Ukuhambelana nokuchaneka

Kutheni kulula kakhulu ukuba sisebenzisane nabanye abantu kwaye kunzima ukuvuma into ethile nabanye? Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto, kwaye enye yazo ingumlinganiselo wokuhlalisana kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo zesimo. Ukuba ukhumbule ukutshisa komntu okhulayo, ukuhambelana kwakhe nezinye i-choleric, i-sanguine, i-melancholic kunye ne-phlegmatic ayilungile, kodwa kunjalo, abantu abaninzi abaqaqambileyo nabomeleleyo bahlala emtshatweni ovuyayo. Makhe sibone indlela izinto zikunye ngayo nokuphila kwabameli bezinto eziphambili.

Ukuhambelana ne-choleric kunye ne-choleric

I-grenade yangempela ngaphandle kwesheke kwisimo somntu, i-choleric ayishiyi nabani na ongenamdla. Abanye abantu bayamhlonela umsebenzi wakhe, abanye bavutha ngumnqweno wakhe wokugcina izinto ezihambelanayo nazo zonke izinto. E mse benzini umntu onjalo, njengesivunguvungu esitshabalalisa zonke izithintelo endleleni kwaye ngokungahambiyo uya phambili, oogxa kunye nabo. Ekhaya, unomdlandla kwaye nangemva komhla wokuxakeka komsebenzi unokunyanzelisa intsapho yakhe ngxinzelelo olungxamisekileyo, ngokuxelayo ngeendaba zonke, ukudumisa isidlo sakusihlwa, ukuyidla nokujonga iindawo ezininzi zolwazi. Umntu onjalo osebenzayo akanako ukunambitha, aphile kwi-volcano yinkimbinkimbi, kwaye ukuhambelana nokubukeka kwe-choleric kunye ne-choleric kunye nayo yonke into engabonakaliyo. Iingcali zengqondo zivumelana ngoku, ziqikelela ukuba izibini ezixhaphazayo zihlala ziphikisana kunye nezigxeko kunaliphi na ithuba. Kwaye konke okubaluleke kakhulu uthando olungenakuqhathaniswa nolwahlukileyo ukuthetha kunye nokungafuni ukuphulaphula umlingane.

I-Choleric nezinye iindidi zengqondo

Kunzima kunzima ukuba nolwalamano lwe-choleric ne-sanguine, abakwazi ukuziqhayisa ngamanani aphezulu ngokuhambelana. Lo mbhangqwana uya kuba nomculo oqaqambileyo, iimvakalelo apha ziya kuba yintloko. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuya kwenzeka ngenxa yokuncintisana rhoqo yesundu.

Ukuhambelana kwamaqabunga anama-melancholic kunye nama-choleric afunwa kakhulu, omnye unobungozi kakhulu, kwaye enye inomsindo kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, i-choleric iya kuhlala ikhubekisa i-melancholic, nangona yena ngokwakhe akayithandi.

Kodwa umanyano wezithembiso ze-phlegmatic ne-choleric ukuba zilungele, kulo mbini uyavumelana kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Ukuzola kunye nokulinganisa i-phlegmatic kuya kupholisa umoya we-choleric, okwenza kube bhetele ukunxibelelana . I-choleric iya kunceda iqabane lakhe elincinci ukuba lithathe amanyathelo ebalulekileyo ebomini ngaphandle kokuba yenzelwe impembelelo yakhe.