Izibhengezo zingumntu umthwalo othile emphefumlweni, ongavumeli ukuba uphile ngokuzonwabisa kwaye uqhubeke. Yingakho kubalulekile ukukwazi ukuyeka imeko, apho umthandazo wokubaxolela abo basichukumisayo uya kunceda. Ukuba umntu ufunda ukuxolela ngentliziyo yakhe yonke, amava amaninzi aya kuhamba aze ahlambulule umphefumlo.
Icawa, izazi zengqondo, iingqondo kunye nabanye abantu basebenzisana namandla bathi umntu akanakuziphindezela ngenxa yezono, ngenxa yoko, umntu ufaniswa nalabo benza okubi. Ukongezelela, impindezelo ayiyi kubuyisa umntu onwabileyo. Kubalulekile ukuvuma isohlwayo lakho, kuba iphutha elikhulu lizilungisa.
"Umthandazo Wokuxolela" - umthandazo onamandla wokukhululwa kwezikhalazo
Ukufunda lo mthandazo kufana nokucamngca, okukuvumela ukucima iingcamango zakho, umphefumlo kunye nentliziyo kuzo zonke iingcamango ezimbi ezinxulumene nentukuthelo. Kunconywa ukuba uhlale kwindawo ekhululekile kwisitulo okanye phantsi, into ephambili kukuba umzimba awugxininiswa. Emva koko, kufuneka uvale amehlo akho kwaye ugxininise ekuphefumla. Xa uziva ukhululekile ngaphambi kokuba ufunde umthandazo wokuxolelwa kwezono, kufuneka ucinge ukuba "ukuxolelwa" kuthetha ukuthini. Kubalulekile ukuqonda oko kuya kutshintsha xa ekugqibeleni uyayilahla le mthwalo. Gxininisa iliso lakho langaphakathi entliziyweni uze ufunde umthandazo onamandla wokuxolelwa ngumntu:
"Ndixolela kwaye ndiyamthanda.
Ndixolela wonk 'ubani ondicaphukisileyo aze ahambe emhlabeni.
Ndixolela ngokupheleleyo yonke into.
Ndixolisa kubo bonke,
Ngubani owamcaphukisayo, mhlawumbi ngamabomu okanye engazi.
Ndixolele, ndixolele, ndixolele ...
Ndiyamkela njengam.
Emva koko, ndiyinxalenye yeli hlabathi.
Ndikhululekile.
Ndiyayithanda ihlabathi lonke, ndiyamthanda, ndiziva ndikhanya.
Ndixolisa kuThixo ngenxa yezenzo ezenziwa kulolu suku.
Nkosi! Mkele, ndixolelwe kwaye nixolelwe ngentliziyo evulekile
Neengcamango ezicocekileyo,
Ndizamkele njengenqwanqwa yakho.
Ukulawula ukususela ngoku kwaye ngonaphakade iingcamango nezenzo zam. Amen. "
Ngeli xesha, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela imifanekiso ephakamileyo entloko kwaye yintoni imizwa evuselela umphefumlo. Konke oku kubalulekile ukuxolelwa. Ukuba kunzima ukufunda itekisi, umthandazo unokuthiwa ngamazwi akho, uthetha yonke into esuka entliziyweni ecocekileyo. Khumbula ukuba kubalulekile nje ukuxolela abanye, kodwa nawe. Bhengeza amagama rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka, kuba oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba uphinde ubuye kwiindawo ezinokuthi zingabonakali.
Kukwafanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba kwi-Orthodoxy kukho uphawu phambi kokuba abantu bacele ukuxolelwa - uphawu olungummangaliso lukaMama kaThixo Ukuthobisa iintliziyo ezimbi.