Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukuba umntwana usemnandi umntwana ufuna uthando lomzali kunye nokunakekelwa. Kodwa ngaphandle kwalokhu, umntwana akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kweengubo, izicathulo, amathoyizi, amayeza, iincwadi kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukuze umntwana abe nakho konke okufunekayo, ngaphandle kokuba usapho luye lwahlukana kwaye abazali baqhawule umtshato, umzali oshiyayo unyanzelekile ukuhlawula umzali kumntwana. Njengoko uyazi, i-alimony ihlawulwa kumvuzo womnye wabazali. Kodwa ngokwenene kuninzi umsebenzi ngaphandle kokubhalisa, ngokusemthethweni kungayifumana nayiphi na ingeniso. Indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuhlawulwa kwengondlo kumntwana kule ngxaki? Izenzo zomthetho zeRashiya ne-Ukraine zibonelela ukuba kwenzeka kulo mcimbi wokubuyiselwa kwe-alimony kwisixa semali esinyanisiweyo.
Iikhowudi zeeNtsapho zaseRussia (i-Article 83) kunye ne-Ukraine (i-Article 184) ithi imeko ye-alimony ingaba yi-alimony kwisixa esicwangcisiweyo kwiimeko ezilandelayo:
- umboleki akanakho imali engenasigxina;
- umhlawuli we-alimony unenxalenye yengeniso ngohlobo;
- Ingeniso yentlawulo iyahluka okanye ixhomekeke kwixesha.
Ndingayifaka njani i-alimony eqingqiweyo?
Ukuze ufune i-alimony kwimali enzima, kufuneka ufake isicelo kwinkundla, ngaphandle kokulibala ukufakela la maxwebhu alandelayo kwisitatimende sesibango:
- ikopi yesitifiketi sokuzalwa somntwana kunye nomtshato (ukuba abazali baqhawule ngokusemthethweni);
- ikopi yesicelo (kwinani lamacandelo) ekubuyiseleni i-alimony;
- amaxwebhu ngomlinganiselo wommangali kunye nengeniso yommangalelwa;
- amaxwebhu kwindawo yokuhlala ngokubambisana nommangali;
- amaxwebhu kumlinganiselo wolondolozo olufunekayo womntwana.
Ukuqalisa ukuhlawula i-alimony kwimali echanekileyo yemali inokubakho umzuzi we-alimony kunye nomvuzo wabo. Inkundla ingahlawula ukuhlawulwa kwe-alimony kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18, ngexesha elifanayo kwimali echanekileyo yemali kunye nenxalenye yemvuzo.
Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kuphela ukwazi ngemali yomlingane wangaphambili, ukwenzela ukuba ufumane kuye u-alimony kwixabiso elifunayo akwanele, inkundla iya kufuna iimpawu-eziqinisekisiweyo ezisemthethweni. Kwakhona kunengqiqo ukufuna ukuqeshwa kwe-alimony echanekileyo xa iqabane lomntu wokuqala linomsebenzi obonisa impatho engenanto engafanelekanga - umdlali, umculi, umculi, njl.
Isixa semali e-alimony kwisixa esiqinileyo
Isixa esicwangcisiweyo se-alimony sinqunyanyiswa ngokubhekiselele kumgangatho wokuhlala kumntwana kwaye uxhomekeke kwisicatshulwa-ukulungiswa kwemali ngokuqwalaselwa kwamanani emali. Xa kunqunywe inani le-alimony, inkundla ithatha ingqalelo imeko yemitshato kunye nezinto eziphathekayo kuzo zonke iindibano, zombini umhlawuli kunye nomxhamli we-alimony, kwaye ivela ekuphuculeni izinga lokugqibela lomkhuseleko kumntwana. Ukuba abantwana bahlala ngenxa yokuqhawulwa kwabazali kunye nomtshato ngamnye, inkundla iya kubuyisa i-alimony ngokuya kumzali onomvuzo ophantsi kwixabiso elimisiweyo.
EUkraine, inani le-alimony ayikwazi ukuba ngaphantsi kwe-30% yemali yokugcina ubuncinane esetyenziselwe umntwana wexesha elifanayo (Isiqendu 182 soMthetho weNtsapho wase-Ukraine). Ngo-2013
Xa umhlawuli we-alimony engasebenzi kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, akakwazi ukuhlawula umlondolozo kumntwana, ngoko akumkhululi ekuhlawuleni kwentlawulo. I-Alimony ngeli xesha liqokelela kwaye zakha ityala, apho kuya kuyanyanzeleka ukuba ayihlawule emva kokufumana imali engenayo. Ukuba akafuni ukwenza oku, ummkeli we-alimony unelungelo lokufakela isicelo sokubamba ipropati yakhe.