Utywala luyinto eqhelekileyo yoluntu lwangoku, oluchaphazela abantu abaneminyaka ehlukeneyo. Umntu onokuxhomekeka okunjalo akayikulawula izenzo zakhe, ngezinye izihlandlo ezikhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Ikhathazeka ngokukhethekileyo kubazali xa abantwana babo bexhatshazwa utywala. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, oomama baye basebenzisa imithandazo yokunxila kwonyana wabo, basindisa umntwana wakhe ekumlonyeni. Kuza kubekho, kukho iibhalo ezininzi ezinceda kule meko. Kubalulekile ukuwafunda ngeengcamango ezicocekileyo kunye nokholo olungaqinisekanga kwisiphumo.
Kubalulekile ukuba umntu oselayo a tyelele uMoleben oyiNgcwele kubo bonke abaNgcwele kathathu. Utywala kufuneka athole intsikelelo evela kumbingeleli aze ahambe ngeentsuku ezingama-40 ezikhawulezayo, ezihlala zihlambulula umzimba nomphefumlo. Nsuku zonke ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka uthandaze eduze kweso icon "I-Champinable Chalice" kwaye uphuze amanzi angcwele, ongayifakisha ecaweni, kwaye uyigcine kwisitya seglasi kunye nesiqhekeza. Ukuba ufuna ukusela utywala, kufuneka uphuze amanzi angcwele uze uthandaze.
Umthandazo onamandla wokunxila komntwana
Lukholo olusisiseko esilungelelwano sokusindiswa esiza kujamelana neengxaki kwaye sifumane indlela yokuphuma kwisicupho esibizwa ngokuthi "utywala". Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuba umntu onomlutha akafuni ukuthandaza yena, izihlobo eziseduze ziyakwenza oko. Isicelo esifanelekileyo siya kuvezwa yiNkosi. Umthandazo uzwakala ngathi:
"Londoloza, Nkosi, kwaye unenceba kubakhonzi bakho (igama) ngamagama eendaba ezilungileyo zakho, funda ngokusindiswa kwabakhonzi bakho (igama). Ndiye, Nkosi, enameva kuzo zonke iziphoso zabo, zikhululekile kwaye zingenabulungisa, kwaye inceba yakho, ekhanyiselayo, iya kuhlanjululwa, ihlambulule wonke umntu, ihlale kuyo. E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. "
Umthandazo weWonaphathy ekudakwa
ISt. Boniface ngumncedisi ophambili wabantu abahluphekileyo ngokuxhomekeka kotywala . Ngaphambi kokuthandaza, kucetyiswa ukuba uye ecaweni uze ubuze umbingeleli ngentsikelelo yonyana wakho. Ukufumana umphumo oyifunayo, imithandazo kufuneka ifundwe ubuncinane iintsuku ezingama-40, kodwa kwezinye iimeko kuya kufuneka ukuba uqhagamshelane ne-saint kwiiveki ezingama-40, kwaye ivakale ngathi:
"Owu, ongcwele onguMoya ongcwele, inceba yenceba yeNkosi! Yivayo abo beza kuwe, benomdla wokusela utywala, kwaye, njengobomi bakho basemhlabeni awuzange wenqabe ukubanceda abo bacelayo, ngoko ngoku, nibanike loo mahlwempu (amagama). Ngesinye isikhathi, ubaba ozilumko, isichotho saqhekeza isidiliya sakho, wena, ubulela uThixo, wawalela ukuba iindawo zokuhlala ezidliwayo zihlale edibanini yewayini kwaye zibize abaceli. Emva koko, ukuthatha iwayini entsha, wawuthululela ngehlombe kuzo zonke iinqanawa ezazingabakhobhishophu, kwaye uThixo, wenza umthandazo wenceba, wenza ummangaliso oqaqambileyo: iwayini kwisikhamo sewayini iyenyuka, kwaye abaceli bazalisa iimpahla zabo. Oyingcwele kaThixo! Njengomthandazo wakho iwayini sele yanda ngenxa yeemfuno zecawa kunye nenzuzo yentlekele, ngoko wena, usikelele, uyancitshisa ngoku apho kuphazamiseka khona, ukusindisa ekugqithiseni kuyo, ukuyeka ukunyaniseka kwehlazo lokunwa kwewayini (amagama), uphilise kwisifo esibuhlungu, zilingo zedemoni, ziqiniseke, zibuthathaka, zinike, ubuthathaka, amandla kunye namandla okulunga ukukhawuleza esi silingo, ubuyisele kubomi obuphilileyo kunye nobunzulu, bawaqondise endleleni yomsebenzi, batyale kubo umnqweno wokuzimela kunye nokunyaniseka kokomoya. Bancedani, ongcwele kaThixo, uBhoniface, xa unxanxisiwe lwewayini kutshaya umlomo wabo, ukutshabalalisa umnqweno wabo wokufa, uvuselele umlomo wabo ngokupholisa kwasezulwini, ukhanyise amehlo abo, babeke iinyawo zabo edwaleni lokholo kunye nethemba ukwenzela ukuba, bashiya ukuthanda kwabo, UBukumkani baseZulwini, baqulunqwe ngokuhlonela uThixo, banikezelwa ukungafihlisi kokuthula okungapheliyo kunye nokukhanya okungapheliyo koBukumkani obungapheliyo bozuko ngokukhazimulisa ngokufanelekileyo iNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu kunye noYise woqobo kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele noMoya ngonaphakade naphakade. Amen. "
Umthandazo kuMatrona ekudakwa konyana
Kulo ngcwele, amakholwa aphathwa ngeengxaki ezahlukileyo, kubandakanya ukumcela ukuba ancede ukulahla ukuxhomekeka kotywala. Ngenxa yoko kuyimfuneko ukufunda umthandazo onjalo:
O Mama waseMatrono, unina osikelelekileyo, uva uze usamkele ngoku, aboni, sithandaze kuwe, oye wafunda kuwo wonke umphefumlo wakho ukuba eze ezephulaphule bonke abo bahluphekileyo baze balusizi, benokholo nethemba lokuncenga kwabo kunye noncedo lwabo abaza, ukukhulula ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuphulukisa ngokumangalisayo kwabo bonke abazithobayo; ukuze ngoku inceba yakho ayaneleyo kuthi, ingenakufaneleka, ingenasiphelo kweli hlabathi lehlabathi, kwaye ngoku ifumana induduzo kunye nemfesane kwiintlungu zomphefumlo kunye nokunceda kwizifo zomzimba: philisa ukugula kwethu, sisindise kwizilingo kunye nokuhlushwa kukaMtyholi, onobukrakra emfazweni, ukunceda ukuzisa ihlabathi Umnqamlezo, uthathe yonke imithwalo yobomi kwaye ungaphumi kuwo umfanekiso kaThixo, ukholo lobuOthodoki de kube sekupheleni kwemihla yethu, ithemba kunye nethemba likaThixo, ukulinganisa okunzulu kunye nothando olungathandekiyo kummelwane bethu; kusinceda ekuhambeni kwethu ebomini ukuze sifumane uBukumkani bamaZulwini kunye nabo bonke abakholisa uThixo, bezukisa inceba kunye nokulunga kukaBawo waseZulwini, ngoBathathu Emnye
Umthandazo kwi-Theotokos kwimeko yokudakwa
Isithonjana esinamandla kunazo zonke esinceda ukujamelana nokusela utywala kukuba ubuso bukaMama kaThixo "I-Chalice engapheliyo". I-icon ibonisa uMama kaThixo ngeengalo zakhe eziphakanyisiweyo, kwaye phambi kwakhe isitya apho uThixo-onyana. Umthandazo uzwakala ngathi:
"Namhlanje siyinkosana yokwethembeka kwiMfanekiso oyiNgcwele kunye noPhezulu kakhulu oMama ongcwele kaThixo, ohlwayela iintliziyo ezithembekileyo zendebe ezingenakunqwenelekayo zenceba yakhe kunye nokubonakalisa ngokumangalisayo imimangaliso kubantu abathembekileyo. Sibhiyozela kwaye siva ngo komoya nangokomoya, sibhiyozela kwaye simemeza ngokufudumele: "Inkosikazi inesihe, uphilise izifo zethu kunye nokuthanda, ukuthandazela uNyana Wakho, uKristu wethu uThixo, ukuba asindise imiphefumlo yethu."