Iingcamango malunga neentolongo azibi, kodwa, njengoko ziyaziwayo, zihlala zichanekile imifanekiso, ngokuchaseneyo, zichazwe kakuhle. Ngoko, okanye kungenjalo, ungayifumana ngokusebenzisa izinto ezikhoyo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngejele?
Iphupha elinjalo lingaba lumkiso ukuba amalungelo akho aza kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Ukubona abanye esitokweni kuthetha, kwixesha elizayo, abantu abathembelayo bayakukhuselwa. Umbono ebusuku, apho intolongo kunye neefestile ezicwangcisiweyo ziqikelele, kubonisa ukuba ngenxa yengqiqo yayo, kuya kubakho ukuphepha iingxaki ezinzulu. Ukuba uphupha ukuba uvalelwe entolongweni, luphawu lokuba netyala okanye umntu ozama ukukunciphisa inkululeko. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba uqaphele, kuba ubuthongo buya kuba yinyani. Kukho nolwazi lokuba iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukutshatyalaliswa kwezicwangciso zekamva. Kukho nembono, xa ndaphupha ukuba ukuvalelwa kukubanjelwa ukugula okukhulu.
Umbono ebusuku, apho uhlala entolongweni, kuthetha ukuba indawo ephilayo ebomini yangempela iyancipha. Umfazi otshatileyo uphupha, apho umyeni wakhe usetilongweni, ngumqondiso wokungathembeki kwakhe. Ukuba uphupha ukuphunyuka entolongweni, kuthetha ukuba yonke into iya kulungiswa kungekudala kwaye iingxaki ziya kuphelisa. Enye yeliphupha ukutolika ichaza iindawo zokugcinwa kwexesha elifutshane njengophawu lokufihla, eliza kuba nzima ukugcina imfihlelo. Ukulala, okwabaleka ukuphuma entolongweni, kuqikelela ukuba inkululeko yempembelelo yangaphandle. Enye indlela yokuphuma entolongweni ngumqondiso omhle, obonisa ukuvulwa kwamathemba amatsha kunye nokuqala kweqela "elimhlophe". Ukubona iimbolo zentolongo ephupha kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokuhlalutya ubomi bakho, cinga ngezenzo zangaphambili kwaye wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kunye noshintsho. Ukuba ukhangele iifestile entolongweni - oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba kungekudala umntu okhohlisayo uza kubonakala ebomini bakho.