Inyaniso yokuba phakathi kwabantu abaqhelekileyo kukho abafazi abanezakhono zobungangamsha ezaziwayo kumaxesha amandulo. Okokuqala, abathakathi babephathwa kakubi, babanjwa baza batshiswa kwisibonda. Ehlabathini lanamhlanje, bayesaba, kodwa ngelo xesha bahlonishwayo. Abantu abaninzi baya kubo ukuze bancede ngeengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Abanye abathakathi abafihla ubuchule babo, ngoxa abanye bazama ukuhlala bengaboni.
Ungazibona njani umlumbi?
Nangona umnqweno wabafazi abanomlingo ukufihla intsingiselo yabo, ngokuba namhlanje izibonakaliso ziyaziwa, zivumela ukuba zibonise ukuba zihlukanise phakathi kwesihlwele.
Iindlela zokujonga umkhwa ngembonakalo:
- Ngokuqinisekileyo, bonke abafazi abanomlingo bahle kwaye banethemba. Eyona nto inomdla, akunakwenzeka ukusho oko kubakhangayo ngokubonakala kwabo, kufaniswa nokuhlobo oluthile lwemagnetism.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo umlusi unolunye uhlobo lwesimilo somntu, umzekelo, lunokukhula okukhulu, amanxeba amaninzi okanye ilizwi elibi.
- Uyakwazi ukubona umlumbi emehlweni, kuba ukuba ubheka kuzo nayiphi na indlela, mhlawumbi uphenduke ngokukhawuleza, okanye uzame ukuphepha ukujonga ngqo. Aba bhinqa banokwakheka kanzima kunye nokukhangela, abaninzi babo baphosa i-shiver. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abathakathi banamaso okukhanya, umzekelo, eluhlaza. Iqhosha elibonisa ukuba ngaphambi kokuba ungumlumbi wangempela-amehlo enemibala eyahlukileyo.
- Olunye uhlobo oluphawulekayo lwabathakathi abaninzi lubuhle obude. Ngokutsho kweenkolelo, kukho kuwo amandla kunye namandla okugxininiswa, kwaye ukuba ngaba zikhulile, lo mfazi uya kulahlekelwa onke amandla akhe.
- Kwiingubo zobungqingili bakhethe u-shades kunye nezinto zokusebenza, ngokuchaseneyo, imibala eqaqambileyo. Ngokuyinene, ezi ziketi ezinde okanye iimpahla zokugqoka.
- Unokwazi ukuchonga umlingo ngeempawu zokuzalwa, ekubeni amanqaku anjengeMark's Mark. Amanqaku kuphela asezindaweni ezifihlakeleyo, umzekelo, kwizinwele, kufuphi neenjongo zesini, phantsi kweengalo, njl., Ziqwalaselwa. I-mole okanye indawo ingahluka ngokukhulu, kodwa iya kuba nesimo esingavumelekanga. Ukuba ugwaza indawo enjalo ngenaliti, ke akuyi kuba negazi, kwaye umlumbi akayi kuva nantoni na.
Ebomini, abafazi abanomlingo abafani kakhulu nabanye abafazi, kodwa kwiimeko ezithile bangabonwa lula. Ubonisa indlela yokumisela umlingo ngokuziphatha:
- NgeLwesine elungileyo kufuneka uhambe ecaweni kunye neengubo zakho zijike ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwaye ungathinti nantoni na. Ukuba kukho abatemon e tempile, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuzibonakalisa. Kukho umfanekiselo wobuqili obunqunu emva komfundisi.
- Kuyimfuneko kwiSonto lePlanga ukucwangcisa ikhandlela kwaye ngolunye usuku ukuya kwindawo engcwele, kwaye ukuyikhanyisa. Ukuba kukho umlumbi ophantse, ngoko uya kuqinisekiswa kwaye aphenduke.
- Uyakwazi ukubona umlumbi phakathi kwabantu ngendlela ahamba ngayo ebandleni. Into eyenzayo kukuba abafazi abanjalo benzayo ngeminyango yabo, kuba abayinyamezeli amandla avela kwiintsika.
- Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, inkolelo yokuba umlumbi angabonakala kwisiteka apho ifuyo ikhona khona. Umntu kufuneka afihle apho kwaye ulindele ukubonakala kwekati elimnyama okanye i-frog. Ukuba bangela ukuba naluphi uhlobo lokulimala, ngolunye usuku olulandelayo, ukufumana ibhinqa eneemvumbo kule ndawo kunokuthiwa ngumtshi.
- Ngokwenkolelo-ze, umlumbi uneendawo ezininzi emzimbeni wakhe ngaphandle kokuphela kwesigulane kwaye ukuba umzimba wakhe uhlulwa, akayi kuva nantlungu, kwaye ngenxa yoko ayiyi kubakho mpendulo.
Ngenxa yokuba umlingo unokulawula amandla akhe, kwaye uyazi iimfihlo zendalo kunye neendlela ezihlukeneyo, ukubonakala kwakhe akutshintshi ixesha elide. Amantombazana anjalo athandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabameli bobulili obuhlukile.