Igama elithi "umgquba" lincinci abantu babangela iimvakalelo ezintle, ngokugqithiseleyo oku kukunyaniseka nokungahoywa. Kodwa musa ukuthukuthela xa uyibona kwiphupha, kuba, ngokuyisiseko, iimpawu ezinjalo ezintle zichazwe kakuhle. Ngoku uza kubona oku.
Uphupha umgquba?
Ukuvakalelwa ngumphunga womquba kwiphupha kuthetha ukuba ngobomi boqobo uya kuba nelifa. Ukuba esinye sezihlobo zakho okanye abahlobo bakho basasazelele, ufanele ulindele uhlobo oluthile lobuqhetseba okanye ukukhohlisa kuwe. Ingaba kwakhona isilumkiso sokugula kwasekuqaleni, kunye nokuvela kweengxabano kunye nokuxabana . Iphupha apho utshayela khona umyezo ngeengqungqungqelo kukuthi, ngokukhawuleza uya kuba nokufumana umvuzo womsebenzi owenziweyo.
Iphupha apho uhlambulula umquba kwididi yakho ngumqondiso ongathandekiyo othembisa ukufa kwesihlobo esiseduze. Kwintombazana engatshatanga, iphupha malunga nomgquba lichazwe ngumtshato wokuqala, oya kuphumelela. Ukuba iphupha lomdaka liwela entloko yakho, ngokukhawuleza ulindele iingxaki kubasemagunyeni emsebenzini. Ukubona kwiphupha indlela owela ngayo kwidungxuma, ngoko kwixesha elizayo unokuziva u-malaise omncinci. Kwiphupha lakho, ulayishe umgquba ukusuka kwenye indawo ukuya kwelinye - luphawu lokubheka ukuba utshintsho lobomi bakho buqu okanye utshintsho lohlobo lomsebenzi.
Kutheni uphupha umlenze womquba?
Iphupha elinjalo luphawu oluthethayo oluthetha ukuba utshintsho oluhle ebomini, umzekelo, lunokuba yinzuzo yemali, impumelelo kwimicimbi yothando okanye ukuthengisana ngempumelelo emsebenzini. Iphupha apho ulala khona emgqonyeni womgquba uya kukuxelela ukuba uya kukwazi ukugcina imali eninzi ukuze ufumane i-pobazdelnichat encinane. Ukuphupha umquba kwinqwaba, efanelekileyo ukumba, ithetha, kwixesha elizayo uza kufumana ilifa okanye inzuzo enkulu, kwaye unokufumana indawo entsha yomsebenzi.