Iingcamango zabathandekayo zangaphambili aziqhelekanga. Kwezinye iimeko, loo mabali abonisa kuphela amava akhona malunga nomthandi wangaphambili. Ukuba, emva kokuhlukana, ixesha elide lidlulile kwaye umphuphi ulwalamano olutsha, ngoko ubuthongo lufanelekile ukuchaza. Ngenxa yoko kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi.
Kutheni sifuna ukulala ngesondo?
Kwezinye iimeko, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntu owayengumthandi ephupheni lunokuvela ukuba kukho iingxaki ekujonganeni nomthandi wamanje. Iphupha elinjalo lingaba yi-harbinger yezicwangciso ezingalindelekanga kwikamva. Ukuba ukuhlukana kwenzeka kwiqhinga lomphuphi, ngoko isondo kunye nomntu owayengumntu kwiphupha kunokubonisa ukungabaza okukhoyo malunga nokuchaneka kwesigqibo. Umbono wobusuku obusondeleyo nomntu owayengumthandi ngaphambili ungathetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kuhlawula izinto ezenziwe ngaphambili. Kwezinye iimeko, loo ndlela yokulala ibonisa ukuba kukho ukungathandabuzeki. Mhlawumbi lowo uphuphayo ucinga ukuba akafanelekanga into engcono kwaye engaphezulu kwendoda engaphambili.
Ngamanye amaxesha iphupha ngokulala ngesondo kunye nomntu wangaphambili lisebenza njengesilumkiso sokuba ngobomi bokwenene kukho isongelo sokungquzulana nesithandwa samanje. Le meko ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo, ekugqibeleni iholele ekuhlukaneni. Ukuba iphupha elinjalo liphupha umfazi ngaphambi komtshato, ngoko, mhlawumbi, unokungabaza ngokuchanekileyo kokukhetha. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nomyeni wangaphambili ephupheni kunokubonisa ubungqina bokunganeliseki kunye neminqweno yesondo. Enye into enjalo ithetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufuneka uhlawule ngokuzibophezela
Abaphandi banamhlanje bakholelwa ukuba ukuba ufanele ulale ngesondo kunye nomntu owayengumthandi, ngoko, ngokwenene, kukho umnqweno ongafihliweyo wokuba ube nalo mntu ebudlelwaneni. Ukuba iimvakalelo malunga ne-inttima kunye ne-ex-boyfriend zazingumnandi, ngoko umphuphi ulungele ulwalamano olutsha. Ukulala, apho ubulili bubangele iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, lumkisa ngeengxaki, kwaye kungekudala kuya kufuneka kwenziwe ukhetho olunzima. Ukuziva intlungu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kunye nomntu owayengumthandi ngumqondiso wokuba unokuthembela ngandlela-thile ubomi obuzayo kwaye, okokuqala, kwi-career.