Namhlanje kwi-teknoloji yanamhlanje, umlingo usetyenziswa njengezixhobo apho akunakwenzeka ukufezekisa ngezinye iindlela. I-Privorot yinkxalabo enamandla yeemvakalelo zomntu othandekayo, xa iqabane lifuna ukuba libe yedwa kuye kwaye akukho mntu. Amadoda kunye neengqondo azidinanga ukuphindaphinda imiphumo emibi yezenzo ezinjalo, kodwa umdla kubo awupheli. Ngako oko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi impawu zothando lokupasa kumadoda, ukuqonda ukuba umntu ufuna ukutshabalalisa intsapho yakho okanye uqinisekise ukuba i-rite eyenziwe yenzelwe.
Ungazibona njani iimpawu zentshukumo yothando?
Ndimele ndixelele ukuba kukho ezininzi izilingo zamagqirha kunye nokubandakanywa kweempawu ezahlukileyo. Zonke zinemiqondiso efanayo, kodwa kukho ukungafani. Ukuzibandakanya nokusetyenziswa kwamangcwaba amathintelo kuchaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bomntu. Indoda iyaxhalaba yonke into-iya kuba njengegusha, iholele ekuxhelweni. Ubomi bakhe busoloko buhamba kunye nokudandatheka, isimo sengqondo esibi, kunye nokubukeka kunzima kwaye kunzima kangangokuba kuyaba yingozi. Yonke into eyayinomdla ngaphambili, isuka kwimvelaphi.
Izibonakaliso zethando lokuthandana kumadoda kunye nokusetyenziswa kwecawa zentsimbi zivakalelwa kukuba zithandane nomnye umfazi ovela ngaphandle. Indoda ibona ukunyamezela kunye nokuphakanyiswa ngokomzwelo, kuba isithethe esinjalo sijoliswe ngokucacileyo ekutyhileni iimvakalelo zakhe nomsa. Into ebalulekileyo yokuhlukaniswa kwesi siko kukungabikho kobugwenxa kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kwemibala embi ngokumalunga nomfazi okanye omnye umfazi owayekude naye, kodwa akasayi kubonisa ubomi bakhe ngaphandle kwefuthe lomthengi.
Kuzo iimpawu zesipelo emadodeni kwinyanga ziquka ukubonakala kwangaphakathi. Indoda iyaba yincinci, inomsindo, inokubandezeleka ngenxa yentlungu entlokweni, entliziyweni nasemqaleni, ukwesaba ubumnyama kunye nesizungu. Kubonakala sengathi ulindele into ethile, kodwa ke uqala ukufumana ukukhanga okungenakuphikiswa komthengi wenkonzo, kunye nobomi obusondeleyo kunye nabanye abafazi. Iimpawu zokuqala zothando lomdemon ziphinda kumadoda kunzima ukubona. Ngokwesiko esinjalo, isikhungo samandla esini somntu sichaphazeleka, kwaye uyaxhalabisa ngesondo. Uhlala efuna uqhagamshelwano olutsha kwaye enze uthando kungekhona kuphela kumthengi wempembelelo, kodwa kunye namanye amaqabane.
Ukuba umntu utshintshwe nge-Voodoo doll, ngoko ujika ube yi-zombie. Umthengi womcimbi angaba ngumdlali onjalo kwaye athathe iingcingo, ukulawula intanda. Ukuthanda kwakhe kugxothwa ngokupheleleyo, akukho zizathu ezibalulekileyo ezihambelana nesidingo sokutya nokutya. Qaphela ukuba olo hlobo lungaba kwi "galasi" amehlo acetywayo. Ukuba isipelingi senziwa emangcwabeni kumntu ofileyo, ke umntu uya kutshintshwa ngokupheleleyo. Indoda efile ikhupha iindiza zobomi kuyo, kwaye iphela phambi kwamehlo ethu. Kule meko, kuphela umthengi wesithethe esixabisekileyo, kwaye akukho mntu.
Iziphumo zesiphelo
Iimpawu zothando zithemba kumadoda, ewe, zisoyikekayo, kodwa zingekho phantsi kobubi kunye nemiphumo yazo, kungekhona kuphela kubantu, kodwa kumfazi owenze. Ngabantu, ngokwenene, yonke into icacile. Awukwazi ukuhlala kwaye asebenze ngokugcwele emva kokuba umvuzo ongenakukwazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo baqala ukusela nokuphelisa ubomi kakhulu kusasa, baqhekeza ukuwaphula. Kubasetyhini, isithethe esinjalo sinoyikekayo kuba baqala ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kumntu oye waphonywa, uthando lwabo ngaye lukhawuleza. Ebomini babo, akukho nto inokubakhoyo eyenzekayo, kodwa abantwana okanye abazukulu bangaqala ukuhlawula oko bakwenzileyo, kwaye le nto yinto ebenzeka kakhulu.