Umxholo wokukrexeza usele udala kangangokuba kubonakala ngathi akunangqiqo ukuxubusha. Nangona kunjalo, bangaphi abantu, iimbono ezininzi, kunye nemibuzo nangakumbi. Emva kwakho konke, nokuba isitampu kwipasipoti ayiyithintelo kumanxweme. Kwaye kwababini bobabini bomtshato. Emva koko, umfazi otshatileyo njengenkosikazi ayiyona into entsha. Kodwa kutheni amadoda ngokunyuka ukhetha abo sele bebophelelwe ngumtshato kwaye lide kangakanani ixesha elinjalo?
Umthandane otshatileyo kunye nomfazi otshatileyo
Ulwalamano oluphakathi komntu kunye nenkosikazi luhlukile. Abanye abamele isigqeba esomeleleyo sabantu basinda "ngakwesobunxele" kwi-boredom, abanye, ngokunjalo banyuse ukuzithemba kwabo, kwaye okwesithathu, okungaqhelekanga, kwakhona kukho ukuvakalelwa ngokuthandana nothando olutsha. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yesi sizathu bahlukanisile nabafazi babo. Nangona kunjalo, naphezu kwemizekelo enjalo, inkosikazi efanelekileyo yindoda esatshatileyo inesitampu kwipaspoti yakhe. Masizame ukubona isizathu sokuba oku kwenzeke.
Yintoni elindelwe ngumntu kwikosikazi?
Ubuncinane umahluko kumfazi wakhe, ngaphandle koko ukukrexeza akunakuyenza ingqiqo. Iipota ezininzi zezesondo eziqinileyo zibonise ukuba kuphela ezo ziphathamandla zingakwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zentuthuzelo yengqondo nangokwenyama, ukuba yena ngokwakhe utshatile. Yiyo ndlela amadoda achaza ngayo oku:
- Inkosikazi etshatileyo yendoda esatshatileyo ayiyi kudala ezo ngxaki ezinokuvela kumfazi okhululekileyo. Wena. ubuncinane akayi kuzama ukutshabalalisa intsapho;
- Ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda kunye nenkosikazi, enesitampu kwipasipoti kulula kakhulu kwaye ngezimali. Inkazana enomfazi ayikwazi ukufumana izipho ezininzi ezibizayo;
- Umfazi otshatileyo akanalo ixesha lokuya rhoqo kwiintlanganiso, ngoko akayi kuzikhathaza ngeefowuni ezingapheliyo, kwaye iintlanganiso kunye naye ziya kuhlala zivelisa;
- Amadoda athande ukungafani, kunye neemeko ezimbi. Inkosikazi enomnye umntu - iya kuhlala iyimfihlelo kunye nokulumkisa okufunekayo;
- Umfazi otshatileyo unenkathalo kwaye unengxaki, kuba uyakhathazeka imihla ngemihla malunga nentlalontle nokuthula kwintsapho yakhe;
- Abasetyhini abatshatileyo banokuthula kwaye bazingcingi kunokuzikhethela. Ukongezelela, ibhinqa elijongene nolwalamano luhlala luzinzileyo kwaye luzimeleyo kwaye aluguquleli uxanduva kumagxa omntu;
- ukuba nenxalenye yaloo nto ibhinqa lula. Akahambisani nama-hysterics kunye nama-scandals, kwaye baya kukwazi ukuthobela ngokuzenzekelayo indawo ye-cougar ehlulekile.
Kwaye kutheni umfazi otshatileyo otshatileyo?
Ngokusekelwe kwiingcamango ezinjengamadoda, umfazi onendoda enomfazi otshatileyo unokungazinzi. Le hobby ayiyi kuzisa nayiphi na ingxaki, ngaphandle kokuba inenekazi iyazi malunga nokunyaniseka kwaye ihlazile ngayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukho uluvo lokuba abafazi ngokwabo baqala ukutshintsha abafazi babo kuphela ekuphenduleni ukunyeliswa kwabo okanye ngenxa yeemvakalelo zempindezelo kunye nesidima esicasulayo. Enyanisweni, ukukhangela inyaniso ebusweni, kufuneka kuthethwe ukuba kukho esinye isizathu, akunjalo. "Zama" abantu abathandekayo besini esahlukileyo abakwaziyo kuphela amadoda. Kukho intloni: "Spring. Ndifuna ukufumana umntu onobubele, kodwa umyeni wam akavumeli. " Kwaye kunjalo ngokwenene. Ukuba izizathu apho umntu aqala ukutshintsha aziwazanga nakakhulu (ukuxhalabisa, ithuba lokuziva ufumanekile kwakhona, umnqweno wokufumana ulwahlukileyo ebomini), ngoko kutheni ukuba loo nto ivele ingqalelo entloko yomfazi otshatileyo kuxhomekeke kwiimeko. Oku kungabandakanya umtshato ongaphumeleli, ukungahloneli umyeni wakhe, ukungabikho kakuhle kwengqalelo kumntu wakhe, ukugqithiswa ngokugqithisileyo kweqabane, eliye lafundwa ngumfazi, njl. Ngaphezu koko, udibana nomntu onomtsalane, owamxabisa, kwaye imeko yezinto ezifanayo zifana neyabantu abaguqula abafazi babo.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye inzima kakhulu. Umfazi otshatileyo womntu otshatileyo kakhulu engozini kunye nosapho lwakhe kwaye unokuyichitha ngezandla zakhe. Uhlobo lwakhe - lo mfazi ugxila kulo
Ngenxa yoko sinokugqiba ukuba abathandana nabatshatileyo, oko, ngokwenene, i-tandem ingqiqweni. Nangona kunjalo, ngokwemvelo, akakwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide: indoda ebudlelwaneni obunjalo iya kuba neengqondo ezintle, kwaye ihlawulwe ngamandla angaphezulu, kunye nomfazi, esikhundleni somyeni wakhe, unikela amandla akhe okuphila komnye umntu, ekugqibeleni uyonakalisa intsapho yakhe kunye nobomi bakhe bonke. Ngaba kulungele ukuba kube mngcipheko, ngenxa yale miphumo yeziganeko, wonke umntu ukhetha yena. Kodwa ukulungelelaniswa kokuxhamla okunjalo kwicala lucacile, oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kuba nezizukulwana ezitsha zabathandwayo nabatshatileyo.