Nangona kunjalo lusizi lungava, kuninzi lwabafazi abangatshatanga. Izizathu zolu meko zinokuba yinani elikhulu, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, abameli abaninzi bezesondo ezifanelekileyo babonisa ukuba banesithsaba se-celibacy. Iingqondo zithi le ngcamango ayilunganga, kuba eso siqalekiso siqabile kakhulu. Kulo mzekelo, kuyafaneleka ukuba wazi indlela yokumisela isithsaba se-celibacy nendlela yokulahla ngayo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwenza oku ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokufuna uncedo kwiingcali.
Ungayiqonda njani isithsaba se-celibacy?
Uninzi ngokuqhelekileyo unquma ukuba kukho isiqalekiso, ukhangela izandla. Phakathi 'kwemiqondiso' ekhoyo efunekayo ukufumana umgca womtshato ophezu kwentendelezo phantsi kosiko lomnwe omncinci okanye phantsi kwentaba yeMercury. Ukuba kukho umgca ngakwesobunxele, kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ngisho nokuthetha ngesithsaba esiqhelekileyo sobuhlali. Ukungabikho komgca kubonisa okuchaseneyo. Isiqalekiso esinjalo sinamandla kakhulu, njengoko amandla enyuka minyaka yonke. Emva koko, jonga ngakwesokunene. Ukuba ayinayo umgca womtshato, ithetha ukuba umntu usenokungcoliswa yedwa. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukwenza isithethe ukuyilahla.
Enye indlela yokufumanisa ukuba unesithsaba se-celibacy inxulumene nemigca esandleni sakho. Kubalulekile ukubona ukuba isandi "iMercury" sikhona, ngumgca ojikeleze isiseko somnwe omncinci. Abaninzi bama palmist babiza le ngqungquthela yomhlolokazi.
Iinkcubeko, indlela yokujonga ukuba kukho isithsaba se-celibacy
Kukho amasiko amaninzi amandulo ukuchonga ukuba kukho isiqalekiso okanye akunjalo:
Ungayifaka ingxowuni yesiliva emlonyeni wesandla sakho sasekhohlo uze uyigqoke iintsuku ezintathu. Emva koko, umhlobiso kufuneka uncitshiswe kwiglasi yamanzi ebusuku, kwaye kusasa ukujonga imeko yelwelo. Ukuba ihlala ihlambulukile, ke akukho sithsaba kunye naso.
Isithethe esilandelayo siya kubanjwa ngoLwesihlanu kwenyanga. Thatha isitya, uthele amanzi kuyo, wongeza amaconsi asixhenxe emanzini angcwele kunye neepalali ezili-10 zobomvu obomvu. Taz ubusuku, uyibeke entloko yebhedi. Ekuseni, jonga iipalali. Baye bawa phantsi, ngoko kukho isiqalekiso, kwaye xa behlamba phezu kwamanzi-ingxaki yedwa ihlala kwenye.
Ukuchonga ukuba isithsaba se-celibacy singasebenzisa iintonga ezinamakha. Yibanike kwaye niwahambise entloko yenu, ukuba umsi uloba - lo luphawu olucacileyo lwesiqalekiso sobodwa.
Indlela yokunquma isithsaba se-hilacy ebandleni?
Isithethe silula, kodwa sidinga ukulungiswa. Ngenye imini ngaphambi koku, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukutya kokuvela kwimfuyo, kwaye endaweni yokutya isidlo samanzi. Awukwazi ukutya okanye ukusela nantoni na kusasa. Yiya ecaweni ngaphambi kokuba inkonzo iqalise kwaye ibeke ikhandlela kwiTheotokos, uKristu noNicholas uMmangaliso okanye iPelimimon uMphili. Emva koko thandaza uze ucele abangcwele ukuba babonise ukuba isithsaba sinqabileyo okanye cha. Thetha yonke into yakho
Hlaziya imbali yentsapho, zama ukufumana iinkcukacha zobomi bomntu wabasetyhini bentsapho. Ukuba wonk 'ubani unengxaki ebomini babo, ke kukho umngcipheko wokuba isithuba siphindele.
Isithsaba se-celibacy sisuswe, ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yesiqalekiso. Amagqirha amaninzi ayakuqinisekisa ukuba isiqalekiso esiqhelekileyo sithathwa njenge-karma ethile kwaye kunzima ukukususa, kwaye kwezinye iimeko akunakwenzeka. Ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwabangelwa ngumntu ngexesha lokuphila kwakhe, ngoko ngenxa yemicimbi yokususa isithsaba se-celibacy, kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe imeko.