Ebudeni bemini, abantu bajamelana neengxaki ezininzi kunye neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, umntu uvakalelwa iimvakalelo ezininzi kwaye aze afike ekudakaleni . Kwiimeko ezinje, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana uncedo lokujongana nezibopho ezikhoyo kwaye ubuyele ubomi obuqhelekileyo nobonwabileyo. Kukhona imithandazo ekhethekileyo yokuthoba iingxaki kunye nemiphefumlo evumela ukuba ufumane ukuvumelana, ukujamelana neengxaki ezahlukileyo kwaye ufumane amandla okuhamba kunye nenkolelo enempembelelo emihle. Awukwazi ukujongana noThixo kuphela, kodwa nakwabangcwele abaxhasa amaxesha kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu.
Umthandazo wokuthoba umphefumlo kunye nokudakumba kweMatrona yaseMoscow
UMatrona ngumncedisi oyintloko wabantu, yingakho baphathwa ngezicelo ezahlukeneyo, kuquka ukuthoba umphefumlo kunye neentsholongwane. Okokuqala kukho konke kucetyiswa ukuba uye ecaweni kwaye ushiye inqaku malunga nempilo yakho apho. Emva koko, thola amakhandlela ecawa esithandathu kwaye ubeke isiqingatha kufuphi ne icon ye-Great Martyr Panteleimon, kunye nenxalenye yesibini kufuphi nomfanekiso kaMatrona. Ukujonga kwi icon, tshela umthandazo wenduduzo:
"UMatrona Uyolo, emphefumlweni ophelileyo, iimbilini zizola, ukuphumla kwesono. Amen. "
Emva koko, hamba uze uye ekhaya. Ukuze ufunde umthandazo ekhaya, kufuneka uthenge amakhandlela ambalwa, kunye neempawu zengcwele, ezikhankanywe ngaphambili. Ukongezelela, kucetyiswa ukuqokelela amanzi angcwele.
Ukuthandaza ekhaya, kufuneka uvale egumbini, ubeke phambi kwakho umfanekiso weMatona kunye nePelemimoni. Emva koko, khanyisa ikhandlela uze ufake isitya seamanzi angcwele. Ngexesha elithile kuyimfuneko ukujonga ilangabi lekhandlela, ukuphumla nokuthoba. Kucetyiswa ukuba ucinge uThixo, kunye nokuncenga kweMatona eMoscow . Emva koko, qhubela phambili ekufundeni ngokuphindaphindiweyo komthandazo ukuze uhlalise umphefumlo nentliziyo, efundeka ngale ndlela:
"Ubusisiwe uSolisa, uMatrona waseMoscow. Ndilondoloze ekubandekeni kwintlonelo, ndikhusele kwisidingo esinzima. Umphefumlo wam makungacingi kwiingcinga, kwaye iNkosi iya kubaxolela zonke iimpazamo. Ndincede ukuba ndoloze i-neurosis, makungabikho ukukhala kwezinyembezi ezibuhlungu. Amen. "
Emva koko, ziwela kathathu kwaye uphuze amanzi angcwele. Qhubeka ukhangela ilangatye lekhandlela, ucinga ngemicimbi evuyayo yexesha lakho elidlulileyo.
Umthandazo kuYohane uMbhaptizi ukuthula kwengqondo
Umgaqo osisiseko wombhalo wokuthandaza ukuba usebenze ukuphendukela ngokunyanisekileyo kwintliziyo evela entliziyweni ecocekileyo. Funda imithandazo ngokuhlwa. Ukuba akukho nethuba lokuya ecaweni kwaye uthandaze khona, ungaya kumntu ongcwele kunye nasekhaya. Ukugxila emthandazweni nokushiya ubomi bemihla ngemihla, kucetyiswa ukuba usebenzise uphawu lukaJohane uMbhaptizi, kunye nekhandlela elikhanyayo. Umbhalo womthandazo uzwakala ngathi:
"UmBhaptizi kaKristu, umshumayeli wokuguquka, ongangideliyo, kodwa othanda amaqhawe asezulwini, thandaza eNkosini ngenxa yam, engafanelekiyo, enobunzima, obuthathaka kunye nosizi, iintlungu ezininzi entlango, ezixhalabisayo iingcamango ezingqondweni zam. Ndingumngxuma wezenzo ezimbi, kude kube nokuphela kwesithethe esiyinyaniso, ndikhonjiswe ukuba ibe yinto yam emhlabeni. Yintoni ndiyidalayo? Asiyi. Ndiya kuzimela bani na, ukuba umphefumlo wam usindiswe? I-Tokmo kuwe, uYohane oNgcwele, bulela igama leNkosi, njengaphambi kweNkosi kwiTheotokos, uninzi lwabo bazalwa bonke bazalwa, uhloniphekile ukuchukumisa phezulu koKumkani kaKristu, owathatha izono zehlabathi, iMvana kaThixo. Sithandazela umphefumlo wam owonayo, kodwa ukususela ngoku ngoku, kwithemba lokuqala lelixa, ndiza kuthwala umthwalo wezinto ezilungileyo kwaye ndiya kwamkela isifumbathiso kunye naso. Kuye, uMbhaptizi kaKristu, u-Forerunner othembekileyo, uMprofeti wokugqibela, owokuqala ngobabalo be-martyr, abazilawuli kunye neentlango zothisha, ukucoceka kootitshala kunye nomhlobo kaKristu! Ndiyathandaza, ndiza kuwe; ungangamkeli kumbongozo wakho, kodwa undibeke phantsi, unqotshwe ngezono ezininzi. Buyisela umphefumlo wam ngokuguquka, njengobhaptizo lwesibini, oluphezu kwentloko yenu: ngobhaptizo ukuhlamba isono sokhokho, ukuguquka ukuhlanjululwa okufanayo kwalo mbandela kubi. Ndihlambulule, ngezono zongcolileyo, unyanzele ukuba ndiqonde, kwaye ungene ebukumkanini bamazulu ngokuzithoba. Amen. "