Umbuzo wendlela yokukrazula umlingo wokungcakaza uba ngongxamiseko ngakumbi kuluntu. Le ngxaki ibonakala njengesifo esibi esibangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukulahleka komtshato, ukutshatyalaliswa nokuzibulala. Xa umntu omdala okanye intombazana eqala ukubonakalisa ukulawula okupheleleyo komdlalo phezu kwakhe, kuyacaca ukuba ixesha lifikile lokufumana izixazululo zekhadinali.
Indlela yokuphilisa umlutha wemidlalo, ukuba umntu sele sele esesimweni esinzima sokukhathazeka kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka okanye ukudandatheka? Ukukhetha indlela, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nesazi sengqondo esimele sifunde ityala elithile kwaye ukhethe indlela yokwenza unyango.
Impendulo yombuzo wendlela yokulahla umlutha wemidlalo kukubuyisela ukucinga komntu.
Xa umntwana wesikolo esikolweni echitha ixesha elongezelelweyo kunye nexesha elide kwikhompyutheni kwaye ilungiselela izidumba, ukuba akukho nto yokufikelela kwi-toy yakho oyintandokazi okanye kwi-intanethi, izizathu zokuxhomekeka kwemidlalo kufuneka zifunwe kwezi zinto zilandelayo:
- ukungakwazi ukusebenza ngokuphumelelayo nokuzibonela kwiimeko zangempela;
- ukungaphumeleli kwimfundo, xa kungekho mithetho esekelwe kwintsapho;
- ukugembula kwabazali okanye abahlobo kwimidlalo;
- Ukujonga kakubi kwemali njengento ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini;
- umkhwa wokuthembela kuphela kwinqaba, kungekhona ekukwazi ukufezekisa impumelelo ngemisebenzi nemisebenzi yangempela.
Iintlobo zokungcakaza ngongcakazo - oku kukugembula kwabantu abadala (i-roulette, imishini yokugembula, njl.) Kunye nemidlalo yekhompyutha yabantwana abaselula (imidlalo ye-intanethi, imidlalo yokudlala indima) okanye inzondelelo yoomatshini benkunkuma.
Izibonakaliso zengxaki yokugembula ngentsholongwane zilandelayo:
- ukuphikelela komsebenzi wezemidlalo, xa umntu elungisa ubomi bakhe kumdlalo;
- ukulahleka kwamandla okuphendula ngokufanelekileyo imeko, ukubeka esweni izenzo zabo nokuvavanya;
- ubundlobongela, njengenye yeempawu zokuphuhlisa ukuxhomekeka kwemidlalo;
- akunakwenzeka ukuyeka, ukuvama okungalawulwayo kunye nobude bemidlalo;
- Ukuba imali kumdlalo.
Iingcali zengqondo, ukhetha iindlela zokuthintela ukuxhomekeka kwemidlalo, okanye indlela yokusombulula ingxaki eqaqambileyo, ixhomekeke ekukhohliseni umntu. Enye yeendlela ezigqithisileyo kubhala kwi-dependence game. Kuqukunjelwe ukucima ukufakelwa kwexesha elidala kwaye kunokuba kunqabile ukutshintshwa kwabo ngokutsha. Kodwa ugxininiso olugqithisileyo iingcali zenza ukufundisa umntu ukuba ahlule kwaye alawulwe umgudu wokumqhubela kwiingalo zomdlalo. Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yonyango isebenza kunye nosapho kunye nezinye izalamane zengcakazo. Nguye abaya kuba yindawo eqikelelwayo apho kufuneka afunde ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka.