Ngexesha lakhe uPlato wabhala ngelinye ixesha umntu wayenobumba bhola, imilenze emine kunye nezandla ezine. Kwakuyi sidalwa esizikhukhumezayo, sikwazi ukubiza ingqumbo yobuthixo. Oothixo bamgweba loo ndoda, waza wabahlula ngesiqingatha. Ngethuba lobusana banokuphinda babe ngabanye.
Uthando, akunjalo? Ukuba unomntwana onqabileyo, uya kuvuma noPlato. Kodwa ukuze uzive udibaniso lwemiphefumlo, kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokumanga ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukunyaniseka
Ngandlela-thile, ezininzi izibini ziqala "ukudibanisa" ngokumangalisa ngemilomo yabo, ngomlomo wabo uvaliwe. Oku kumana okumnandi kunye okunene, okwenene, amantombazana athanda ukuthandana.
Ngoko ke, sifunda ukumanga ngokuchanekileyo ukususela ekuqaleni.
Ngaphambi kokumanga, kufanele uhambe ngokuthe ngandlela-thile-ukujoyina izandla, uvumelane, ukhuphe kumlingane. Emva koko, ukumanga akuyena nje umqathango wokukhusela ukunyusa ukuchasana neebhaktheriya zangaphandle, kodwa kunye nokuqhagamshelana kakhulu. Umgca
(ayibonakali nakubonakala) njengento nayiphi na enye eya kuhamba kuyo.
Ukuncoma kunye ne-secret-whisper - xelela iqabane lakho into enomdla, kodwa bhetele, ukuhleka kwendlebe yakhe. Ngandlela-thile, naluphi na ukuhlekisa, nantoni na ethetha ngokungazwakalayo, iyathintela umntu njengendlela ye-aphrodisiac.Ngexesha lokumanga, umbuzo uhlala uhlala, apho ubeka khona izandla zakho. Abo baziyo ukumanga nokubamba ngokuchanekileyo baya kuhlala befumana indawo kubo, kuba akufanele uphephe nawaphi na ithuba lokuzinikela kunye nomntu onomdla. Uboya bezinwele, uhamba ngezandla ngaphantsi komgudu, ukubetha izandla, konke oku kunceda ukwanelise ukumanga.
Ngoko, xa ufumene umzuzu ofanelekileyo, thintela umlomo womlingane wakho, ubambe umlomo wakhe ophantsi, ugibe ngokukhawuleza uze ukhokhe umlomo wakho ngolwimi lwakho, kwaye ke, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, uya kulusebenzisa ulwimi lwakho kumlomo womlingane, oko kuthetha ukuba siye esihlokweni esifanelekileyo U kiss kiss.
IFrench Kiss
Leli gama lithetha ukuba le ndlela yafika kuthi evela kwilizwe apho ininzi labantu lidibene nothando-iFransi.
Akukho mntu uya kuphikisana nenyaniso yokuba lolu hlobo lokumanga luyithandwa kakhulu, inomdla kakhulu, imvelo kunye nemvakalelo. Kwakungekho nto enye, igxininisa intshukumo yobudlelwane phakathi kokubanga.
Ubusiso olufanelekileyo lwesiFrentshi luvela ngokwawo, akudingeki ukuba ufunde. Ukuqala ngeklasikhi, "inyulu" indlela, kwaye ungene kwisinambatho, awuyi kubona indlela yokulula ulwimi. Kodwa siza kuxubusha iinkcukacha ezincinci "umphefumlo wokumanga", njengoko iFrentshi ibiza ngokuthi:
- iilwimi zoqhagamshelwano - ulwimi lungasebenza enye iqabane okanye zombini;
- ekungeneni emlonyeni, kubalulekile ukuba "uphendule" kwaye "uhlolisise" (thinta amazinyo, iinsini, uhambe emkhatsini womlomo womlomo);
- ukunyakaza kolwimi - kunokusondeza ulwimi, "ukulwa" (njengokungathi ugxininisa ngaphezu kolwimi lomlingane, kodwa uyamelana), ukunyakaza kwesazi;
- Ngethuba lobusiso lwesiFrentshi, uxinzelelo kufuneka luxume, luphose ngokushisa, uphuthumele izandla zakho.
Kodwa awukwazi ukugxila kuphela kwindlela yokumanga ngokuchanekileyo emlonyeni. Kukho iziphene ezimbi kakhulu eziza kubangela konke ukuphelela kobugcisa:
- Ukuphefumula komzimba - ukuba awukulandelanga le ngongoma, ukungenelela ekujuleni kobugcisa bokungaboni akunangqiqo;
- luninzi lokuzama ukuzama ukwenza okokuba emlonyeni womlingane awuqhubi umlambo wamanqatha, kuba oku ngamaxesha onke kufuneka kugonywe;
- Musa ukubeka ulwimi lwakho lugxininise - abanye abantu banengqondo yokuhlanza.
Ngexesha lokumanga, musa ukukhawuleza naphi na, kodwa unganyatheli ndawo. Sitshintsha ijubane, yenze isigqi esingaqondakali kubabini bakho, emva koko, kisses bancintisana ngokusondelana nangokwezesondo.