Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka njalo, xa kungekho mnqweno wokuhlela ama-scandals, kodwa kwakhona ukushiya imeko, kuba akukho ndlela. Apha, umzekelo, umfazi ufunde ngokungcatsha kwendoda yakhe kwaye ufuna ukumfundisa isifundo senkundla, kodwa akwazi ukuba njani. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umlingane wam othandekayo ufuna ukumjezisa ngokuyeka ukuxabisa oko akwenzelayo, kwaye uyaphinda enze amabango ngaphezu koko. Kubonakala ngathi akukho nto inentsingiselo ethi "isobho sosawoti" okanye "uhlezi ekhaya," kodwa indlela ekhohlisayo ngayo! Mhlawumbi umyeni wenza into ayenayo umlingane angafuni ukunyamezela, kuba uyamthintela kwaye akayiyo yonwabe. Kwengqondo, ukudumala kwabasetyhini kubangela ukunyamezela okukhulu kwaye ndifuna ukufundisa umyeni wam isifundo sokukhubeka.
Ungabuyisela njani umyeni wakhe ngenxa yokuhlambalaza?
Indoda ayinakuyinyamekela into yokuba umfazi ulwa naye, kwaye uyakhohlwa ukumnika izipho aze azibale ngeeholide zeentsapho? Kukho iindlela ezintle zokuziphindezela kumyeni. Iingcali zengqondo ziya kukuxelela indlela.
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- Ukufumana isithembiso sokuba ikhaya ngexesha elithile, kodwa kunoko uhambe kunye nabahlobo kwi-bar? Kunconywa ngelanga elilandelayo ukuphinda "feat", ukushiya inqaku, ngexesha elifanayo, cima ifowuni. Vumela indoda ifane nale nto.
- Ukuba umyeni uyazibuza ngendlela umlingani olungiselela ngayo kwaye isetyenziselwa ukupheka, ukuba ngoku akakwazi ukukhanda amaqanda akhe ngokwakhe ? Kufuneka amaxesha amaninzi ukupheka ukudla. Umfazi ngeli xesha, makabe elele embhedeni, ubukele umboniso ozithandayo. Ukuba umyeni uqinisekile ukuba le ntokazi ayenzi nto, makhe makubone indlela ekhangeleka ngayo.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda ayaqiniseka ukuba umfazi ohleli ekhaya nomntwana akenzi nto, oko kuthetha ukuba akadini. Icebiso: Mshiye yedwa kunye nosana kwaye uhambe usuku lonke ukuhlala kunye nabahlobo. Makhe azame ukumelana nomntwana ngokwakhe.
- Yaye indlela yokugqibela iyona nto inomdla kakhulu - isohlwayo ngesondo ngenxa yesiphoso. Umlingani owenziwe kakubi ulahla ukusondelana nomyeni ade engayiqondi ityala lakhe.