Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayamangalisa, befumanisa ukuba umntwana wabo uhlala echukumisa izifo zabo zobuncwane. Ukuphendula kwinto engalindelekanga yendlela ekhohlakeleyo inokuhlukahluka - ukusuka kumangaliso. Akuyomfuneko ukuphazamiseka kwangoko, kuba kuqale kubalulekile ukuqonda, kutheni umntwana ehlala echukumisa i-pisyulyu.
Umntwana uvame ukuthinta i-pisyulyu: izizathu ezinokwenzeka
- Inzala engqondweni . Ukufunda umzimba womzimba yenye yeendlela zokuphuhlisa umntwana. Ngesinye isikhathi umntwana ufumanisa umlomo, umlomo, intonga, i-pussy kwaye ibonisa ukuba ngumdla osemthethweni.
- Iinkqubo ezivuthayo. Esinye sezizathu zokuba umntwana uhlala esitsala izandla zakhe kwizitho zangasese zingabetha okanye zingakhathazeki kule ndawo.
- Ukuxinezeleka . Ngokutsho kwengcamango ye-psychoanalytic yokwakhiwa kwe-psyche ye-Freud, bonke abantwana bafumana amanyathelo athile okuphuhliswa, okugqibela ekuthiwa yizo zesini. Ngoko, umntwana ngokukhawuleza ukufumanisa oko, echaphazela izifo zakhe zomzimba, unokufumana uvuyo. Nceda nceda! Musa ukudibanisa oku kunye nobulili bokuqala. Ngaloo ndlela umntwana angakwazi ukuzola, ukuphumla, ukukhulula uxinzelelo.
Indlela yokunciphisa umntwana ukuba achukumise i-pussy?
- Into yokuqala yokuyenza kukubona ugqirha kwizifo ezithathelwanayo nezivuzayo. Ukuba konke kulungelelaniswa kwesi si cwangciso, ingxaki ingokwengqondo, kwaye inketho yesisombululo sayo ingezantsi.
- Masiqale ngento engenakwenziwa ngokubanzi, oko kukuthi: kumemeza kumntwana, ukubetha ezandleni, ujezise. Oku kunokuchaphazela ukuphazamiseka komzimba wakho kwixesha elizayo - konke okuya kubandakanywa ne-physiology kunye neemfuno zendalo, umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba "ungcolile" kwaye uhlazo.
- Ukuba umntwana usemncinci ukuba aqonde iinkcazo zakho zoxolo malunga nokuba kutheni oku akufanele kwenziwe, zama nje ukumisa ngokunyanisekileyo izenzo ezinjalo - susa izibambiso kwizitho zangasese uze uzame ukungashiyi umntwana ngaphandle kweengubo.
- Umntwana omdala unokuchaza yonke into kwifom epholileyo kunye nechanekileyo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukumphazamisa aze athathe into enomdla ngexesha elinjalo.