Uninzi lwabantu kufuneka lunxibelelane imihla ngemihla nabantu abaninzi abaneempawu ezizimeleyo zobunjani , isimo sengqondo. Kwaye ukuqinisekisa ukuba amacala omabini avuyiswa yintetho, kwakungabikho ukuxhatshazwa kunye neemeko zengquzulwano, kubalulekile ukwazi imithetho yegolide yoqhagamshelwano.
Imithetho e-10 yegolide yonxibelelwano
- Kwimpikiswano, akukho mntu uphumelele. Kukho omnye kuphela oza kudinwa ngengxoxo kwaye ubone ukuba kukulungele ukukunika. Ngoko, ukuba imeko isondele kwimvelaphi yempikiswano, zama ukuqonda ngokwakho ukuba ngubani odibanisayo ozama ukubonisa ukuba uyazi. Zama ukuphepha izimpendulo ezinzima.
- Imithetho yokunxibelelana ngokungahambisani nentsholongwane ifundwa: melana nokunyamezela. Ngenxa yeempawu, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uqonde ukuba unxibelelwano. Kwaye nangona ukuba awufumananga iziganeko ezintle zomntu , zihlala zihlala zixhomekeke. Musa ukukhalaza.
- Gcina, ukuze ungagcini kakhulu. Uyakuphepha abo bathetha ngokungapheliyo? Ngoko ke, soloko ukhumbuza ukuba abantu bafuna ukunxibelelana, kungekhona iimboniso zomdlali omnye, ongu-oologue ohlala kwiiyure eziliqela. Ngaphezu koko, unako, ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuxelela into engafanelekanga ukuba uyazi kumnxibelelwano wakho okanye malunga nawe, okanye ngomnye umntu.
- Imithetho esemininzi yokunxibelelana nabantu bayincoma ukuba ukhumbule bonke abo bahlangana nawe endleleni yokuphila. Qaphela amagama abo, indawo yokuhlangana nabo. Ukuba emhlanganweni wokuqala awukhumbuli igama lomfokazi, unganqikazi ukubuza kwakhona. Kwixesha elizayo, ngexesha le ncoko ngexesha elifanelekileyo, qhagamshelana naye ngegama.
- Ukuba indlu yakho yahanjelwa yiindwendwe, ukudala umoya onobungane, unokuyicima imeko ngokubanika into yokutya okanye yokusela. Ngaloo nto kubalulekile ukupheka ngokukhawuleza loo nto yokutya. Ngako oko, akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuba uyenze kwangaphambili ukulungiselela ngokukhawuleza kwezi zokutya.
- Ngokuphathelele ii-imeyili, kungcono ukuba zifutshane. Vumelani ukuba akukuvuyi ukufunda iincwadi ezininzi ezinobunzima kuphela ukuze ufumane isivakalisi esinye, oko kukuthi
yonke ingongoma engentla. - Funda ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo ngefowuni. Uyakwazi ukwahlula imeko apho kufanelekile ukuxelela umxhatshazi malunga neemvakalelo zakho, kwaye apho kufanelekile ukuhlala ucebile. Ngoko, yonke ibhasi ayifuni ukuba ukwazi ukuba wenza ntoni usuku lonke.
- Bonisa umnxibelelwano onomdla kwizinto ezithandwayo.
- Zama ukugcina ubudlelwane kunye nabahlobo bakho nabaqhelana nabo.
- Kwimeko xa umntu ongaphandle engena kwingxoxo, thatha inyathelo ezandleni zakho uze ungene kwincoko ngokukhawuleza.