Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba igama lichaza ngokuthe xaxa umphumo womntwana ngamnye. Nangona ngaphandle kokuqwalasela umbandela wezinto eziyimfihlo, igama lingaba yisisombululo segama lomnxeba. Kodwa kuzo zonke izigaba ezintathu zentsingiselo, igama labazali ngomntwana linokukhethwa. Kuthekani malunga negama eliphakathi, igama lokugqibela, emva koko konke, ngaba, kwiimeko ezininzi, kunikwe? Ukuba umntwana sele sele eneminyaka eyi-14 ubudala, ke akukho zibizo. Ngesicelo sakhe, abasebenzi beofisi yepasipoti bayitshintshe igama kunye negama elingenakuthandwayo, kunye nomnxeba "woluntu". Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho engazange afumane le minyaka? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe igama lomntwana kunye nomntu oyisigxina kunye nento efunekayo kule nto?
Ubungqina benkqubo
Xa ulutsha luneminyaka eli-14, yonke into iyilula. Okukuphela komsebenzi: ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-18, imvume yabazali (igunya lokugcinwa, umphathiswa) liyadingeka.
Abazali abathandwayo kunye neenfani bakhetha ukutshintsha abantwana babo xa beqhawula umtshato. Igama elitsha, igama aliyona ingxaki. Kwanele ukufaka izicelo kumabhunga ogciniweyo, i-trusteeship, kwaye-ke uye ku-ofisi ye-registry kunye neepakethe zamaphepha. A
Ngaba sidinga utshintsho?
Ngaphambi kokuba utshintshe igama lakho kumntwana, cinga yonke into ngokucophelela nangaphambili. Ekugqibeleni, ukwahlukanisa, ubomi obutsha ayikho into enzima yokwenza utshintsho lwekhadi kwigama, igama lomntu kunye nefestile yomntwana. Vumelana, kunokuba namadoda amaninzi, kodwa nguyise wezinto eziphilayo, nokuba yintoni na, wayekunike umntwana wakho.