Unyaka omtsha ungenye yeeholide ezinde kakhulu kwaye zilinde ixesha elide kubantwana. Ngethuba lokuqala xa sibona umthi weKrismesi kwaye safumana isipho esivela ku-Santa Claus, sasikholelwa kumatshini, ngoko ke abazali bahlala beqwalasela ngokukhethekileyo ukukhetha izipho kubantwana babo. Namhlanje unokubona uhlobo olunjalo lweemidlalo zamathoyizi kunye nabantwana abadala, kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukwenza ukhetho. Ukugqiba okokunika intombazana ngoNyaka omtsha, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuthenga yonke into ngokukhawuleza - kunye nedoli, kunye nesigqoko, kunye nokusetyenzela imidlalo, ezinjalo ezinemibala engavamile zingaba yimpahla. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kukho iintlobo zamathoyizi, kusekho imfuneko yokwenza ukhetho.
Isipho seNtombi entsha
Intombazana nganye ilinde uNyaka omtsha kwaye kwangaphambili iqala ukuphupha ngesipho, esiza kumzisa uTrans Frost. Yonke into enhle ifuna ukuba amaphupha akhe azaliseke. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukubuza intombi yakho, umntombazana, umzukulu okanye umhlakazi, isiphi isipho afuna ukuyifumana. Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, isipho seNtombazana Entsha kaNyaka kufuneka sikhethwe kungekuphela kwentswelo yomntwana. Emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bafuna kakhulu, kwaye akusoloko iinqwenela ezihambelana neminyaka yabo. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela iminyaka yomntwana ukuze wenze isipho esifanelekileyo.
Intombazana engama-2-3 iminyaka ibalulekile ukubonisa into ebombileyo kunye nemibala. Kule minyaka, amantombazana akalokothi aphuphe iziphiwo ezikhethekileyo, ngoko unokuthenga ithoyizi elithambileyo, umsila oqaqambileyo oguqula ube yinto yokudlala, kunye nencwadi yomculo enemibala okanye enye indawo yokufumana ikamelo labantwana. Namhlanje, amathoyizi athambileyo athandwa kakhulu, anokuthetha, ahambe okanye acule iingoma. Ngaloo nto yokudlala, nayiphi na umntwana iya kuhlulwa.
Ukuqala ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-3-4 ubudala, amantombazana angadlala idodoli. Ukuba ufuna ukugqiba into onokuyinika intombazana ngoNyaka omtsha, ngokuqinisekileyo idonki yaluphi na ubungakanani obuya kuvela. Kwaye kwaye ingqalelo yakho iya kuhanjiswa kwiindidi ezininzi zeedodoli, ingaba yindlu okanye ikhitshi, iisethi zeedodoli ezivela kwiimifanekiso ezidumile zingakholisa namantombazana ale minyaka.
Ngeminyaka eli-4 ukuya kwimi-7 ubudala, amantombazana sele anike izipho ezithandekayo. Ukongezelela, abantwana banokubaluleka ngakumbi, ngoko kuya kufuneka uzame ukukholisa intombazana. Namela oko akuthandayo. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminqweno ephumayo, unokukhetha iisethi zezilumko zamantombazana, isethi yomntu onwele intloko, iikhiyi labantwana ukupheka. Iifokethi ezimnandi kunye neengubo zeengubo zezingane ziyakwazi ukunqoba umncinci omncinci.
Ukukhetha into onokuyinika intombazana kaNtshonalanga, ingqalelo yakho iya kuba yindlela ekhethiweyo yokukhetha amathoyizi. Ukuba le ntombazana idlala amadonsa kakhulu, izipho ezinjenge-stroller, izindlu okanye iidlophu ziza kulungeleka. Ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana unomdla ngomculo, mhlawumbi kukufanele ukhethe isixhobo somculo apho umntwana wakho efuna ukudlala.
