I-sexologists ayinakuyixhala ngeKamasutra : ukuze nithokozane , kunele ukwazi nokwenza izinto ezimbalwa ezizenzekelayo zokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, ezininzi iintlobo zezikhundla zivumela ukuba wenze ulwabelana ngesondo kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa kwinto enomdla ngakumbi kwisicwangciso esibonwayo. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kwizibini ezithandayo ukujonga ukulandelana kwezibuko.
Izikhundla zesini esithandanayo
Izikhundla ezine ezisisiseko zibonwa njengento elula, ezinomdla ezintle. Zonke ezinye zikhethwa zikhetho, ezibonakala zibalaseleyo kwaye zibalabala. Ukuba amaqabane anazo ezi zikhundla kwaye azisebenzise rhoqo, ubomi babo sele sele buzalisekile:
- umthunywa wezithunywa zevangeli (umfazi ulala emhlane wakhe kunye nendoda phezulu);
- isikhundla semadolo (loo ntokazi ihamba kuzo zonke ezine, kwaye indoda isemva);
- isikhundla somgibeli (umntu ulele emhlane wakhe, kwaye umfazi uhleli kuyo);
- ukufaka "isipuni" (zombini amaqabane emacaleni abo, ibhekene nenye indlela).
Kuyinto elula kunye nentuthuzelo yesicelo esivumela ukuba sigwebe indlela abalingani abaphumayo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Kule meko, vumela yonke into ibe yiprosaic, kodwa zonke izikhundla zilula, ziyaqondakala, zilungele kwaye zingasetyenziswa rhoqo.
Iimpawu ezintle ezintle
Makhe siqwalasele ezinye iindawo ezintle ezithandanayo, ezahlukileyo kokubili kunye nobuhle, obangela ukuba unxibelelwano olunomdla kwaye olungavamile:
- Isikhundla se rodeo. Uhleli emanqeni, encike emva kwezandla zakhe. Uhlala phezulu, ejongene naye, imilenze ibamba isikhumba sakhe, kwaye ihamba phezulu iphantsi, iphantsi kwaye ikunene. Kubalulekile ukukhetha intlawulo yakho, eya kukunceda uzive ukhululekile. Iba ngumdlalo odlala umdlalo odlala umdlalo, ukuba iya kuba nentonga yeenkwenkwezi, kunye nayo - iibhothi.
- I-"barbarrow" isikhundla. Umi emagumbini omane abuyele kuye, encike kakhulu kwizandla zakhe. Uphakamisa imilenze yakhe ephakamileyo kunokwenzeka, unamathele iinyawo zakhe. Uyamkhokela ngokwakhe ukuze kulungele ukungena. Le nto ilula kwaye ingavamile, kodwa kulungile loo nto.
- Isikhundla "i-padlock". Uhlala emaphethelweni etafileni, unamathela izandla zakhe emva kwakhe. Umi phambi kwakhe kwaye umgubungele ngamadolo (njengendlela yokukhetha, unganqumla imilenze emva kwakhe).
Ukubakho ubuhle obuhle bebuhle kakhulu, kubalulekile ukucinga ngomfanekiso wabini bobabini, kunye nabasetyhini. Yena ngokwakhe uya kuziva ungcono kwi-clockers, kwaye oku kuya kwandisa uthando kunye neqabane lakhe.