Omnye unokuthetha ngokukhipha isisu kangangoko kunokwenzeka, malunga nenzakalo empilweni, malunga neengozi kunye nemiphumo enokwenzeka, kunye nemvakalelo engokomoya kunye neemvakalelo zetyala kunye nokuzisola, kwaye unokuzisola malunga noko kwenziwa. Nangona kunjalo, le meko iyahluke, kwaye njengoko iifomati zokukhupha izisu zibonisa, amaninzi amabhinqa ayahamba ngokugqithiseleyo kokukhulelwa ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo.
Abaninzi babo bantombazana abancinci abaye bahlangabezana nale ngxaki ngenxa yokungakwazi, kwaye ukuzalwa komntwana kunzima kakhulu kubo. Ngamanye amaxesha umfazi akakwazi ukugqiba ukuzala ngenxa yokugula, umzekelo kwizigulane ze-oncological, ukukhulelwa kunokuba yingozi kakhulu. Okanye imeko enzima yemali ibangela ukuba umfazi akhiphe uvuyo lomama.
Ngelishwa, zininzi izizathu ezinjalo, kwaye ukugweba izimvo kunye neengxelo malunga namantombazana azenze izisu azihlali zicacile, kuba, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, esi sigqibo asilula, kwaye sibeka ilitye elikhulu emphefumlweni wakho ubomi bakho bonke. Ukuba sicinga ukukhipha isisu kwindawo yokujonga inkolo, le nkqubo iyimigaqo engavumelekanga, isono esikhulu esifuna ukuguquka.
Indlela yokuxolela isono sokukhipha isisu?
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kumntu okholwayo isenzo esingenakulinganiswa nesono njengokuba ukhupha isisu asidluli ngaphandle. Emva komsebenzi, ngamnye umfazi uvakalelwa kukuba unetyala, ukudimazeka nokuzisola, umthandazo kuphela emva kokukhipha isisu kuya kunceda ukulahla. Ngokutsho kweCawa leOthodoki, umthandazo wowesifazane okhuphe isisu uya kunceda nje ukulahla umthwalo ogqithiseleyo wolwaphulo-mthetho, kodwa uncede umphefumlo womntwana ongakazalwa ukuba athole uxolo ezulwini.
Indlela yokucela ukukhupha isisu ngokufanelekileyo, xelela ngokucacileyo abaphathiswa becawa. Kucingwa ukuba abazali bobabini bafanele bathululule ngesono sabo, ukuba senziwa ngokuvuma kukayise.
Ukuba umntwana ongakazalwa ulahlekile, umfazi okhuphe isisu kufuneka afunde umthandazo okhethekileyo kusasa nangokuhlwa, kunye nokukhulelwa kwamathambo kunye nokukhulelwa okukhukhulayo. Kubalulekile umthandazo kulabo abaye baphoxwa phantsi kweemeko ezithile okanye abangazi kakuhle ngexesha elidala, kwaye ngoku baceba ukukhulelwa nokubeletha. Ukuxolela isenzo esipheleleyo kuyacelwa kuMsindisi, Intombi Eyintsikelelo, uYohane uMbhaptizi, kunye nabangcwele, ogama lakhe ligugu ngumfazi. Imimiselo embalwa yemithandazo emva kokukhipha isisu ekwazi ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokufumana uxolo kwengqondo:
- Nkosi, yibani inceba kubantwana bam, abafayo esiswini sam, ngenxa yokholo kunye neenyembezi zam, ngenxa yenceba yakho, Nkosi, musa ukuwacima ukukhanya kwakho kobuThixo.
- Nkosi, Nkosi Yesu Kristu, Nyana kaThixo! Ubuninzi bobubele bakho, ngenxa yethu yomntu kunye nosindiso lwethu enyameni lube lukhuni, lubethele, lube ngcwatywe, kwaye ngegazi lakho livuselele imvelo yethu ekhulile, samkele ukuguquka kwizono size sive izenzi zam: sonile, Nkosi, eZulwini naphambi kwakho, ngelizwi , isenzo, umphefumlo nomzimba, kwaye ndicinga ngengqondo yam. Imithetho yakho iyaphambukile, ayiyithobeli imithetho yakho, yamcaphukisa ubulungisa bakho, Thixo wam, kodwa njengesi sidalwa sakho, andiyi kuphelelwa yithemba lensindiso, kodwa ku-Imfiyo yakho engenakulinganiswa ukuzama ukuza kuthandaza kuwe: Nkosi! Ukuguquka ndiphe intliziyo ephukile kwaye undimkele, uthandaze kwaye undibeke ingcinga yokulungileyo, ndinike iinyembezi zothando, Nkosi, ndinike, ngobabalo bakho, ukubeka isiseko sezinto ezilungileyo. Ndibe nenceba kum, Thixo, ndibe nomusa kum, uye undikhumbule, umkhonzi wakho owonayo ebusweni bakho, ngoku naphakade naphakade naphakade. Amen.
- OwuThixo, Unesihe UYesu Kristu, uMkhululi waboni, ukusindiswa kohlanga lwesintu, Ushiyile, Uxolo, izulu elizukileyo, wahlala kwindoda engathandekiyo nesono, Ufumene ubuthathaka kwiSikhumbuzo soThixo, waza wathwala ukugula kwethu; Wena, Mfokazi Oyingcwele, waxhatshazwa ngenxa yezono zethu kwaye uhlushwa ngenxa yobugwenxa bethu, ngoko ke sivuselela ukuncenga kwethu ngokuthobeka kuWe, Humanoid:
Yibakele, Oyingcwele, Nkosi, kwaye wehla ekubuthathakeni kwethu kwaye ungasikhumbuli izono zethu, nomsindo onobugwenxa kubaphambukeli bethu, usisuse kude nathi. Egazini likaThixo wakho oPhezukonke, hlaziya yethu imvelo ewa, hlaziya, Nkosi uYesu Kristu uMsindisi wethu, nathi, ekubhujisweni kwezono ezikhoyo, kwaye thuthuzela iintliziyo zethu ngovuyo lokuxolelwa kwakho. Ngokukhala kunye neenyembezi ezinkulu zokuzisola, siwela ezinyaweni zenceba yakho yobuThixo, kwaye siyanxusa: Ngobabalo bakho, usihlambulule kuzo zonke ukungalunganga kunye nobugwenxa bethu ebomini. Kwingcwele yobuntu bakho, masizukise igama elingcwele, uYise kunye noMoya ophilileyo, ngoku kunye naphakade naphakade. Amen.