Iimpawu ezahlukeneyo zesini - indlela yokufumana ingcamango?

Abanye abantu bahlala becinga ngocansi, kodwa kwabanye kubaluleke kakhulu, konke ukusola ngeempawu ezihlukeneyo.

Kubudlelwane obubini kwizinto ezilungileyo, ngokokuba amaqabane anesimo esifanayo sesondo. Okuzisola kwethu, akunakwenzeka ukuguqula nangayiphi indlela ngaphandle kokulimaza kwimpilo. Isizathu salokhu ngama-hormone. Umzekelo, ukuba ibhinqa linomgangatho ophantsi we-estrogen emzimbeni, ukufumana i-orgasm kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, kwaye ngokufanayo.

Iintlobo zesimo sengqondo sesondo

Kukho iintlobo ezi-3 eziphambili ezineempawu zazo.

Iqondo eliphezulu lezesondo

Abantu abanjalo babonakaliswa ngumnqweno oqhubekayo kunye nomnqweno wokuvavanya ebhedini, i-10% kuphela. Iinkalo ezihlukileyo:

• Ukukhula kwangoko kwiminyaka eyi-12;
• isondo ngenye yezinto eziphambili ebomini;
• Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bayayilahla i-preludes, kuba inkqubo ibalulekile kubo;
• ukuba awuhlangani nomnqweno weqabane, unokuya kwenye.

Iqondo lesondo eliphantsi

Kubantu abanjalo, ubulili abubalulekanga. Le meko ivela kwi-1% yabantu kuphela. Iinkalo ezihlukileyo:

• emva komva;
• mhlawumbi nje omnye umlingani wezesondo ngexesha lokuphila;
• ngokwaneleyo ukuba nesondo emva kwenyanga;
• Abantu abanjalo bathanda uthando kunye nolunye uthando.

Umlinganiselo wesondo

Uhlobo oluqhelekileyo lwabantu, malunga ne-80% yazo. Iinkalo ezihlukileyo:

• ngokwenene, abalalanga ngaphezu kwesithathu ngeveki;
• Unokuthi utshintshe amaqabane nanoma yiphina iminyaka, kodwa ukususela ngexesha eli nqwelo liye lancitshiswa;
• kulula ukuzivumelanisa nenye iqabane.

Ukuthotyelwa kwezitho zesondo

Ngokufanelekileyo, amaqabane ayenemimoya efanayo. Kwakhona, akulona ithemba elibi lobudlelwane kwizibini eziphantsi kunye naphakathi, kunye nohlobo oluphakathi kunye oluphezulu. Ukuba umntu unomzimba ophezulu wesondo kunye nomfazi ophantsi, ngoko iqabane liza kucinga ukuba iqabane lakhe libi, kwaye ukuba ngokuchaseneyo, iilebuli ezingenamandla ziza kuxhomekeka kumntu.

Kuthekani ukuba umoya awuhambisani?

Ubulili obufanelekileyo kufuneka buvuyise kubo bobabini abalingani. Ukuba nithandana, ke ukudibanisa kungafumaneka kule ngxaki.

Ukuba unesimo esiphakamileyo sesondo, kunye nomntu ophantsi:

1. Thatha ixesha kwaye wenze kunye nomlingane wakho obizwa ngokuthi "ishedyuli yesondo", ecacisa iintsuku zezenzo ezisebenzayo nezenziwayo. Le ndlela, ngokweengcali zengqondo, iya kunceda ukufezekisa ukuvisisana kule ngxaki.
2. Faka isicelo sokuthi "i-kroti kwaye unamathele", oko kukuthi, ngezikhathi ezithile umthande wakho umthandayo, umnike umdlalo wesondo kunye nokunye okunjalo, kwaye kwezinye iintsuku kubanda kwaye kumiswe. Siyabulela oku, uya kuqonda ukuba awuyisebenzisi ngokwaneliseko lwakho.
3. Jonga kunye noononophelo, kuya kunceda ukwenza umnqweno womntu uphinde udibanise impilo yakho yesini.
4. Yisebenzise inkohliso yamakhosikazi - yenza ukuba umthandi wakho abe nomona , nje ungayithandi.

Ukuba umntu usebenza kwaye awukho:

1. Umzingeli ngokwemvelo, umntu uya kukunqoba ngazo zonke iindlela, ukuze ukhulule kwaye ujabule.
2. Umsebenzi wakho ukukhanyela umthandana wakho kummandla ukuze angakhubeki kwaye akacingi ukuba akafunanga. Funda ukuthi "hayi" ukuze ivakalise kuye ngokuthi "ewe", kodwa ngekamva.
3. Zama ukufunda iireveli kunye neentlobano zesini, mhlawumbi ziya kwandisa umnqweno wakho. Apha, umzekelo, incwadana enokutshintshana yakutshanje "ama-shade ama-50 e-grey" iya kwenza okulungileyo.
4. Ukuba iqabane lifuna ngokusondeleyo, kwaye awufuni ukuba oku kufezeke. qhubela phambili kwaye uzinike ngesondo ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kokuqala. Ngomntu othandekayo, kuya kuba njengomdlalo.