Ewe, ukuba uthe walala, uthi inqaku elithi " kwindawo entsha, uphupha, umyeni womyeni ", ungamangalisi ukuba uphupha umtshato, apho uphendule ngokuqinisekileyo umbuzo onomdla kakhulu. Cinga ukuba amaphupha omtshato, kuphela xa usuku lokuqala, awuzange ucingisise kwaye awuzange ucinge ngesikhulu kwihhashi elimhlophe.
Iingcamango "zomtshato" zezifundo
Okokuqala, masiqwalasele ngamaphi amaphupha aphuphayo ngokutshata, izifundo eziyimitshato.
Okokuqala, ukuba umtshato ozayo unokuba liphupha lezinto zokugqoka : iibhonkethi, iintambo, kwaye, ingakumbi, amasongo. Ukuba unikwe indondo ephupheni, kuthetha ukuxhomekeka. Kwinqanaba elithile, iphupha elinjalo liphathwa ngokufana nomtshato, kuba oku kuxhomekeke kumyeni (kwaye ke mawunqandeke ngabafazi). Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungumtshatsheli wezinto zokugqoka, kwaye ebusuku ukhangele, njengencwadi yencwadana, ushiye amaqabunga ensimbi, awuzange uphuphe umtshato.
Into yesibili ukuba amaphupho ngaphambi komtshato izicathulo . Izicathulo, amabhuthi ephupheni - oku kuwuphawu olutshanje lwangoku ebomini. Zingachaza nokuhamba, ukutshintsha indawo yokuhlala, ulwalamano olutsha, ulwalamano, inzondo, kodwa kungekhona (nangona kunjalo) umtshato.
Uyintoni iphupha lomtshato ovuyisayo?
Kwaye makhe sixoxe ngokuqinisekileyo okuphupha umtshato ovuyayo, nangona kungabonakali ukuphathwa njengomqondiso wokulungiselela umtshato:
- Ama-Oaks - aphezulu kwaye anamandla ama-oki, ubomi obomtshato buya kuba nolonwabo. Ukuba ii-oki zitshatile - utshata, kodwa umtshato onjalo awuyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Ukuba ubona indlela ama-oki aphantsi ngayo, umtshato uya kutshatyalaliswa yimigudu yomdlali okanye umchasi.
- I-Strawberries - kwaye ezi ziqhamo ephupheni kufuneka uzidle. Kodwa utyhefu lwee-strawberries, ezibonwa ephupheni, uthi umthandi wakho, obeka kuye ithemba lomtshato, uyakhohlisa.
- IiKaroti - ukuba intombazana encinci ingumqondiso nje kuphela ngomtshato osondeleyo, kodwa nangenxa yokuba abantwana bahlala ejikeleze ikona. Kodwa i- karoti ephupheni lomfazi okhulileyo, uthetha ngezinto ezithile eziphathekayo.
- Utamatisi - oluvuthiweyo
kunye nesithembiso esinomzimba wakho womtshato nomntu osisityebi kakhulu, kodwa utamatisi obumbeleyo ephupheni, uqikelele ukuba wenqaba ukunikela ngezandla, iintliziyo kunye nekhredithi yomntu ocebileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunzima ukuthetha ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo amaphupha omtshato, kuba oku, ngaphezu kwakho konke, kuxhomekeke kwimibutho nganye yomntu ngamnye. Enyanisweni, ukuba uphupha intlanzi okanye i-melon ngaphambi komtshato, ngoko, ubomi obatshatileyo obunomtshato, ngesizathu esithile udibanisa nale mveliso.
Ukuba i-subconscious yakho ayidlala iipuzzle kunye nawe kwaye yenza izinto ngokulula, ukufaka isigqubuthelo ephupheni inokuba ngumtshato.