Ngexesha lokulala, umntu ufumana imiqondiso emininzi engayichazela malunga neziganeko zekamva kunye nelikhoyo. Ngenxa yoko kuyimfuneko ukuyichaza ngokuchanekileyo. Xa uvuka, zama ukukhumbula iinkcukacha ezininzi, kunye nokuxinzezeleka kwengqondo.
Kutheni inja emhlophe iphupha?
Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi lokuba olo phupha lidla ngokubonakala ngabantu abakhetha ukuphumelela ngenxa yemigudu yabanye abantu. Kungaba kwakhona isilumkiso sokuba iziganeko ezibalulekileyo ziza kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye awuyi kuba nako ukuphazamisa nayiphi na indlela. Iphupha, apho inja enkulu emhlophe ibonakala khona, ibonisa ukuba isiganeko esilandelayo asinakuchaphazela wena kuphela, kodwa abantu abajikelezile. Ngokomzekelo, kungaba yizindaba ezingavamile, ezingenakulindelekanga kwaye zitshitshise. Ndaphupha inja enkulu emhlophe, oku kuthetha ukuba unokuthembela kuncedo olubonakalayo kumntu othandekayo, okanye uya kudibana nezihlobo ezikude. Ukuba isilwanyana sasincinci, oku kubonisa ukuba kungekudala uza kuba kwiziko lokuqwalaselwa kwesiganeko. Ingcaciso yephupha ikhuthaza ukuba uqaphele, njengoko kungacacanga apho ingozi ivela khona.
Ukubona inja emhlophe emnandi kwiphupha kuthetha ukuba umhlobo osondeleyo uya kunceda ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezikhoyo, ongayiboni ixesha elide. Kusenokuba yinto yokusebenza kwintando kunye nomsebenzi wecandelo. Umbono ebusuku, apho isilwanyana sibheke khona, si lumkisa ukuba kukho umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ngumthandayo. Ukuba inja emhlophe igxotha ephupheni, ngoko unokulindela ukuxoxisana
Enye yeencwadi zephupha zijonga inja emhlophe isimboli sabantwana. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokukhulula iinkukhu ezikhulile ezivela kwidleke. Ukuphupha inja emhlophe igula okanye ikalimele, ngoko umntu osuka kumhlobo okanye izihlobo ezifutshane ufuna uncedo nenkxaso. Ukuba ujikelezwe ngumhlambi wezilwanyana, kwaye awuyikwesaba-lo luphawu oluhle oluthembisa ukuqinisekiswa kuluntu. Ukubona inja emhlophe enebhola kuthetha ukuba uza kufumana umtshato wakho nomtshato.