Ukuba kungekude umkhumbuzo wendoda enendleko, kufuneka ulungelelisise kuphela isipho, uluhlu lwabatwendwe kunye neentetho ezivuyisayo, kodwa uququzelele ukuhlwaya okukratshiyo ngokumnandi kwimincintiswano enomdla.
Imincintiswano yeminyaka engama-50 yomntu ingabi yinto ehlekisayo kwaye iyinyameko, kodwa ihamba kakhulu. Umgwebi wembhiyozo kunye neendwendwe zayo akufanele zihlale zingekho ngokutya ialadi kunye nokuxoxa ngezinto ezibuhlungu zemihla ngemihla. Ukuze uqalise le holide, kunokwenzeka ukuba uququzelele umncintiswano onjalo wokumnandi njengento "yeNtshubo yeJaji".
Intengiso yentlokontle
Intsingiselo yalo mbandela onomdla kwaye ujabulise kukuba izinto ezininzi zentlokontwa ziya kufakwa kwisitishi: ingaba yintara yokuqala, imoto yokudlala, umtya ovela kwibhodi entsha kunye nokunye. Umbonisi makalungiselele i-intengiso kwaye emva koko mema iindwendwe ukuba ibonise iqhawe lomhla ngelizwi elihle. Amazwi aqhelekileyo aya kugqiba ngokukhawuleza kwaye emva koko iindwendwe ziya kuqala ukubonisa ubuqili kunye nokunyamezela kumzabalazo wexabiso elixabisekileyo, ngubani oza kubiza igama lokugqibela, kwaye emva kwakhe akukho namnye unokucinga, uya kufumana umvuzo kunye nengcamango "Kwiyona ndlela ihamba phambili." Ewe, ndiza kufuneka ndilungiselele iindondo zamahlaya.
Ukucinga malunga nemincintiswano yomdlalo kwintlokontsi yeminyaka engama-50 , kufuneka ube nesigulane kwaye uhlakaniphe. Lungiselela imibuzo, imivo kunye neemvavanyo ezihlekisayo. Ngengcamango, ungathatha umncintiswano onemibuzo malunga nejubane, ngubani oza kunika iimpendulo ezichanekileyo, ngoko uya kufumana umvuzo - isithombeni sokuzalwa kunye ne-autograph kunye neyomdongo "Unolwazi olungakumbi." Vumelana, lo mncintiswano othakazelisayo nolonwabileyo oza kuzisa iimvakalelo ezintle kwintlokontle yomntu, kungekhona inxalenye encinci ye-adventurism.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba iindwendwe azihlali kwintlokontle yomntu, zinyamekele iimincintiswano ezihlekisayo kunye ezinomdla: imidaniso, ukuvelisa umdlalo obalaseleyo okanye iintambo ezidlulileyo kunye nezinto ezingavamile.
"Isipho esivela kwibhola"
Omnye umdla othakazelisayo kunye novuyo lomkhosi wesintu - "Isipho esivela kwibhola." Intsingiselo yolu khuphiswano kukuba iindwendwe nganye zikhetha ibhola, ephethe isahluko sephepha ngencazelo yesipho. Kulo malungiselelo uya kufuneka ukhumbule zonke izinto ezinokubangela ukuba udale kwiholide: intetho, ingoma, inkondlo, inkohliso, ukudanisa, ukuvuma, ukudweba okanye ubugcisa be-origami-zonke ezi zinto kwaye ziya kuba yisipho kwiqhawe lomhla.
Ukuba sele usugqibile kwiimvuthiswano zentlokontle yomntu ojika kwi-50, qinisekisa ukuba imidlalwano ye-mobile relay kunye nemidlalo yokudanisa ayinangxaki kwaye kunzima ukuyigqiba. Ngokomzekelo, unokuza kunye nokuncintisana okunomdla kunye nendawo enomdla kunye neenhlalo, okubalulekileyo ukuba izitulo zincinci kunabathathi-nxaxheba, abadlali bahamba bejikeleza kumculo, kwaye xa umculo uyeka, wonke umntu kufuneka abe nexesha lokuthatha isihlalo.
Ukuza nokucwangcisa loo mincintiswano kwiminyaka engamashumi amahlanu yomntu, unokubamba iholide enhle, engayi kukhawuleza ilibale ijubhe kunye neendwendwe zakhe. Inzondelelo yohlobo olunjalo luya kuba ngabantwana, enokuthi ungakwazi ukuza nazo izabelo ezilula. Ngokomzekelo, cwangcisa ukhuphiswano lwabaculi, bavumele ukuba badwebe iqhawe, kodwa ngeemeko enye - kufuneka udwebe ngeemfumba. Okanye mema abantwana ukuba batyelele inkwenkwe yokuzalwa kunye neziqhamo, nazo zonke amehlo abo avaliwe. Ukuhleka kwabantwana, ukuvakalelwa kunye neendwendwe ezimnandi - bonke baya kwandisa ukunqoba kwe-mass-entertainer kwaye bakuvumele ukuba wenze umkhosi wokufudumala wemvelo.