Ngaphi na, ukutshintsha iziteshi, sifumana umboniso we-TV oqhelekileyo, apho abathathi-nxaxheba, njengotshintsho lwe-wand magic, bajika kwiigundane zegrey kwiindawo ezibucayi? Ukutshitshiswa, ukumxela ngokufutshane, umxhelo weemvakalelo kunye neengcinga ze-heroine ukuba yonke into iya kuhluka ngoku. Emva kwenyanga, sibona intombazana enye, kodwa ngendlela eqhelekileyo kuye: ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo kwento yokwenza, i-jeans egugile, i-sweat engenasiphako kunye nesithandane esifana nesiqhwala esinjengomsila otyumkileyo. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo?
Gxila kuwe
Ukufikelela kwimiboniso enjalo, ngethemba lokuguqula ubomi babo ngokugqithiseleyo, abafazi bahlala belibale, okanye bengazi ukuba i-crux yale ngxaki isentloko. Kulula kakhulu ukuthembela kuma-stylists abanamava, abaculi bokuzenzela, abagxeki befashini, kunye nabagqirha, kwaye ngoko-ukuze bafumane entsha. Ukubamba kuphela kukuba ngaphandle kokusebenza ngokuzikhandla kwi "I" yakho yonke imizamo ayize. Njengoko kuyaziwa, umzimba wethu uyingqayizivele ukugatya amazwe angaphandle, ngokomgaqo ofanayo, kunye ne-psyche.
Kubonakala kulula kakhulu - emva kwexesha elithile emva kokuba utshintshe ngokugqithiseleyo ikhabethe yakho, xa ubona ukuvuselelwa ngokumangalisayo kwamanqabana e-TV, uvuyo lokuthengwa ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kwaye lunikezela ukuba "lukhanyise kakhulu", "andinanto yokugqoka" , "Ndineemilenze ezinqamlekileyo kwesi sketi", "Andikho ndawo yokubeka kulo mlobo."
Intshiseko ngokuqinisekileyo isiseko esona sisona shintsho, kodwa kufuneka sixhaswe ngokuzithemba kunye nokulandelelana kwezenzo. Injongo ingaba nayiphi na into: umnqweno wokumnceda umntu oyintanda okanye ukufumana enye, umnqweno wokuba njengenkwenkwezi yakho yefilimu oyintandokazi, utshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo kwiqela, okanye ube ngumfazi kuphela, kwaye njengoMarilyn Monroe, owaziwayo uMarilyn Monroe, "ungakhathazeki, kodwa ukhathazeke."
Ungaqala njani ukusebenza wena?
- Ukujonga kwisibuko, zihlolisise ngokuchanekileyo, thobela ingqalelo kwiimpazamo zakho kunye neziqhamo. Ukuba ubunzima obungaphezu kwesitha sakho sifungile kwaye sikukhusela ebomini bemihla ngemihla, ungazami ulungele ukungafuni ukuwususa ngegama elithi "kufuneka uzithande ukuba ungubani." Ekugqibeleni, unalo mntu ulala naye, ngaphandle kwakho, kwaye ukuba uyazi ukuba ungaba ngcono kwaye uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ngawo, uze uqale ngoku ngoku. Akunakho ngokutya okudakisayo kunye nokuzivocavoca, zama i- yoga kubasetyhini , ukudansa okanye ukubhukuda, kwaye inkqubo ayiyi kuvuya kuphela, kodwa iziphumo aziyi kudala.
- Zizenzele. Ukulungelelanisa, yenza umququzelelo omhle, sebenzisa imaski enondlayo, zama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwenza iimveliso kwaye ukhethe okufanelekileyo kakhulu, uthathe ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Ngaloo ndlela, inkqubo yokuguqulwa iya kunika inqabileyo ekhethekileyo, kwaye iziphumo zayo ziya kulungiswa ixesha elide kwaye ziya kuba yi-push for self-improvement.
- Tyelela umnwele. Akufanele ugijime ukugqithisa kwaye uqalise ngokutshintshwa kwezinto ezinzulu. Khumbula ukuba uya kuzibona kwakhona, kwaye ngoko wenze inwele yekhanda, elide liphupha, sele libonisane nenkosi ngaphambili.
- Masiphume iimvakalelo. Ukubambelela kwijusi lakho, uxanduva lomntu kwaye uvumela abanye ukuba bazibonele "njengentombazana yokubetha". Vula ihlabathi kwaye ujonge abantu abanobutsha. Ungesabi ukudibana nabo, emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokwenene, kubonakala ukuba ulwaphulo lwabo alukho nje indlela yokukhusela, kwaye kwintetho enokuthi inokuthi ungayifumananga nomphefumlo womntu.
- Lahla i-stampotype ye-stampotype, ngokutsho ukuba uthando luni luqala ngeelinen ebiza. Izambatho zangaphantsi ezimnandi - oku akungabalulekanga kubalulekile, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokukwazi ukuthenga iisethi eziliqela ze-brand elite ngaphandle kokuva kuhlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Thatha iingubo zangaphantsi, uhlale phantsi komfanekiso, - abacebisi abanomdla baya kukunceda. Vumela ukuba ikiti ibe nye, kodwa umgangatho ophakamileyo kwaye, mhlawumbi, nokuba yinto encinci.
- Musa ukuguqula ngokukhawuleza ikhabethe. Makuguqulwe phantsi kwefuthe leempembelelo zenu zesikhashana, kwaye, ngokuhamba kwexesha, esikhundleni seengubo ezidlulileyo zeembala ezingaqhelekanga, amehlo amnandi, amnandi aya kuthatha.
Into kuphela ongayifuni ukulibala ngokuthenga kuphela oko uvakalelwa kukuba ngu-100% kwaye uyazi ukuba le nto ayiyi kulinda isiganeko esithile. - I zihlangu. Kuba umfazi, njengokuba uyazi, akunakwenzeka. Imigaqo elula:
- thu thuzela;
- ubugcisa;
- ku fa neleka.
Nantsi kufanelekile ukukhankanya enye ibinzana elidumile emhlabeni wonke uMarilyn: "Nika ibhinqa iimbatho ze-stilettos kwaye uya kuyisa ihlabathi lonke!"