Uninzi lweentsapho ngexesha lethu, apho kukho abantwana - iintsapho ezinomntwana kuphela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu uxela ukuba oku kukhethwa ngumzali ngamnye, kodwa kubalulekile ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhule ajikelezwe ngumzalwana okanye udade.
Emva koko, ngokwenene, abantwana abaningana kwintsapho - kuhle, bobabini kunye nabantwana. Abazalwana kunye noodade banako ukudala zabo izicwangciso zabahlobo, babelane ngeemfihlelo kunye nempumelelo, baxoxe ngeengxowa zamuva kwaye bafike ngesicwangciso sokubamba ihlabathi. Cinga ngamathuba amangalisayo "umntwana wakho ongatshatanga" olahlekileyo, ukuba ukhula ngaphandle komzalwana okanye udade.
1. Kwintsapho enkulu, akukho nto iphakamisa umbuzo othi ngubani othabatha isitya kuqala. Kwintsapho enkulu, yonke into yakhiwe ngomgaqo othi: "Ngubani owokuqala ukwenza oko, okwenziweyo."
2. Musa ukulibala malunga nomzabalazo wehlabathi ukuba unelungelo lokuhamba kwisihlalo sokuqala somoto womzali.
3. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kufuneka uhambe kwisitulo sangasemva kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubonise isibindi umfowenu okanye udade wakho ukuba i-belt buckle ihlala phantsi kwayo.
4. Nguwe kuphela umzalwana okanye udade wakho onokubelana ngokutya okumnandi kunye nokuthandayo. Kwaye ngokulinganayo.
5. Ukuba umzalwana okanye udade ngenxa yeengcinga zakho ufumana "isicatshulwa", ngoko uneliseko lokwenene. Oku kunokwenzeka kuphela kwiintsebenziswano phakathi kwezihlobo.
6. Kwaye wonke umntu uyaziqhelanisa nale meko xa kwintsapho enkulu umama ukhohliwe amagama abo bonke abantwana nangaphambi kokubiza uluhlu wonk 'ubani. Ngaba akuyena ummangaliso!
Ukuhlwaya kweenkqubo zethelevishini kugqityiwe ekupheleni kweemfazwe zelungelo lokukhetha inkqubo okanye ifilimu.
8. Yaye, ukuba uphumelele kulo mlo, awuyikukhulula kude kude nezandla zakho ukuze umzalwana okanye udade angatshintshi ishaneli.
9. Khumbula ukuba uvakalelwa xa ubetha umntakwabo okanye udade wakho kakhulu, waza wazama ukuzincama.
10. Ukuba kwintsapho enkulu umama wathenga into ekhethekileyo, okufuneka umzalwana okanye udade akufanele azi, ngoko ube ngumntwana othandekayo kule planethi.
11. Uqeqeshwe kakhulu ekutshitsheni iingoma zokukhangela kwikhabhinethi yomnye ukuba xa uva amanyathelo okuza kumntakwabo okanye udade wakho, ngokukhawuleza ushiye imeko yecala.
12. Izipho ezilungileyo kakhulu kwihlabathi zilingana nabazalwana okanye odade, abahluke ngendlela engcolileyo.
13. Abazalwana kunye noodade kuphela abazi imeko xa omnye wabo ezama ukubuza abazali into ebalulekileyo kwenye, kodwa ufumana ukungavumi.
14. Yaye, ke, umzuzu othusa xa uvela kubazalwana okanye udade uya kufunda ukuba abazali baxoxa nawe.
15. Ngexesha lokukhukhumaza, akukho nto uyenzayo kodwa uhlekise umzalwana okanye udade wakho.
16. Umzuzu omhle wobudlelwane kwenzeka xa ulwazi "olufihlekileyo" lufikela kubazali emlonyeni womzalwana okanye udade.
Ubuso bakho xa umntu evuma ukuba athande nomntakwabo okanye udade wakho.
18. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubuso bakho xa umzalwana okanye udade ekhulile, kodwa ungeyonto yonwabileyo ukujonga into enjalo "edabukisayo".
19. Abazalwana kunye noodade bakhetha ukuzama into entsha. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kulungile.
20. Indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ingacaciseki ukuba umzalwana okanye udade uhlala endaweni yakho yokuphakanyiswa.
21. Izicelo zabazalwana kunye noodade bahlala benelisekile ngokuchasene noko. Ikhathalela ngokukodwa ukutya.
22. Nangona kukho konke ukungonakali, kuphela umzalwana okanye udade ozimisele ukukunceda kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu.
23. Kwaye, ngobudlelwane obunjalo, akukho mda phakathi: yimfazwe enyantya okanye uthando olungapheliyo.