Ngoku nje ndaqonda ukuba andifuni ukutshata, andifuni abantwana, abahlobo bam bayamangaliswa ukuba kutheni ukuba kwenzeke ntoni, kutheni andifuni ukutshata, kuba bonke abahlobo sele besele batshatile okanye baceba umtshato kwixesha elisondeleyo , "ezi zinto ziyaziwa zibaninzi. Kutheni amantombazana efuna ukutshata - jonga oku njengethuba lokuba uzive njengowesifazane okanye ngaba uloyiko lonwabo? Makhe sibone.
Kutheni abafazi befuna ukutshata?
- Intombazana ifuna ukutshata xa iqonda ukuba ixesha layo lifikile. Ubudala bakhe nemfundo ayinayo indima. Ngexesha elifanayo, umnqweno wokutshata unokuba ngenxa yentela kwisithethe, ukunikezelwa komnqweno wabazali okanye umnqweno wokufumana imeko entsha yentlalo.
- Ukwesaba ukungabi nantoni, ukwesaba ukukhula kwedwa, ukwesaba ukufa akuzungezwe ngabantwana kunye nabazukulu, kwaye akukho mntu ufuna umfazi osemdala.
- Kutheni abafazi befuna ukutshata? Ngenxa yokuba bakhathele ukuba bodwa, banxinwe yinto yonke ebomini babo ukuba bathathe isigqibo ngokwabo kwaye bafuna ukwazi ukuba awukwazi ukubala kuphela. Intsapho abafazi abanjalo baba sisiphephelo sangempela kuzo zonke iingxaki neengxaki.
- Kutheni ucinga ukuba amanye amantombazana afuna ukutshata? Bacinga ukuba banokufumana u-oligarch obumnandi novule oya kubanika ubomi obukhululekile. Ukubeka nje, umda wamaphupha alao madoda ngumtshato wokulungelelanisa, isizathu esiphezulu sokupheliswa kwayo,
inzuzo ebonakalayo. - Isiza sokuvelisa, apho ngaphandle kwayo? Ngesinye isikhathi umfazi uyazi ukuba ufuna umntwana ngokunyanisekileyo kumntu ohamba naye ecaleni. Kodwa ukuzalela phantse wonke umntu ukhetha, emtshatweni womthetho. Unika ukukholelwa kokukhuselwa kwintombazana, ininzi yesitampu kwipasipoti ithathwa njengesiqinisekiso sokuba loo mntu akayi kubakho nantoni na.
- Amantombazana amaninzi ayamkelekanga ukuba aphile nomntu aze abele abantwana bakhe ngaphandle komtshato kwiqondo lokuziphatha.