Ukungabikho kwintlawulo ye-alimony yinto elithile kwisenzo somntu onetyala okanye ukungabikho komsebenzi, okubangela ukuba kungagcinwe isigqibo senkundla malunga nokubuyiselwa kwe-alimony ngokuphathelele umntwana omncinci. Umntu onjalo onetyala unokungafuni ukuhlawula yonke into okanye inxalenye yenkxaso yakhe yomntwana, okanye unokufakela ulwazi olubuxoki malunga neengeniso zakhe. Umntu unokutshintsha indawo yakhe yokuhlala okanye umsebenzi kwaye angaxeleli umlawuli welizwe malunga nalo, ngamanye amaxesha ahlale efihla kwinqanaba elingaziwa. Njengoko ubona, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphepha ukuhlawula i-alimony.
Kwaye inkundla kuphela inokumisela ukuba ingaba yinto yokuphinda ibaleke, okanye ukuba bekukho ububi ekukhuselweni kwentlawulo ye-alimony. Kwiimpawu apho inkundla inokufikelela kwisigqibo, kwakungekho nje ukukhusela okanye ukukhusela okungalunganga ekuhlawuleleni i-alimony kumntu onetyala:
- ixesha lokukhusela;
- ukukhutshwa kwentlawulo kubakho nangona emva kwesilumkiso esivela kumagunya okuthotyelwa komthetho malunga noxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho;
- ukuphindwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwentlawulo;
- indlela yokwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho;
- umboleki ubeka uluhlu olufunwayo.
Ukuba i-alimony, nangona emva kokulumkisa okufanelekileyo, ayihlawulwanga ngokuzithandela kwiinyanga ezingaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu, ngoko ukuphepha okunjalo ekuhlawuleleni i-alimony sele sele ifanelekile njengobungendawo. Kodwa ngelixa umboleki ephandwa, unina womntwana unokufumana inzuzo yesikhashana ngexesha lokukhangela uyise, okhusela ukuhlawula i-alimony.
Ndiyakwazi ukuphepha ukuhlaselwa?
Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuphindaphindiweyo emadodeni, umbuzo uvela: ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuphepha ukuxhasa abantwana kunye nendlela yokwenza ngayo? Ngoko-ke, umthetho uqaphele iimfuno zabantwana abancinci kwaye nayiphi na indlela yokukhusela i-alimony kukuphulwa komthetho kwaye umgwebi usongelwa yinqaku ye-Code Criminal kwale.
Ukuba ityala leenkokhelo zenkxaso lidlula imali yazo kwiinyanga ezintandathu, umsizi wesikhepheli unelungelo lokufaka isicelo kwi-arhente zokunyanzeliswa komthetho ngesigidimi esichazela ukuba umntu onetyala unetyala lokubulala imali engekho emthethweni. Kodwa ukuba kulezi zinyanga ezintandathu umboleki-ncinane wabakhokhela nayiphi na imali, ngoko uxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho alufi. Ngoko ke, akukho ndlela esemthethweni yokunciphisa umntwana wakho ngeendlela zokuhlala eziyimfuneko kuye. Enyanisweni, kukho ezinye iindlela onokunciphisa ngokuthe ngqo umyinge weentlawulo zokugcina:
- ukuvumelana nomqeshi ukuba umvuzo uhlawulwe ngokusemthethweni, kwaye inxenye - "kwimvulophu". Emva koko i-alimony iya kugcinwa kuphela kwinqanaba elisemthethweni. Kuphela akuyiyo yonke inkokheli eya kuleso sinyathelo esicwangcisiweyo ngoku;
- ungaxoxisana nobunkokeli uze uhambe kwikhefu elingasimali elingenamvuzo, kwaye ufumane umvuzo, kwakhona, kwi "imvulophu", kodwa ixesha elide nawe awuyi kugcinwa;
- ukuba unayo nayiphi na indawo yokuhlala, unokuyibuyisela umntwana ngokutshintshiselwa ukumiswa kweentlawulo zesondlo, kodwa unokwenza oku kuphela ngemvume yabaphathi bamagada;
- ukuba ukholelwa ukuba i-alimony efunyenwe ngumama womntwana ichithekele ezinye iinjongo, ngoko unako ukufaka isicelo kwinkundla ukunciphisa inani le-alimony;
- kunye nemvume yabaphathi bamagada, unokuvula i-akhawunti egameni lomntwana wakho kwaye, ngaphambi kokuba ufikelele kwinani labaninzi, negalelo elincinane kule akhawunti.
Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali ukuba ixesha libaleka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye akukude xa umsebenzi uya kufuneka ushiywe, kuya kuba nzima ukuhlala kwimpesheni embi kwiphondo, kodwa awuyi kuba nako ukuncedisa uncedo lwabantwana bakho ukuba ngoku uchitha ukuhlawula i-alimony .