Ixesha lingahambi ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ube nexesha lokujonga emva, indlela intombazana yakho intombazana eya kuba ngayo intombazana. Kule nqanaba ukuba ubunzima bokuthetha nomntwana kuninzi unina luqala. Masizame ukujonga indlela yokuseka ubudlelwane nentombi xa ekhulile aze abe nohlobo naye, abe ngumhlobo ongcono kunye nomcebisi kunoma yiphi imicimbi yakhe.
Indlela yokuseka ubudlelwane nentombi endala?
Uninzi unina akwazi ukuziphatha kakuhle nentombi eye yaba ngumntu omdala, ngenxa yoko, ukungaqondani kuqala ukuphakama, iingxabano ezinokuthi zihlukanise abantu abasondeleyo. Ukuphulaphula izi ngcebiso ezilandelayo, unokuba ngabahlobo bokwenene nentombi yakho:
- Ungalokothi ulawule intombazana yakho ukuba wenza into engalunganga, khawukhumbule ngobumnene ukuba uyamnqwenelela kuphela, kwaye kuya kuba ngcono ukwenza njengoko ucebisa.
- Yiba nenkxaso yenkwenkwe nenkxaso kwiimeko ezinzima kuye. Musa ukungazibandakanyi iingxaki zakhe, ekubonweni kwakho ziyisiphukuphuku kwaye azifanelekanga kumava.
- Ukuba ubona ubundlobongela kwinxalenye yentombi yakho kuwe, ungaphenduli ngendlela enye, bonisa ukukhawuleza, uthethe ngoxolo, zama ukufumana ukuba yintoni eyenza le mpendulo ithathe inxaxheba kwintombazana.
- Ungalokothi usebenzise kakubi umntwana wakho kunye nabantu abangabaziyo, ngoko uhlazisa nje intombi yakho, kodwa wena.
- Qiniseka ukuba ucinga ngoluvo lwentombi yakho, kufuneka azi ukuba unayo kwaye uphulaphule icebiso lakhe.
- Ukuba unetyala lento ethile, qi niseka ukuba uxolise kwaye uvume impazamo yakho.
- Thetha naye ngokulinganayo, njengowesifazane onomfazi, oku kuya kunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane nentombi yakhe, kuba uya kubona umhlobo kuwe kwaye uya kuhamba.