Ukugqiba okokunika umamazala ngomhla wokuzalwa kunokuba ngumngeni. Emva koko, kubalulekile ukubonisa intlonipho, kwaye ukukholisa ngesipho, kwaye ubonise ukuba lo mntu uyintanda kuwe. Ukukhethwa kwesipho kuya kuxhomekeke ekubeni usondele kangakanani nomama wesibini, kwaye ngokwenene, usele ngumkhwekazi okanye ulungele ukuba nguye.
Yintoni enokunika umamazala kamva wokuzalwa kwakhe?
Ukuba awukaqhelanga nomfazi wekamva lakho, kufuneka ukhethe izipho eziza kubonisa izinga eliphezulu lenhlonipho. Buza umnqweno wakho, mbuze malunga neminqweno kamama, umsebenzi, izinto ezithandwayo. Ukuba uyasebenza kwaye usebenza kakhulu, ungobuchule obuphezulu kwaye ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, ngoko ungammisela ngeesethi ebiza ngee-office, ipowuni yomqokeleli okanye idayari kwiphepha lesikhumba.
Umthandi okanye umfazi uya kwandiswa yimpahla engavumelekanga yendlu, leyo yena ngokwakhe engazange ayithenge, kodwa eyona nto ingayenza lula ubomi bakhe. Ngokomzekelo, ingaba i-aerogrill okanye i-robotic vacuum cleaner. Esoloko ilungileyo njengezipho zowesifazane owafika itiye kunye nokutya, isethi yezinto eziphathekayo etafileni, iiglasi ezikhanyayo. Vele ukhethe umkhosi, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, unqande ukhetho, njengokuba bonke abesifazana abanokuthanda ukuyila.
Isipho esihle kakhulu, kunye nesizathu sokuba uqhelane nomamazala kamva siya kuba simemo sakhe, umkhwe wakhe kunye nomtshakazi wakho kwisidlo sokutya esilungileyo kwindawo yokutyela. Kuhle ukuba kukho umculo ophilayo okanye inkqubo yokuzonwabisa. Efanelekileyo njengemiboniso kunye namakhadi ahlukeneyo kwisitolo kwiimpahla zokugcoba kunye nezimonyo, kunye netikiti zamakhonsathi abaculi abathandayo bexesha elizayo unina. Kodwa izatifikethi zokuphumla okanye kwi-SPA-salon azikwazi ukuza rhoqo njengesipho somama-mzala kamva wokuzalwa kwakhe, njengoko unokucinga ukuba unomnqweno weentsuku ezimbalwa ukuhlala ungakhange ukhangele okanye ungabonakali kakuhle. Kungcono ukugcina izipho ezinjalo ngexesha oza kuba nolwazi ngokubanzi.
Yintoni endinokuyenza umama-mkhwenkwe wam wokuzalwa?
Izipho ezingentla zifanelekile kumama-mkhwenkwe osemthethweni. Kananjalo kunokuba kungeniswe kunye nezinto ezinonophelo, ukuthetha ngothando lwakho kunye nokunyamekela. Ngokomzekelo, kungabakho uhambo oluya kwindlu yokuhlalisa okanye kwindawo yokuhlala . Into enokuzikhethela kukuba kukulungiselela uhambo oluya kwiintombi zakhe ezisexesha elide, enokufuna ukumbona.
Unokwenza umlenze ococekileyo ococekileyo kwikhaya okanye isethi equkethe i-bathrobe kunye neelayi ezine-monogram ezidibeneyo, ezi zinokuthi zenziwe. Ukuba umama wakho wesibini uyayithanda imilenze, ke uthenge ibhokisi enhle, engayi kuba neentloni zokubeka kwi-shelf.
Ukuba uyazi kakuhle izinto zokuzilibazisa zikamamazala wakho, unokukhetha enye yenani elikhulu lezatifikethi zesipho ngoku ezinikezelwa ngamavenkile kunye namaqela ahlukeneyo eklabhu nakwiziko lezemidlalo kunye neenkcubeko. Ukuba umama-mkhwenyana uyathanda ukufunda okanye uyazi izinto ezintsha zakamuva zobuchwepheshe, i-smartphone entsha enekrini elikhulu, i-e-ncwadi okanye ikhompyutha yekhompyutha iya kuba isipho esihle.