"Makuxelele ukuba akukho buhlobo phakathi kwabasetyhini ...". Enyanisweni, makabe besithi, siyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kukho intombi kunye neyona nto ibhetele, kwaye yileyo yintloni yokuhamba nayo kungekudala. Udibanisa umbuzo owodwa, ungayinikela umhlobo wakho omhle? Emva koko, akukho mnqweno wokukrazula into ethile, kwaye awufuni ukuzama konke ukufumana njengesipho. Kufuneka ucinge ingcamango kwaye ucinge ngesiphi isipho onokukunika umhlobo wakho omhle, ngokokuba wayeyintlandlolo kwaye wayethanda.
Yintoni enokumnika umngane othandekayo?
Xa kuziwa kumhlobo osondeleyo, umbuzo wento engcono ukunika, ezinye zibonakala zingalindelekanga, umhlobo ongcono, yonke into iyaziwa malunga nokuthandayo kunye nokukhetha kwakhe, ngoko ke isipho asiyi kunyulwa. Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto ezilula, zininzi ubunzima, enye yazo - yonke into yayisele ikhona. Uye waba ngumhlobo ixesha elide kwaye ubonakala ekwazi ukumnika konke okunokwenzeka. Ngako oko, umbuzo onokwenzeka ukuba unike umqobo kumhlobo othandekayo uba ngumntu ophuthumayo kakhulu - izipho ezingavamile kuphela kunye neendlela ezithakazelisayo zokuzibonisa ziya kusindisa ekuphindaphinda.
- Intombi yakho idonsa ubucwebe, kwaye wanquma ukumnika igolide (isilivere) isongo. Kodwa nje ukunikezelwa kwibhokisi njengoko into engeyomdla. Ngoko ke, mnike ibhatile ye-chocolate (i-chocolate bar) ngaphakathi apho le bhonti iya kuba khona, i-wrappers yanamhlanje ikuvumela ukuba uvule kwaye uvale ukunyanga kwamaxesha amaninzi. Ngendlela, ngoko unako ukupakisha kunye nezinye izinto ezingenakukhanya. Into eyona nto kukuba ubumnandi buvulelekile kuwe, ngoko unokuyoliswa yintlungu emehlweni omhlobo;
- Ngaba upende wena okanye unayo indlela yokwenza i-portrait? Yenza njalo, kodwa ukwenza intombi yakho ibe yinto enomdla ngakumbi, vumela isithokiso sibe kwisimo sexesha. Unokwazi ukubhala ibali malunga nomfanekiso okanye intombazana eboniswa kuso. Khangela nje ukuba ibali lihle, amathombazana amthandwa nanoma yiphi ubudala;
- indawo yokubheja yakho kungesinye isipho, kodwa kwizinto ezimbalwa ezincinci. Ukuwafaka kwiibhokisi, uzibophelele kumtya. Phakathi kweeholide ukumema iindwendwe kunye nomgwenxa wokubhiyozela ukuze "banqumle" izipho. Ubunzima kukuba ufuna ukusika umgca ngamehlo akho avaliweyo, kunye nabo babambe iqhosha, banokudansa encinci kwinkqubo.
Enye ingxaki, uyazi kakuhle ngezinto ezithandwayo, kodwa uyayiqonda "njengengulube kuma-oranges" kwaye unesaba ukumnika into engeyomfuneko ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba ungagxininisi kwizinto zokuzilibazisa, kungcono ukunyamekela indlela yokuphila yomhlobo, kwenzekani ngoku ebomini bakhe.
- Ngokomzekelo, ngoku uhlakulela ngokusondeleyo ubudlelwane bokuthandana. Emva koko isipho esihle siya kuba yinto engaphantsi kwengubo yangaphantsi, iipahla zeesitokisini, i-negligee, iibhedi ze-silk;
- intombi yintombikazi exakekileyo kunye nezo zonke iintlobo "zobuhle" ezingenamdla kuye? Nika into angayisebenzela ngayo umsebenzi wakhe - ukubhaliswa kwiphephancwadi elinobugcisa, iincwadi zokuqala zokubhala. Kodwa ukuba uqaphele ukuba intombi yakho isandul 'isisongweni' ekusebenzeni, yenza oko kuya kumnceda ukuba aphumle. Izatifikethi kwi-salon yobuhle, ukuhlambalaza, "ukudonsa" kwindalo. Ukuba intombi yakho ihamba kakuhle ngexesha lokuthenga, uze ulungise uhambo lokuthenga, kunye nokuthenga into ayithandayo;
- Ewe, ukuba umhlobo uyayithanda indlu yakhe kwaye ahlawule ingqalelo kwizinto zangaphakathi, mnike i-accessory. Khawukhumbule ukuba xa ukhetha ufuna ukulandela isitayela kunye nombala wecala legumbi apho oku kufakwe khona.
Ewe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unjani uhlobo lwezipho onalo, intombazana kufuneka inikwe iindidi. Akufuneki kubekho ubunzima, uyazi izinto ezikhethiweyo. Ukuba uchithe kakuhle kwisipho, kunye neentyantyambo zakho intombi ayithandi ixabiso elincinci, lizama ukuyithatha indawo engabizi. Yenza okungcono ukuba kungabi mfuneko, masibe sisidla esincinci (1-3 iintyatyambo kunye nobuncinci bemimiselo), kodwa imibala eyintandokazi, kunayo yonke "imilenze" yabo abangenandaba nayo, okanye bayayithiya.