamanye amaxesha bahlala phantsi ngamadolo, iindlovu zihlala etafileni, ngamanye amaxesha zithandaza zimi, ngezinye izihlandlo zihleli. Unako, ukuba ufuna, funda umthandazo, uvala amehlo akho.
Yimiphi imithandazo efundwa ngaphambi nangemva kokutya?
Umthandazo othandwa kakhulu ngaphambi kokutya "nguBawo wethu". Baye bafunda "Amehlo abo bonke kuwe, Nkosi, bayathemba," "Baya kudliwa kwaye bayaneliseka." Kwakhona ngeeholide, imithandazo inokuthi ithathe indawo yomsindo wempuphu. Iitroparion ziyimvumi emfutshane, nazo zifumaneka kwincwadi yomthandazo.
Emva kokutya ukutya, kuyisiko lokufunda umthandazo othi "Siyabonga, OwuKristu uThixo wethu, ngokuba usiselisekile ngeentsikelelo zakho zasemhlabeni." Emva kokufunda lo mthandazo, awukwazi kusitya uze udle isidlo esilandelayo, njengoko amagama akhe aya kugqitha ukuphela kwesidlo. Kwakhona, emva kwemithandazo ngaphambi kokutya, awukwazi ukuvuka etafileni, ngenxa yokuba uphazamisa isangqa esibusisiweyo esenziwe kulo mlo.
Bani na abantwana kunye neendwendwe?
Ukuba unomfundisi, uphathiswe ilungelo lokuthandaza ngaphambi nangemva kokutya. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unabantu behlabathi abavakatye ekhaya kwaye awukwazi indlela abaziva ngayo ngenkolo yakho, kungcono ukuyeka umthandazo ngaphambi kokuba bahambe, kuba unokuzibeka nje kwindawo engalunganga. Ukuba i-compromise ifumaneka kunye neendwendwe, kwaye abavumelani nokuhlanjululwa kokutya, kunjengokuba awubahloneli, ungathembi umwendwendwe ukuholela umthandazo oqhelekileyo - kungekhona into yokuba uya kuyithanda.
Ngokubhekiselele kubantwana (bakho), kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bajwayele ukuthandaza. Abantwana abajwayele ukususela kwiminyaka yokuqala ukuya kwinto yokuba nayiphina inyathelo kufuneka iqale ngomthandazo, kwixesha elizayo baya kuba nokukwazi ukuzivumelanisa ngokukhawuleza kwisithuba kwaye batyelele itempile.
Ngexesha lokufunda komthandazo ngaphambi nangemva kokutya, omnye kufuneka abhaptizwe. Ukuba abantwana abanakho ukuxhamla nokuqonda ukuzithelela, abazali bafanele bakwenze endaweni yazo.
Kukho nawuphi na, baya kukhunjulwa ukuba ukrakra kakubi, kwaye kufuneka uzalise ubudlelwane noThixo.
Umthandazo ngaphambi kokutya "uBawo wethu"
Wethu, wena usemazulwini! Malingcweliswe igama lakho, bufike ubukumkani bakho, ukuthanda kwakho kwenziwe, njengasezulwini nasemhlabeni. Siphe lona namhlanje isonka sethu sesimini; Uwasithethelele amatyala ethu, njengoko sibaxolela abanetyala; kwaye asikhokele kwisilingo, kodwa usihlangule ebubini.
Uzuko kuYise nakuNyana nakuMoya oyiNgcwele, ngoku naphakade naphakade naphakade. Amen. Nkosi, yibani inceba. (Okwesithathu) Tsikelelo.
Umthandazo ngaphambi nangemva kokutya
