Kuzo zonke izinto zobomi bomntu, iimpawu zithatha indawo yokugqibela kwaye zidlala indima ebalulekileyo, kwaye kwinqanaba elingayi kubakho phuhliso ehlabathini, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi intsha ebonakalayo kwisayensi, ukukholwa "kwimimiselo yesalela" kunokuhlala kusekho. Uninzi lwesayensi aluyikuzibuza ukuba kutheni le nto yenzeka, kodwa okwangoku abantu abayeke ukuthelekisa iziganeko, okwenzekayo kwimibono yabantu, nangaphambi kokwenza into okanye ngaphambi kokwenza nantoni na ekhokelwa yiyo "impawu".
Umqondiso onjalo ongenakunqwenelekayo, xa intaka iqhutywe ngefestile, inokubangela impembelelo enkulu ebomini bomntu kwiiveki ezimbini ezizayo. Ngoxa i-omen ingabonakali, okanye umntu akayi kukulibala.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba intaka iqhutywe ngefestile?
Ukuba unxulumana nomqondiso onjalo kunye nezibonakaliso, kwaze kwaba ngexesha lookhokho bethu, iintaka zithathwa njengeliso lwemiphefumlo yabantu abafileyo. Ngoko ke, abo babenomdla kumbuzo wento ekuthethwa ngayo ukuba intaka yaphuma ngefasitela, impendulo yayicacile: ngumphefumlo wesihlobo esiseduze okanye umntu ongasaphila, ezama ukuthumela ulwazi. Ngaloo ndlela, kuvela ukuba intaka ehamba ngefestile, ngokwemiqondiso ethandwayo - kwiindaba. Kodwa ziphi uhlobo lweendaba eziza kubakhokela, ookhokho bethu baphathwe ngokusekelwe kwi "intlobo" yeentaka.
Kwakukholelwa ukuba isiqwenga okanye intlunkulu ibonakaliso olubi. Kungenzeka ukuba, ixabiso elinjalo lafunyanwa yinyaniso yokuba ezi ntaka zonakalisa isivuno. Galki kunye namagosa - ukuhleka ngentsapho ngobomi bentsapho kwilungu losapho olusondeleyo. Ukukhukhula kwifasitela, ubusuku obubanjwe bubonakaliso njengotyikityo lobutyebi, inhlalakahle yezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuchuma, kunye neempuphu kunye ne-swallows ephathwe njengomtshato ozayo okanye umtshato.
Iimpawu zabantu azidluli kunye neentaka ezifuywayo. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, ijongwe ithathwa njengomlwa nomoya okhohlakeleyo, okhupha ubumnyama "ngencoko" yakhe. Kukholelwa ukuba ii-roosters ezicula ngexesha elibi - kwiindaba. Yaye ukuba iqhude likhala ngesango ngokwalo, yile isingqungquthela sokufika kwabafokazi kwikamva elizayo.
Okubaluleka okhethekileyo kweempawu
Kodwa ukuba ijuba lalingena kwifestile, kwakuyi-harbinger ye nyaniso yokuba iindaba ziyahluka kakhulu. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba intsapho iya kwongezwa, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukufa kwezihlobo. Umqondiso omhle xa ihobe ihamba ngefestile, ibambe into ethile. Kwakhona, ngokwemiqondiso ethandwayo, ukutyelelwa kwejuba kungabangela ukubaluleka okunjengokuxabana nokuxabana kwintsapho, umtshato, ukutshatyalaliswa.
Ngoko ke, ukuba kwenzeka ukuba ekhaya okanye emsebenzini, intaka iqhutywe ngefestile, ngoko ukuphatha "uphawu" olusekelwe kulo "luhlobo" lwentaka.
Kuthiwani ukuba intaka leyo yaphuma ngefestile?
Ukusebenza ngamnye umntu ekuboneni ikati elimnyama, ngaphandle kokungabaza, uphosa phezu kwehlombe lakhe. Okanye, xa lesi silwanyana sihamba ngaphaya kwendlela, siphosa into emva kwakhe. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza, ngoko ukuba into ebizayo ngeentaka eziqhutywe kwifestile ayifezeki, kungekhona abaninzi abazi. Kodwa kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo akukho namanyathelo okufuneka athathwe. Yinto elula kakhulu: vumela ukuba ibhabhise wena. Akufuneki ukuvala ifestile kwaye
Xa intaka ekugqibeleni ikhupha, kuyimfuneko ukuthatha isikhulu esincinci sawo nawaphi na okusanhlamvu, kwaye, ukuphosa phantsi kwewindow, ithi: "Fly for food, and not for the soul!"
Uphawu aluyi kuza kwenzeka ukuba umntu wenza loo nkqubo.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ngumntu kuphela oya kucinga ukuba uyakholelwa kwiimpawu okanye cha.