Ngoku lixesha elinoyikekayo lokuhlala. Uhamba nge sitrato kwaye ungazi ntoni ekulindelwe kwikona. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza bayakuphanga, badlwengulo? .. Into ebuhlungu kakhulu kukuba ukwesaba akunakwenzeka. Khangela kuphela ukuba zingaphi ubugebengu obuhlukeneyo obwenzekayo, kwaye ke akufuni ukuba kwindawo yexhoba.
Unokuzikhusela njani kwaye ungabi lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho?
Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho lunemizuzwana eyisixhenxe ubude ngokwaneleyo ukuqonda ixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho lwakhe kwisihlwele. Ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba, ngumntu ogxininisekile ngengqondo onomdla, umntu okhathele, okungukuthi, ongenako ukuzama ukuphikisa. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kukho ezimbini iintlobo eziphambili zabantu abahlala behlaselwa kwiimeko ezimbi kwaye baba ngamaxhoba olwaphulo-mthetho:
- Uhlobo lo kuqala lwexhoba luloluhlobo lwabantu ababuthathaka nabuthathaka. Olu hlobo lwabantu lubona ingozi njengento engenakukugwema, bayayilungelelanisa ngengqondo. Abakwazi ukukhusela, ngokuchaseneyo, abancedi kwaye abancedi.
- Udidi lwesibini lwabaxhoba kufuneka lubandakanye abantu abaxhomekeke ekukhutsheni, bawabo, bahlala bengenalwazi, baziphatha, bangela ukuba izigebengu zixabane, zikhangele umntu wabo.
Ungathini ukuba ube yintlanzi yamatokethi, ukukhwabanisa, ukuphanga, ukukhwabanisa?
- Kufuneka ukuba uhlale uhlola: kwisithuthi, esitratweni, kwisitoreji, kwiofisi yeposi, kwilayibrari - naphi na, nakwikhaya! Yonke indawo inokulindela ingozi. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka, njengento yokuphikisa, uloyike yonke into kwaye ugweme yonke into ehlabathini, akukho. Hlala ubomi bakho obuqhelekileyo, kodwa qaphela, ngakumbi kwiindawo zoluntu.
- Ebusuku akufanele uhambe ngesitalato esimnyama kwi-headphone yakho okanye ukhulume ngokukhululekileyo kwifowuni yakho, musa ukukhupha izigebengu, qaphela.
- Ukuba kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza kwizothutho zoluntu - hlala kufuphi nomqhubi. Ukuba omnye umgibeli ongenakuzibhokoxa angena kwizothutho - ungaphenduli kuwo, ungaqapheli, ungaguquki.
- Ukuba esitalato kunye nawe uzama ukuthetha abantu abathandabuzayo, okanye uhloniphekile ekukhangekeni kokuqala, ungayibukeli emehlweni, ungavumeli ukuthetha.
- Zenzele isikhwama sempesheni, kunye nexabiso elincinci, elingafumaneka lula ngokuphanga.
Ungathini ukuba ube ngecala lokudlwengulwa kunye nodlova?
- Ukuba uyazi ukuba kuya kufuneka uhambe ekhaya emnyama, ungagqoki iimpahla ezingcolileyo, iingubo ezimfutshane, i-decollete ejulile, ungagqoki zonke iingubo ezikuzo.
- Ebumnyameni, ungadluli kuma-dark alleys, iipaki, iinqanawa, ukhetha indawo ezixhamliweyo kunye nangaphezulu.
- Udinga ukwazi umhlaba, kwaye apho amapolisa ekhona, le yinto ebizwa ngokuba yindawo yokhuseleko.
- Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba emotweni kunye nomqhubi ongaziwa, unike ingqwalaselo engapheliyo kwinombolo yemoto, biza izihlobo zakho uze ubaxelele.
- Ukuba ufanele uhambe ngenguqu emnyama ebumnyameni, kungcono ukuhamba kwisihlwele sabantu, ukuba akukho bantu, hamba uhamba.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukubona konke, kodwa ngokulandela iziphakamiso ezintle, uza kuba nobuncinci ukuzikhusela ekuhlaselweni kolwaphulo-mthetho. Ziqaphele wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho!