Nangona kunjalo, ekubeni umthetho wolawulo, okokuqala, ufuna ukukhusela iimfuno zabemi abangaphantsi komtshato, kwaye ukuchithwa komtshato wabazali kuya kubachaphazela ubomi kunye nexesha lokuphela kwabantwana babo, akulula ukwenza le nkqubo. Ukongeza, xa uzama ukuphula ubudlelwane kunye nesiqingatha sakho sesibini, unokuhlangabezana nobunzima obunxulumene nokuba nomntwana odibeneyo oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-18 ubudala.
Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela indlela yokuqhawula umtshato, ukuba kukho abantwana abangaphantsi, kwaye ziphi na iinkalo zale nkqubo.
Imimiselo epheleleyo yokwenziwa komtshato phambi koonyana abancinci
Njengomgaqo jikelele, ukwahlukana phakathi komntu kunye nomfazi oneminyaka engaphantsi kwabantwana kunokwenzeka kuphela ngeenkundla. Oku kusebenza nakwiimeko xa umama noyise bavuma ukuba ngubani umntwana wabo oza kuhlala ezayo, kunye nendlela abaya kumfundisa ngayo, kunye neemeko xa benokungavumelani okukhulu nakweliphi na umcimbi.
Ukuqalisa ityala, umyeni okanye umfazi uya kufuneka aqokelele amaxwebhu afanelekileyo, ubhale ngokubhaliweyo ingxelo yesibango, kunye nokuhlawula umrhumo welizwe ukufaka isicelo kwi-judicial. Ukuqwalaselwa kwimeko enkundleni inokugqiba ngokukhawuleza okanye iyakudlulela kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezinde.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba amalungu omntu omdala avuma ukuqhawula umtshato, abe nesivumelwano somlomo okanye esibhaliweyo malunga nentlungu yabo, kunye nokwahlukana nokugcinwa kwepropati edibeneyo, inkundla inika isibini esitshatileyo ithuba lokuxolelana, eliqhelekileyo malunga neenyanga ezintathu. Ukuba, ekupheleni kolu xesha, isigqibo esithathwe ngumyeni nomfazi asitshintshi, kwaye baqhubeka befuna ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato wabo, inkundla ichaza isigqibo sokupheliswa kobudlelwane bosapho phakathi kwabo kunye nokushiya imivumba kunye noyise okanye umama.
Ukuba ubuncinci eminye imiba phakathi kwendoda nomfazi ayifumanekanga kwisivumelwano esivumeleneyo, inkundla ihlola ngokucophelela bonke ubungqina kunye neengxabano ezinikezelwa ngamabini omabili kwaye iveza isigqibo esisombulula yonke imiba ephikisanayo. Enyanisweni, kule meko kungcono ukubuyela kummeli oqeqeshelwa ngolwazi oza kukuxelela indlela yokulungisa ngokukhawuleza nangokuchanekileyo umtshato xa intsapho inomntwana omncinci kwaye iya kunceda ukuqokelela onke amaphepha afanelekileyo.
Emva kokuba isigqibo esinqunywe yinkantolo sinokusebenza ngokomthetho, bobabini abatshatileyo banelungelo lokufumana ikopi enye yale fikethi ezandleni zabo kwaye bayithumele kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa ukukhutshwa kwesatifiketi somtshato.
Indlela yokulungisa umtshato nomntwana omncinci ngeofisi yokubhalisa?
Ngaphantsi kwemithetho yaseRashiya ne-Ukraine, le nkqubo inika umyalelo wokunyanzeliswa komthetho.
- ukuqatshelwa kweqabane lesibini njengento engekhoyo;
- ukungaphumeleli komfazi okanye umyeni;
- isilwaphulo sobugebengu somnye wabazali kunye nokholo lwakhe kwixesha elingaphezu kweenyanga ezingama-36.
Ukongezelela, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ingqalelo ukuba ukuba isibini esingazange sifikelele kwiminyaka emnye, kwaye ukuba le ntokazi ikulindele ukuzalwa komntwana, ukuqaliswa koqhawulo-mtshato kwi-judiciary kunokwenzeka kuphela kwinqanaba lomfazi.