Esinye sezifo eziqhelekileyo zentlalo ngexesha lethu kukuxhomekeka kotywala. Iingcamango malunga nalo, ukunyaniseka kunye nezindlela zokulwa nesi sifo zifanelwe ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo, kuba iyakuthinta wonke umntu.
Indlela yokuqaphela ukuxhomekeka kotywala?
Kukho iingcinga ezininzi malunga nokuxhomekeka kotywala kunye neendlela zokujongana nazo, kungekudala. Ngako-ke, lo mbuzo kufuneka uhlalutye kwiinkcukacha ezininzi njengoko kunokwenzeka. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi abantu bakholelwa ukuba nokuba batywala ibhotile yobisi imihla ngemihla, abayotywala. Ngokutsho koogqirha - le ngqungquthela. Ukuphuhlisa umlutha, ibhinqa kufuneka isela ibhotile yobhiya obukhanyayo ngosuku, iibhotile ezintathu. Ezinye iimpawu zesifo zi:
- ukubonakala kokuvuyela kweso sicinga ngotywala;
- ukungakwazi ukuyeka ngexesha lomthendeleko, usele, de kube umntu edibanise;
- umnqweno wokubandakanya abantu abaqhelekileyo nabangaqhelekanga kwinkqubo yokusela;
- utshintsho ekuziphatheni - ubunzima kunye nokungaxhamli, ukunyaniseka ngexesha lexesha elibi;
- ukubonakala kwememori emva kokusela;
- umnqweno wokuchitha utywala yonke imali, ukuthengisa izinto ukusuka ekhaya, amatyala ahlala phantsi.
Utywala lomlingo - wenzeni?
Ukulwa nokuxhomekeka kotywala kufuneka kube nzima. Yaye inyaniso yokuba ayiphathwe yinto eyimfihlakalo. Kunzima kakhulu, ixesha elide kwaye lifuna uncedo lweengcali. Impazamo yoluvo kukuba into ephambili kukuba ukuxothwa kokuxhomekeka kotywala ngamadaka akhethekileyo, kodwa ukubuyiswa komfanekiso wokuziphatha kuyinkqubo yokuzikhethela. Ukubuyiselwa kwengqondo kubalulekile kungabi ngaphantsi, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuhlanjululwa komzimba kwiimveliso zokuqhekeka kwezinto ezixutywe ngotywala. Ukuba umntu onxilisayo akasiniki isizathu sokuba ayeke ukusela, ngoko ngokwakhe akayi kuze akwenze.