Intsikelelo ithathwa njengenxalenye yomtshato. Ngaloo ndlela, abazali banikela imvume yabo emtshatweni kwaye banqwenela ukuba abantwana babo banelise ubomi kunye kunye. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, kukholwa ukuba xa umtshakazi okanye umyeni engazange athole intsikelelo evela kubazali babo, ngoko umtshato uya kuba novuyo kwaye intsapho inokutshatyalaliswa.
Ukusikelela njani isibini esitsha esitshatileyo ne icon?
Ngokwezithethe ezikhoyo, abazali bayibusisa intombi yabo kabini: ngexesha lomdlalo kunye nangaphambi kokushiya umbhalisi. Abazali bomyeni bayababusisa abasanda kutshata emva komtshato.
Ngokwesiko, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba imifanekiso ibusisa umfazi nomyeni, kuba imifanekiso yabangcwele iyimfanelo ebalulekileyo, ngaphandle kokuba leyo nkqubo iphendulela nje ukuba isifiso kunye namagama anomusa. Ngokwenene, kukho imifanekiso emibini:
- I-icon kaKazan Unina kaThixo ngumfanekiso ohlonipheke kakhulu weNtombi. Le icon isoloko isetyenziswe kwintsikelelo yentsikelelo yentombi. Bayijonga umlamli wakhe kunye nomncedisi wobomi bonke emhlabeni. Kukho ubungqina obukhulu malunga nendlela uMama kaThixo waseKazan ancede ngayo abantu ukuxazulula iingxaki zabo. Ngaphambi komtshato, iimpawu zicelwa ukuba zikhusele intsapho entsha kwimiba eyahlukeneyo kunye nesiso elibi, kunye nokunika abantwana abanempilo.
- I-icon yoMsindisi kaSomandla iyona mfanekiso omkhulu kaKristu. Iintsikelelo zabazali bomyeni zidla rhoqo nale icon. Kulo, uYesu uboniswa ngeVangeli ezandleni zakhe, ebonisa indlela elungileyo, kwaye ngelinye icala uyababusisa abantu abaphendukela kuye ngomthandazo . Ngaphambi kokuba umfanekiso ucele intsapho yolonwabo kunye nokuchuma. Yile icon efuna ukuqaliswa kuqala kwindlu esandula kutshata.
Kulo mkhosi, ungasebenzisa zombini iimpawu, kwaye enye kuphela. Njengendlela yokukhetha, ungathenga isibini somtshato okanye ipolisi, apho iifayile ezimbini zixhunyelelana.
Yisiphi isibonakaliso sesibusiso sabaselula ngoku saziwa, sihlala siqonda ukuba umcimbi ngokwawo udlulayo. Kungekudala, abazali abafanele balungiselele kuphela umfanekiso wesanta, kodwa kunye nethawula, apho kuya kufuneka ukuba igcinwe khona. Kulo gumbi apho intsikelelo idlulayo, kufuneka kube nabantu abasondeleyo kuphela. Umama womtshakazi uthatha ithayile eboshweyo ngezandla zakhe, kwaye uyise uyamnika i-icon, ekufuneka ayithathe nayo ithawula kwaye akukho nanye ngezandla. Ukusikelela isithonjana esincinci, kulungile ukusebenzisa umfanekiso ophakathi kwendlu, kodwa ukuba akukho nanye, ngoko kufuneka uyithenge kwivenkile yecawa, apho zonke iicons zigciniwe. Umama kufuneka agcine ubuso bebuso abujongane nabaselula.
Ngoku kufuneka sijonge ngesihloko ngokucacileyo, indlela yokusikelela abantu abasandul 'ukutshata ne icon kunye nento ofuna ukuyithetha ngexesha elifanayo. Akukho ncwadana ecacileyo abazali abafanele bayikhumbule njengomthandazo, kuba imiyalelo kufuneka ivela entliziyweni ecocekileyo. Nceda uqaphele ukuba intetho ayifanele ibe yinde kakhulu. Isicatshulwa luhlobo lwenkcazelo yexesha elizayo, apho abazali banqwenela ulutsha ulutsha, ukuchuma, uxolo, ukuvisisana, njl. Kwintetho, kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa kunye nemiyalelo ifanelekile. Ngethuba lokubiza amagama, unina noyise kufuneka bathabathe ngokuphindwe kathathu uphawu lweselula, baze babone Emva kokugqitywa kwenkqubo, i-icon kunye nethawulini idluliselwa kubancinci, ngubani omele awugcine njengempahla, kwaye nayo iya kudlala indima ye-amulet.